No.17500 [View All]
>your parents parenting Style?
>your situation today?
-Uninvolved master race
-barely functional HikkiNEET who struggles with everything
Back then I thought it was cool to have been allowed everything (My mother let me smoke at age 14) but these days, I could smack her face for being such a neglectful cunt.
My family knew all of this, yet nobody bothered to interfere.
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No.17503
>>17500
>uninvolved due to consistently prioritizing work
>only reason I'm even going to university after years of hikkineeting is because my IQ is high enough to get away with doing literally zero work except attending lectures
>already planning on hikkineeting afterwards until I inevitably off myself eventually
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No.17521
>might as well have just aborted me/given me up for adoption.
>Would love to be a hikki, but can't, so I settle for living a solitary existence with my cat. I do what I can to eke out SOMETHING of an existence, but I'm really just coasting through life, doing as little as possible, waiting for the bombs to drop so I have an excuse to call it a life, if you know what I mean.
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No.17532
>>17500
>Doomers are made, not born
There are exceptions, you could be born with really fucked up defects, most of those guys become doomers and only a few stay positive.
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No.17534
>>17532
I would say it's a mixture of both, personally. It all depends on your parents.
>dysfunctional family → dysfunctional youth → dyscunctional adults → dysfunctinal society → doom
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No.17544
>>17500
Probably somewhere between permissive and uninvolved. They didn't gave a shit but I still had some limits I shouldn't cross otherwise father would beat the living fuck out of me and he gladly did. So instead being just one of those things, I'm antisocial while being impulsive, lacking achievements with no self-control but I can force myself to do something if I believe it's the right thing to do, I don't have self-reliance but I can create relationships with people here and there. Basically I'm ticking bomb all the time. Parents did what they could, didn't worked out as they intended, I doubt I am as I am because of their approach, I was always on my own, couldn't rely on anyone so I had to figure out everything myself and this is the result.
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No.17601
>>17500
>dat 3rd one
yes that is me.
thank you mommy, I will forever be damaged beyond repair
>situation today
alienated from everything in the world, no goals, no reason to live
>because my IQ is high enough to get away with doing literally zero work except attending lectures
this right me. I had good grades at college without putting in any effort
but why continue going when you see no future for yourself
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No.17609
>>17601
How is living in Iceland like.
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No.17611
>>17609
How would I know, never been there …
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No.17641
>>17532
True. Although I've also seen some disabled or ugly fuckers bursting with confidence and charisma.
If you somehow managed to get born healthy and at least average looking, it's all in the hand of your surroundings though.
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No.17709
>>17500
>third one
At the end they listened to me but the damage was already done.
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No.17712
Eh. You didn't do anything with your freedom besides jack off, that's on you. Don't worry too much about it, though. Your normie peers won't have much to show for it in the end either.
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No.17715
>>17712
They have jobs and relationships to distract themselves from what losers they are
People like us only have suicide, self-hatred and trying to become the next Pepe Escobar
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No.17739
>>17715
We all end up in the same place anyways.
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No.17755
Some weird combination of authoritarian and permissive, with the worst of both
>never allowed do anything that would improve the future: learn to drive, look for jobs, join an after-school club to make friends, etc.
>more than welcome to waste my youth on vidya and the internet though, no problem whatsoever
>by the time I realized shit should change, I was too much of a weak-willed autist to just ignore what she said and start improving
>reach adulthood
<you're an adult and you don't have a license or a job, when i was your 14 i was already learning to drive and i already blah blah blah blah
<do you not have any friends in this world anon? who do you talk to?
<all you ever do is sit on that computer all day
I mean yeah, I'm more than capable of being self-sufficient now, but that was after spending my college years figuring out what everyone else had down pat by the end of high school
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No.17763
>>17500
>your parents parenting Style?
Uninvolved with occasional sprinklings of authoritarian.
>your situation today?
Learned helplessness and constant anxiety work together to ensure I will never accomplish anything, but it's not like I have any goals anyway. I doubt I will ever be happy.
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No.17773
<Mother: mix of Uninvolved (chronic illness and two full time jobs as single mother after about 10-15 years) and Permissive the rare times she could
<Father: Authoritarian when not outright Abusive (where's this parenting style?), usually both
>video games, Internet, TV, and junk food dominate life from mid-teens to late-twenties before first full-time job
>shit grades, no college
>long periods of NEET with some short-lasting part-time wagecuckery until then
>now almost mid 30's (KV wizard), hate life even more now that I'm near-constantly emotionally drained by full-time wagecuckery
>jealously hoard every little scrap of non-forced-adult time to mindlessly Internet and vidya like I used to because I never learned anything else and/or can't afford anything more than deepening credit card debt with more junk food
>want to throat-punch everyone who bitches at me for not being more social
>fuck you all: my multi-mental-diagnosis'd fatass forces more cyborging into 40 hours a week, every week, than I can already barely handle
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No.17783
>>17773
This. I can't fucking take the wage cucking it's actually ruining my life.
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No.17793
Authoritarian parents, here.
I was basically permanently grounded from 14-18, couldn't have any electronics, dad would yell at me for hours every day and slap me in the face for the smallest shit. When I was younger, he'd actually pick me up and throw me against walls.
I've pretty much had a broken spirit my entire life. Then the 2010s happened.
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No.17819
and do you know what anons?
back when I used to have a job, I would occasionally see mothers who are not batshit insane with their children. Then I see them interacting
>mother is calm, explains calmly to children what not do do and why
>she shows them love and affection
>the children are not treated like some dog on a rope to boss around
and then I think about myself and ask myself if I could have been a normal human if I wasnt born into a subhuman family of mentally retarded cretins.
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No.17821
>>17819
I would see them when riding trains mostly
forgot to specify that
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No.17831
My parents glided in and out of permissive and authoritarian.
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No.17833
>>17831
Mine shot for authoritative, but landed at authoritarian.
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No.17836
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No.17883
uninvolved
my mother died when i was 8, and my dad was a compulsive liar, a gambler and fucking terrible with money, he never bothered to even take me to the park after my mum died
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No.17886
>>17500
>authoritarian / uninvolved combination
didn't really get involved unless something happened that they didn't like - then it was to exact punitive measures
>full blown middleaged neet. JUST
as much as i really hate to come across another "muh high IQ" pretentious cunt on the internet; if I wasn't lied to i'd like to establish some context
I've been in and out of therapy and on and off all sorts of antidepressants and anti-psychotics.
In my early 20s I got shuffled from one psychologist to another. I was upset at the fact I felt like I was being abandoned and ended up getting under the new guy's skin to the point that he told me to get lost on the first day. He said to my parents and the previous referring psychologist, apparently, that he "only worked with gifted children / young adults and he (me) clearly is only of moderate intelligence"
that led to another referral to the vp of the state's psych board (and his asst) where I was given a full 3-4 hours of cognitive tests
the test giver told my mother that i was
>definitely higher than 135, probably in the mid 140s, and possibly north of 150 if the results are skewed by his depression.
something about the nature of their testing made it informal/couldn't give an exact number
the point is i never stuck with college - and what socialization i have now lands me with people that don't seem very bright. what little work i've done over the years had placed me subservient to people that dont seem very bright.
its fucking awful. smart people mostly rise up a ladder of accreditation that separate them from the general population - I can't seem to relate to the general population and I don't have the qualifications to garner respect from people of similar intellectual standing
my last bastion of any social contact has been gaming communities and the only people left in my age bracket tend to be retarded.
if i speak at any length whatsoever I'm so frequently accused of being:
>condescending, "why are you trying to act smart?", pretentious, "omg why are we still talking/arguing about this?", "why are you trying so hard?"
my last round of applications to minimum wage positions were all rejected. I'm physically in good shape. I've never been strong but only recently broke 300lbs on a deadlift. I couldn't convince employers to let me stack boxes in warehouses - couldn't convince employers to let me stock shelves.
I don't think i'm going to try ever again to get a conventional job. If it takes so much effort to get entry-level (the irony) work that I'll almost certainly feel resentment over doing I'm not going to submit.
I don't know if the things I was told about my alleged intelligence were true. I feel like it was a lie just to make me feel like there was something special about me; because it seems like someone that was actually smart could figure out an unconventional way to sidestep "the grind" and gain some success without constantly feeling a crushing sense of being left behind.
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No.18035
>>17886
You spend a lot of time talking about how smart you are. Just my opinion, but this comes off sounding kind of whiny and needy.
It is true that there are a lot of people overqualified for their work.
If you are so smart, prove it, even if only to yourself. Van Gogh (sp?) was totally shunned by his peers and lived a life of near homelessness and drunken madness. He was basically considered a bum in his life but his paintings are worth hundreds of millions.]
If you really are smart and apply yourself then that should be reward enough, even if nobody notices until after you are gone, or never.
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No.18041
>>17500
>neglective/uninvolved
>adapted to that since i was a child
>didnt ask my family to do anything for me
because every time they try to do something nice for me it was always their Idea and they always resent it later and make it look like they have to go out of their way to do these things for me. I hate riding on these guilt trips but family is family.
I just wished that one day they would admit that they hate me, oh wait they did, multiple times.
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No.18073
>authoritative
>live in a constant fear of not living up to your own expectations
Currently studying for university entrance exams and I have this growing feeling of not being sure what I want from life. A year ago I had everything planned out for the next six to seven years but now it all feels so meaningless. Despite these feelings I most certainly don't want to waste my potential.
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No.18079
>>18073
>I have this growing feeling of not being sure what I want from life
Don't have any doubts doomer, it will probably not get any better, even after you get into university.
t. 21 yo uni student on the verge of dropping out
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No.18234
>>18079
I feel like I'll be free to do whatever I want after I get a bachelor's degree, boomers drill it into your head so hard as a youth it's on par with the fear of going hell for turning your back on god.
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No.18256
>>18079
>21
>thinks he knows how bad it will get
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No.18258
>>18079
>>18234
itt: posh kids whine about how hard there life is.
Hahaha, you're going to be fucking disappointed, anons…
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No.18279
>>18079
>>18234
>zoomers and their degrees
I wish I was a naive kid again, now I'm just naive old fart.
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No.18292
>>18256
>>18258
I wonder how worse it could get other than ending up working in McDonalds for scraps.
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No.18296
>>18258
I'm not aiming high I don't know how I could disappointed further.
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No.18305
>>17500
>uninvolved
>hikki permaNEET
I can't complain, they let me live here for free and the times of staying up until eight in the morning at eleven years old to play WoW and browse imageboards are some of the best memories I have. My mother was also too low IQ to do authoritative parenting correctly. I did get hit as a younger child. I used to be resentful of the fact that I was quite smart as a kid and wasn't offered much encouragement or at least kept on the right track but looking back I now realize I was a huge retard who didn't yet have the self-awareness to understand that I wasn't normal. I would have had trouble adjusting to the world no matter how I grew up.
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No.18414
>>18305
>I used to be resentful of the fact that I was quite smart as a kid and wasn't offered much encouragement or at least kept on the right track but looking back I now realize I was a huge retard who didn't yet have the self-awareness to understand that I wasn't normal. I would have had trouble adjusting to the world no matter how I grew up.
Are you me, anon?
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No.18419
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No.18827
>>17500
-bizarro, i.e teaching me how to masturbate, hitting me for making jokes, hitting me, screaming at me and saying awful stuff to me and then 5 minutes later crying their eyes out and begging for forgiveness
-mentally ill junkie who cant talk to people
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No.19014
They were good parents. It's not their fault I turned out like this.
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No.28263
>>18305
Pretty the same as you
>> Single mom
>> Homeless dad (gambling and alcoholic)
>> Me drop out from University
>> Went back to community college
>> Dropout again
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No.28265
>single mom
>dad died when i was 3
>when 9 moved to another country with my grandaunt, mother stayed "home" due her not knowing any other languages than russian and having a good job there
>she was scared for me all the time (she's got this quintessential russian mentality that you simply cannot live a quiet life, someone (mostly the gov) will come and fuck you over in one way or another) so i was never encouraged to go out
>once when 14 i was invited by two girls from my class to go clubbing with them and she said no bcs she thought they were going to drug me, then i would rape some girl and would be deported
>really started going out only now that i'm 22, but all my friends are either dead or in different countries
>her parenting was quite authoritative due to her fear and she would always push me to my limits, because as she says i have a huge potential but my mentality / motivation is lacking, basically i don't give a shit
>dropped out of uni two times already, currently on my one year long break from uni, otherwise would have dropped out for the third time (might do once i return and collect gov money for students)
>at first she was like you have to get a good diploma from mathematics or some shit like that and go make bank in a bank or intelligence services, i know you can do this, anon!
>currently she's like just get some diploma at least, i beg you
>all i do now that i live alone is drink beer, go for walks, listen to aurora, browse imageboards, make music and read books
>comfy neet lifestyle
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No.28266
>>28265
authoritarian parenting, not authoritative.
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No.28479
>>18256
>"You're young you have it easy"
>>18279
>"I wish I was a kid again"
Oh God not this retarded nostalgia shit again.
Childhood is overrated. You think you wanna be a kid again bc you suck at adulting.
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No.28489
>>17886
>can't seem to relate to the general population and I don't have the qualifications to garner respect from people of similar intellectual standing
>my last bastion of any social contact has been gaming communities and the only people left in my age bracket tend to be retarded.
>if i speak at any length whatsoever I'm so frequently accused of being:
>condescending, "why are you trying to act smart?", pretentious, "omg why are we still talking/arguing about this?", "why are you trying so hard?"
What age bracket?
Also, hate to tell you this but academic intelligence is not what's valued. Its social and industrial intelligence that's valued. The smart people at the top are graced with social skills and marketing prowess.
Don't be fooled by what people say they like in a person.
People don't like intelligence. They like the look of intelligence.
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No.28524
>your parents parenting Style?
Overly religious and authoritarian.
>your situation today?
Alright I think. I realized I could never grow to be an adult while being under their wings, so I would rather live by myself and my own rules, even if there's struggle. Trying to constantly fight my way out for freedom has made me somewhat averse to intimacy as well, I see it as a piece of my long fought liberty being halved away.
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No.28578
>>28265
>single mom
Stopped reading there.
You are unworthy of pity and deserve an agonizing death.
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No.28581
>>28479
100%. Adulthood still sucks but it's exponentially better than being a kid.
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No.28592
>>28581
Childhood as a social-personal stage is an exaggerated meme made by sentimental adults.
I mean 12-17yo kids are treated like theyre 3-7 yo since the mid-80s.
America and England are morbidly obsessed about young peoples personal lives to the point where they ignore the degeneracy of the adults
Teens jacking off/cracking dirty jokes = "omg society is ducked!"
Middle-aged/elderly men cheating on their wives with bookers = "meh, that's life."
But that's not all. Kids who are cynical or discrimivative of people of differ in castes are "assholes" yet adults who're like this are hailed for their flaws bc "being human doesn't mean being perfect."
TL;Dr, Kids are socially and legally harrassed for being themselves.
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No.28975
>>28265
kill yourself you attention vortexing femoid cunt
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