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No.384364
I want a relationship,not an STD
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No.384635
Out of curiosity, what have people turned to with Craigslist dead? Just Grindr, or are there other sites out there?
I'm not interested in actually using these things, but from time to time I would read through the ads anyway to fantasize about slutting it up. Grindr always seemed suboptimal for that purpose.
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No.384656
>>384635
Honestly Grindr is the only alternative to CL personals. I started using Grindr when CL was still allowing personals, and honestly Grindr seems way more flaky. But just punch in Grindr and look at the related apps and you can probably have a good laugh at what's on there.
Grindr does have some funny profile blurbs from time to time
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No.384725
>>384635
I've been trying out Adam4Adam, and I've been having a better experience with it than either Craigslist or Grindr. There's a lot more talking and slightly less "hi we fuk now ?"
I'm sure it depends on your area, though.
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No.384808
Most faggots who use grindr are attention whores. The type of people who go to pride parades.
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No.401177
>>371705
Spics can be cute if they're not goblin-looking, though there aren't that many
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No.401212
>app design is godawful with all the actual decent features that should really be free paywalled behind a bullshit monthly subscription
>most of the userbase is full of 50+ year-old sugar daddies, gold digging sugar babies, pervs who openly advertise their fetishes and just generally fat/bald guys
>twinks/femboys aren't too common and the ones you're bound to find there are shallow, attention seeking whores with pride shit in their bios and pics who will probably completely ignore you or respond intermittently and if you actually agree to meet up, they'll flake on you or ghost you afterward if you're even able to meet them (just like on other apps!)
>have met a handful of actual decent people there but they're ultra rare gems in a huge, empty dark mine
The only reason I still use it is because up until I tried Tinder somewhat recently, it's given me more results for finding people I'm actually into than any other app/site, including here. At least people there actually talk to you before they ghost you instead of complaining about being lonely yet can also somehow afford to pick and choose who they respond to.
>>374939
I should try this, thanks for the idea anon
>>384252
Not my type but at least you're honest and you sound nice, too :)
>>371705
>>401177
One of the cutest guys I ever met was an almost trap-tier Latino. He was average height and had the ideal feminine body shape; soft, smooth, flawless skin; tongue piercing and a small nose ring; long, straight, multicolored hair; cute laugh and a nice voice; perfect tight, round ass. The only thing he had wrong with him physically was I think amelia/meromelia that affected his right arm in such a way that it was shrunken and small to the point where it looked like a red baby's arm (kind of like the scene in Deadpool after he cuts his hand off to get out of a pair of handcuffs and it's still growing back), but I didn't care about that so that didn't really matter to me since I don't think of myself as a shallow person. Unfortunately, he lied to me about wanting to see me again and just used me for a one-off hookup even though he seemed to agree with me on wanting to be friends with benefits before possibly transitioning into a LTR if it worked out and I'm pretty sure he had some kind of sex addiction just knowing what I now do about him, but on the positive side, the sex and everything leading up to it was fucking incredible and was the best time I'd ever had up until that point so at least he was good for that.
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No.401288
The people I'm attracted to there aren't attracted to me.
And the people who hit on me are either gross or flakes.
Other than that, it's great!
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No.401358
>>370415
Being a "nice gent" only lasts until people start to abuse you just for the sake of it, then you get fed up and delete the fucking thing from your phone
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No.401364
>>347313
I met my first boyfriend on grindr
the relationship was not good, he manipulated me for years to the point where I wanted to kill myself
ofc this is one individual case but if everyone else on that app was like that (which I doubt but then again almost everyone ive met on chans and online seem to be the same it might not be so different(srsly fuccbois of 8ch just fucking chill, I know you want a relationship but try picking the right relationship))
idk wasnt good for me but I seem to attract psychos so w/e
be careful who you talk to, cause theres alot of fucked up people out there
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No.401390
>>401364
Jesus anon, sorry to hear that. My former best friend used to be just like that, too. :( At least he's out of your life now, though. My experience with Grindr is >>401212 since I'm the same guy who posted that and I simply assume everyone I talk to there will ghost me if I'm actually into them, be overweight and offering me a weekly allowance to be his sugar baby or be unsolicited dick pics from balding gross people in general since that's my personal experience there thus far.
And as for the anons here that frequent the meetup threads as well as other ones, I have no sympathy for them when they post their contact info and I only get a few responses back out of the DOZENS that I message simply saying hi and asking if they want to talk because I live relatively near them, and yet I see the same people complaining about tfw no bf as if they have no idea why they're still single. Or even worse, they'll go on about how much they want a LTR or just to get fucked yet never post any info at all because I guess all they really want is attention. My philosophy is that if you don't even try, you have no right to complain and shouldn't be posting in a contact/meetup thread if you don't want to actually do either of those things.
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No.401413
>>401390
I just want a friend
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No.401464
>>401413
I mean, I could be your friend if you'd like but if you want someone you can actually see and talk to in person on a semi-regular basis, I suggest you do something involving a group setting or just generally in public near you and finding other people with common interests that way, like the gym, volunteering, school, the library, etc. Grindr and other dating apps aren't really what I'd use for finding platonic friends, nor going out to a bar if you were thinking about that either. Even if socialization isn't your strongest suit (like me), you'll make friends if you try hard enough. :)
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No.401465
>>401413
What's your discord friend.
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No.401467
>>401413
I'm sorry for you man, we all just want friends ;-;
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No.401507
the very few actual cute boys and traps among the sea of desperate old men seem to always be either the type who want sugar daddies or the type to state racial/height preference in their bios (major red flag for me)
the few worthwhile boys who browse the app left a long, long time ago
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No.401527
>>401507
How the hell is it a red flag to have an age and race preference? Maybe I should put a non-retard preference so I don't get someone like you.
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No.401664
>>401527
It's your goddamn business and when people feel the need to put it out they they tend to be shitty cunts like you to everyone, including those who meet their standards.
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No.401670
>>401664
Everyone has their own preferences, whether they state them or not. Stating them saves time and effort of incompatible people, both on the sides of the writer and reader.
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No.401682
>>401664
Waaa waaa people prefer not to have mullato boyfriends which makes you a cunt waaa. Have a cry, you're the one sounding like a cunt.
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No.401693
Was on grindr for 6 months and nothing but shit
Got on tinder for 2 weeks and a sweet guy super liked me and were gonna meet soon.
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No.401701
>>401693
Aww that's sweet. Lots of the guys on tinder look attractive but my god. They are the worst talkers. I've had more interesting meaningful conversations on grindr than tinder. I usually get up to 20 matches before it angers me enough to delete the app. I just don't understand how someone could match me and be on the app but not be obliged to say hi. Its like, as soon as they see "it's a match" they close the app and delete it. Its unfair to have to keep start conversations every time.
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No.401743
>>401465
>>401464
>>401467
if anything im too dysfunctional at this point to differentiate a friend from a romantic relation
ive always had boundary issues but Ive reaslised that i dont really know the difference, it makes me barely able to tell the difference, even wih ppl who just want nudes and shit or maybe thats just how I see shit
idk, i dont know how to calculate shit wotout ppl wanting shit rom me at this point idk how to make friends without givin them shit that fucks stuff up as it is
idk how to interact with people in this fucked up way
shit is so fucked up these days that I dont vn knoow when people are beign real or just fucking with me
ive forgotten how people work, I dont even know how to interact at this piint
I dont know where to go from this point
im too fucked up to know how to deal with people, I dont know what to do
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No.401840
>>401743
You'll never get better until you attempt to make friends, and get help.
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No.401928
I'm not interested in relationships rn but the people on grindr seem more sketchy than doublelist. And not a lot of bear/daddy types on grindr either which is a downside for me.
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No.403141
No avoid it, it's so fucking weird so I met this guy we lived in same area as me and I crossdress and like 90% of the guys on Grindr liked that but anyway so I showed him what I usually look like and he said he didn't care about as long as I dress up which is what I do then I head out to met me and then I get into his car and then we were driving a few blocks and said "are you really 25".I said "yes my Crhon's disease hasn't been kind to me over the years but don't worry it's not Sexual transmitted it's hereditary so we drove down to the river.Then I said "Wait were going to the river? I thought we were going to your house?" He saids back"No there a lot of shit happening at my house plus my grandmom just died." I said "oh no I'm so sorry." So I was thinking to myself how in the hell I'm I gonna get dressed up in the fucking car." So quickly I said"Do you mind if I step out real quick to take a piss by the tree?" He said "Sure." so I grabbed all my stuff got out started to piss and then he drives off faster than I ever seen someone drive off before. Luckily leaving me only 3 blocks from house but when I get home I notice he blocked me and that's it.
What the Hell was that? Was he planning on robbing me? Or was he gonna kill me? But me telling him about my disease made him change his mind?What the fuck?
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No.403160
>>348383
Get a job and move out, homo.
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No.403161
>>403141
You had to walk three blocks in drag?
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No.403162
>>401928
Can't tell you how many pics I've gotten of cocks with little baggies of meth beside them. Grindr is full of crazy, perverted methheads.
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No.403164
>>383916
I can't find a hot or even remotely cute girl on Tinder. I'm super into black girls, too, and I've heard they're more than open to white guys because they generally feel unwanted by them.
Grindr is another story. Gay men are desperate. Nearly anyone is willing to top me, and I'm masc as fuck (stocky, 6 ft and hairy with a beard), and they're usually ugly as fuck. But I'm picky as hell about whom I top for. They have to be either trans or really, really effeminate. Found a cute girly Asian bottom about 50 miles from me, and I That said, what I want, no one is around.
Fuck my life.
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No.404311
>>403161
No thankfully not, I was going to get dressed when we got to his house but that never happened so I was walking home in my regular clothes.
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No.404323
I hate how grown men on there talk to me like I'm a 14 year-old girl. What kind of fool falls for that kind of talk? Someone must be if they're all doing it. Would've been willing to meet several of them if they just talked to me like an adult and put a little effort into spelling.
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No.404340
luv it
maybe its since i got borned and raised into sf, but one of the first ones i met on there is a 30 yr old software company OWNER that drive me around in their sports cars and fuck me hard in his house.
i luved getting fucked like his little puppy but i broke up with him since he wasn't very mature xD
i also meet some cute taiwanese and asian boys near me that doesn't speak english good that i was a bit mean too and try dominating them too fast. the first one i met i put my belt around his neck and it scared him haha. hes so cute and precious and makes all these asian boy sounds that only foreign asian boys makes.
imma bottom but trying to practice being a top on * cute* asian boys :S
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No.404346
>Blank profiles messaging me
>Muh fems only when they look like cavemen
>No other cute guys my age
Maybe living in Wisconsin isn't so good
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No.404356
>>404346
>oh no, guys who arent exactly what im looking for are messaging me
fucking spare us, m8. your unreasoned preferences arent everyones, and nobody is obligated to reflect them.
also, there are fucking a lot of femme dudes who only want manly men.
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No.404360
literally got paid to basically go out on a date with some randoms
100 euros for free
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No.404365
>>404356
Nta but I would assume that he meant 'neckbeards' by "look like cavemen"
This would mean that he's bumping into a lot of desperate heterosexuals/tranny chasers
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No.404381
>>404365
>This would mean that he's bumping into a lot of desperate heterosexuals/tranny chasers
and, do you think youve some right to only be hit on by people you like? it comes across as rather whiny and spastic tbh, if you dont like them just block them or ignore them and move the fuck on like an actual adult.
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No.404502
>>404381
…or just realize that's your target audience :^)
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No.404524
>>404502
mans entitled to like what he likes, doesnt mean hes entitled to have attention from them and only them
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No.414808
>>347313
Good if you want to get fucked for money, bad for anything else
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No.414915
I got banned a lot. Rightly so. They really do monitor the chat logs. Fuckers.
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No.414938
>>414915
What did you get banned for?
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No.415087
I met my boyfriend on grindr and everything has been great for the past 2 years
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No.415100
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No.415108
>>347313
Full of old men and fat guys, not worth the megabytes.
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No.415305
>got particularly horny and decided to finally see how different real dick was from dildos
>not very confident in my looks, so I set up a profile with a body pic and mostly let people message me first if I'm their type
>aside from a couple 50+y/o "bears" (closer to landwhales) and a young pajeet with visibly-bad hygiene, one promising guy messages me
>we swap more pics and things seem to be going well
>mention that it'll be my first time with another guy
>insta-blocked
>another guy messages me, hotter than the first
>again, things go well, pics exchanged, everything seems fine
>mention that it'll be my first time with another guy
>insta-blocked
I don't get it. Is there really no interest in popping cherries? After I fapped and cleared my head I was glad that nothing actually happened, but still.
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No.415338
>>415305
they want a gay guy, not someone experimenting
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No.415340
>>415338
They're looking to fuck, not date.
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No.415343
>>415340
yeah.. not everyone wants to teach or assuage someone who's experimenting and may even bail out
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