No.6258 [View All]
Does any fellow cuckquean ever feel like her fetish is actually a compromise and that's it's psychologically detrimental to her.
Do you ever feel that the main reason you share your man is because you feel inadequate, unworthy or way below his league?
Does being cucked upon result in some sort of spiraling down despair, diminishing sense of self-worth and jealousy?
Do you ever wonder that you are addicted to a fetish that opposes your actual potential for happiness and despite the pain it causes to you you just can't quit it, not only because of the potential repercussions of it in your relationship, but also because you get a fix of emotional masochism and forbidden fruit hornyness proportional to the increasing suffering it causes to you?
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No.6481
you cant be happy living a life guided by sexual frustration.
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No.6488
>>6385
Yes but…
>>6331
>>6332
>>6333
I am the OP.
>>6481
What if it's sexually stimulating though?
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No.6489
>>6488 (heiled)
>I am the OP.
Question stands.
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No.6491
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No.6494
>>6258
>proportional to the increasing suffering it causes to you
"Suffering" is an interesting word choice. To me, suffering is something different to pain, something that involuntarily wears at the soul. Even at its most masochistic, I'd never associate cuckqueaning with suffering because it's voluntary and has that lacing of deliciousness to it.
Anyway OP, I doubt he'd still be with you if you were really and truly out of his league. Lots of people think that cuckqueans do what they do to increase their value in a relationship that otherwise wouldn't exist, but if he truly didn't want to be in a relationship with you then he wouldn't be. But he is!
Think of it this way: He fucks his pretty vixens good and hard, but it's you he comes back to and spends most of his time with. What does that say about you? In my mind that means you outrank them by far. Remember that from what many have said on this board, many women are actually intimidated by cuckqueans. They can't imagine having that much confidence in a relationship, yet they see that it works for you.
I say draw on cuckqueaning as a source of pride! Sit tall and proud while you watch your man turn that vixen inside-out because he's really yours, not hers. Revel in how happy it makes him and how good it makes you feel. And if it leaves a bad aftertaste, then try to figure out why and how to get rid of it. You don't need to eat the rind to enjoy the fruit!
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No.6520
>>6494
I think OP should embrace the degradation wholeheartedly. She is worthless after all, a silly little cuck whose subpar cunt drips when her man fucks better women (which is nearly all of them) because it knows that this is the only way she's going to come even close to holding her own as a woman. He is out of her league, and she should embrace that by allowing herself to worship him for having the kindness to allow her pathetic ass a small corner of his heart at all. Being cucked is not a choice for our OP, it's a mandatory part of her life and she knows it. That it makes her soak her plain frumpy panties is a lucky adaptation, so she should make sure she reinforces it as often as possible. She should lavish praise on his vixens for pleasing him in ways she'd never be able to hope for and make herself available for their convenience because they - unlike her - deserve nothing less. (She, if it is not clear already, deserves nothing.) She should seek new ways to debase herself, explore the nooks and crannies of her own worthlessness in detail, give herself over utterly.
There is no bottom to hit. She'll be better off for it, trust me.
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No.6536
>>6520
>Being cucked is not a choice for our OP, it's a mandatory part of her life and she knows it
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No.6540
>>6536
See? Some cuckqueans don't need the fluffy proud compersive approach. They need to know they're lesser women. The reason cuckqueaning resembles an addiction for such girls is that it's actually something they're driven and have always been driven to do. They're fulfilling a deep need. They do not need to share their men, they need to be cucked. Hard.
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No.6619
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No.6622
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No.6726
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No.6728
>>6622
Doublechecked
>>6619
You know what you must do…
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No.6729
>>6726
Can't deny the truth for long, little cuckie.
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No.6730
>>6729
Joke's on you I have neither such big boobs or perky rounded hips ; ~ ;
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No.6733
>>6730
>tfw tall with DD tits and wide hips so bf taunts me as an indecent tiddymonster and cucks me with cute petite flatties
>mfw he told me that at least I'll be "convenient for breeding"
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No.6735
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No.6737
>>6735
Yeah. Bastard's going to give me an impregnation/human cattle fetish if he keeps this up. Keikaku douri? I wonder how much a cow-print bikini costs…
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No.6742
>>6733 (Checked)
There's some justice in this world at least. I'm glad you enjoy it, so don't get me wrong here, but I think it's a good thing that a woman like you is getting cucked. You go around being sexy and womanly but it's actually the DFCs who are getting your boyfriend's cock. Yeah, nice humblebrag at the end though. It's obvious he still sees you as the real woman and the only one who should have his children.
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No.6743
>>6742
Am I sensing some insecurity?
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No.6748
>>6733
>>6742
Don't worry, I'm sure he'll knock up one of his girlfriends too.
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No.6749
>>6742
It's okay, anon, I still love you. Granted, not in a 'would choose to fuck you over a real woman with normal adult tits' sort of way, but you get what I'm saying.
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No.6753
>>6742
Don't worry, there'll always be a place for jealous little flatties on his cock! I'll even let y- them lie back on me so they can be nice and comfy while he takes them. I promise not to steal any more than a few kisses.
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No.6759
>>6733
>"I'll-I'll do my best!!"
where's that from?
polite sage
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No.6768
Damn, my post comes off as incredibly butthurt now I re-read it.
>>6749
That woman on the left has obvious breast implants.
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No.6771
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No.6775
>>6768
>That woman on the left has obvious breast implants.
Best I could do for such a specific image on short notice. Finding stuff that mixes flatties with normals is surprisingly hard.
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No.6787
>>6775
3D porn is pretty terrible in general. Here's a list of other things that are very hard to find
>hand holding
>hugs where one person is into it and the other isn't
>head pats
>fondling in general rather than just straight up sex
>plain girls sneaking glances at or staring wistfully at attractive women
>asian nerds being bullied by cheerleaders
etc, etc
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No.6793
>>6787
>asian nerds being bullied by cheerleaders
Desire: Awakened.
Challenge: Accepted.
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No.6795
>>6787
You know (((who)))'s responsible for this…
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No.6806
>>6753
Is it weird that as time goes on, I find myself increasingly attracted to women with traditionally inadequate qualities (like flat chests) specifically because I like the idea of using their inadequacies in cucking them?
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No.6812
>>6806
Don't you see anon? A woman being flat chested isn't an inadequacy at all in the context of cuckqueaning. Without the difference in breast sizes (or some other feature) what would be the point? Would it even occur to you to have sex with other girls in the first place if they were all the same?
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No.6827
>>6812
I think you're getting lost in the semantics. What I mean is that I find myself specifically interested in qualities that, while I don't find them necessarily unappealing or find them reasons not to choose someone as a partner (flat chested, being a little chubby, excessively short, lacking in feminine curves, not being white, etc…), aren't positive qualities towards conventional attractiveness.
It isn't that I'm finding these qualities to be actually inadequate. It's that I find it attractive to be with a woman with traits that she, and society, might interpret as inadequate, because I like the idea of using them to tease her in a cuckquean dynamic.
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No.6849
>>6827
If you do get a fat gf then force her to get fit. Some people need a kick up the arse.
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No.6861
>>6849
I'll keep that in mind. But also, I should clarify that when I said chubby, I meant sort of a doughy, out of shape sort of thing, not a land whale. I'm pretty forgiving on a physical level, but there's a point at which something like weight can be indicative of a deeper problem. I don't mind a few extra pounds, but I do mind it if a woman doesn't respect herself.
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No.6863
>>6861
The closer they are to not being fat then all the easier it will be to turn them into the best they can be, whereas the other things you mentioned can't be changed. Therefore I don't think it's something anyone should be forgiving of - especially if it means accepting it or allowing it to get worse.
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No.6864
>>6849
This. Especially when your gf becomes your wife, it is very important you both be as healthy as possible. When you bond deeply to someone for a long time, life without the other is nigh unendurable so both should do their best to not die.
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No.7377
Wouldn't indulging in your cuckquean fetish just make your insecurity issues worse? It would feel really awful to date someone only to find out that she gets off to the idea of me cheating on her as some fucked-up coping mechanism.
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No.7378
>>7377 (Checked)
I'm not saying it's normal or denying that it can be fucked up, but no, it doesn't make insecurity issues worse. Think of it as controlled cheating or facing your fears in a safe predictable environment. At any point she can stop it as you're not actually cheating as people would typical understand it. Also of course if you think it's hurting her more than she wants or can cope with then you can stop too. Another comparison would be BDSM.
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No.7380
>>7378
Isn't this closer to embracing your fears rather than confronting and vanquishing them?
I wouldn't compare cuckqueaning or cuckolding to most other fetishes including BDSM, but going into detail on that would probaby get me banned.
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No.7381
>>7380
Yes, it is. No, I'm only comparing it to BDSM in terms of it being stoppable at any point.
>but going into detail on that would probaby get me banned
I very much doubt you will get banned. This isn't reddit. If you have something relevant to say then do so.
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No.7388
>>7380
>but going into detail on that would probaby get me banned
I don't think I've ever seen a non-spammer get banned on /cuckquean/. Even /pol/-tier derails are fine if they aren't too out of place though they perhaps belong in their own threads.
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No.7392
>>7388 (Heiled)
If /pol/ derails were bannable the board owner would take one look at my post history and send me straight to the gas chamber.
>they perhaps belong in their own threads
In all seriousness, I do agree with that.
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No.7393
>>7381
Cucking is seen (very accurately in regular cuckshit and a bit less so with cuckqueaning) as breaking the bond between lovers in a natural, monogamous relationship, while BDSM and many other stranger fetishes still involve you or your partner pleasing the other and strengthening instead of needing to bring other people into it. I'm still not sure why I'm not as disgusted by cuckqueans compared to cuckolds but the answer probably has something to do with the differences in female psychology and relationship roles.
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No.7397
>>7388
The only times I've noticed deleted posts here:
>it was an anon deleting his own posts because he was told they weren't exactly cuckqueaning although I'd have liked to see them
>it was an anon accidentally using >>> to quote a post making it look like a broken quote
>>7393
>I'm still not sure why I'm not as disgusted by cuckqueans compared to cuckolds but the answer probably has something to do with the differences in female psychology and relationship roles.
Yes, but the important thing is that it is less bond-breaking, regardless of the exact reason.
I like the drider in the mural in the background.
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No.7399
>>7397
Less bond-breaking in practice, but still degenerate as sex outside a monogamous hetrosexual relationship like harems and bicorns.
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No.7403
>>7393
>Cucking is seen (very accurately in regular cuckshit and a bit less so with cuckqueaning) as breaking the bond between lovers in a natural, monogamous relationship, while BDSM and many other stranger fetishes still involve you or your partner pleasing the other and strengthening instead of needing to bring other people into it.
Trust me, in practice BDSM is one of the least monogamous scenes you'll find and the BDSM scene has always crossed over very strongly with swinging. I've seen more open relationships and various non-monogamous arrangements within BDSM than anywhere else.
The difference with cuckqueaning/cuckolding is that the ostensibly monogamous bond is explicitly the subject and object of the play, as you point out.
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No.7411
>>7403
Almost any non-anonymous fetish community out there is cancer, as they're filled with boring, empty people who use fetishes to give themselves some sort of hollow identity or distinguishing feature.
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No.7444
>>7397
>although I'd have liked to see them
Well one of them became a banner, did it not?
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No.7449
>>7403
>>7411
I've met some cool people in the scene but strangely it's also one of the places I've had cuckqueaning understood the least. Maybe those who just full-on didn't comprehend had never had a satisfying monogamous relationship in the first place so they'd never experienced or sought the emotional connection side of things, just the sensation- and novelty-junkieism.
I think the reason that it looks as though there's nothing but novelty-junkies in the scene is that they're the loudest because they're busy broadcasting their identity. The cool and interesting ones keep their distance until you find them and open them up by conversation, just like most people.
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No.7467
>>7444
I think that was the guy's post afterwards, saying he'll delete them.
>>7449
Maybe they associated it with cucking and didn't understand how cuckqueaning is different.
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