No.6111
Let's have a thread dedicated to our men cheating.
>"Cheating? But /cuckquean/, don't we condone our men sleeping around? How can they cheat?"
Of course we like knowing when our men are sowing their wildest oats, preferably repeatedly and while we have a front-row seat. There's also plenty of practical reasons for knowing over not knowing. IRL cheating is despicable and ruins trust.
But let's put all that aside for a moment. This is fantasy now. Aren't secrets exciting? He's probably putting it in your friends regularly, those sluts, and they aren't telling you a thing because he's just too good a thing to give up. Not to mention that cute coworker of his, and he 'has been pulling a lot of overtime lately… say, did he just breathe strangely? Her hand's under the table, could she be…? No. This is just like that time in the hot tub when those two were either side of him and you're sure it was just the warm water playing tricks on your eyes. That waitress seems to be unusually attentive, have they met before? Not to mention that there's plenty of reasons his shirt would smell of perfume after you couldn't get hold of him that one night and…
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No.6148
Well OP your thread really made me think for several hours before replying. I have mixed feelings about this as I'm sure most if not all people do.
Sometimes I think all women are secretly cuckqueans and it's a good thing if they discover it one way or another. That might mean being cheated on. But then I remember that people tend to project their fetish or interest onto others and forget they aren't into at all.
If there was some magic spell I could cast so that only cuckqueans (or women who can become cuckqueans) got cheated on then I would cast it. I think women like that benefit from cheating because eventually finding out what their husband / boyfriend has been up to would be an amazing thrill. As would deciding whether to confront him or keep the secret and just spy on him somehow. Again though, that is projection.
Posting something like this could encourage guys to cheat because they think it's OK. If the circumstance were right and it was genuinely for his wife / girlfriend's benefit just as much as his own needs then maybe it is OK. Maybe some women do need to be helped / cajoled / forced into becoming cuckqueans. But the idea of a woman being cheated on who doesn't like or learn to like it really sickens me.
It's a minefield. Talk about cognitive dissonance.
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No.6156
>>6148
>But the idea of a woman being cheated on who doesn't like or learn to like it really sickens me.
I'm the OP, and it sickens me also. Actually, it sickens me even if the woman later decides she liked it. Her man still cheated on her! That's despicable. In the very early days of cuckqueaning being a named fetish, it was quite common to see women who were clearly rationalising their husbands' gross infidelity and abusive disregard for them by adopting the fetish.
So to be clear: Guys, don't cheat IRL. Even if your woman is a cuckquean or you think she's a cuckquean or whatever, don't just go and cheat on her as an experiment without actually talking about it with her first. One of the reasons that cheating is damaging is because of the utter contempt for the other person it displays. Any latent cuckquean worth her salt will break up with your cheating ass and go find a better man - who, paradoxically, she will then later ask to sleep around on her. (Footnote: Some women actually half-expect their men to cheat on them as a display of his virility and become discontent if he doesn't. Such women also become very angry if he actually does. No way to win with these girls, so my advice there is to not play.)
But for some people the secrecy of cheating is what makes it appealing as a fantasy. There's a huge rush in that "is-he-or-isn't-he?" feeling that can addict. Deception, unfortunately, is part of who we are as humans. IRL we must resist it at all times. But that doesn't mean we can't imagine our boyfriends doing it, right?
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No.6163
>>6156
Generally yes, don't cheat IRL. It's too difficult to get right. If the idea of being a cuckquean was more talked about and acceptable then maybe it would be different. At the moment any cheating will be viewed in the context of how other people see it, negatively. It's humiliating and devaluing for anyone who experiences it no matter what their fetishes might be. Their fetishes are usually private, so even the hint of them being exposed can be a betrayal.
I suppose I like to think of a man and women who know each other so well that the guy realises he should start cheating on her because she secretly wants it or would end up being happier. In real life I don't know if that is possible, so as you say, communicate it. After you've agreed on how it will work everything else is essentially roleplay.
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No.6165
>>6163
>It's too difficult to get right. If the idea of being a cuckquean was more talked about and acceptable then maybe it would be different.
No, these are not the reasons you should not cheat. Even if cuckqueaning was well known, cheating would still be the wrong thing to do. Even if you are absolutely sure a girl is a cuckquean, you should not cheat on her. Why? If she's going to be into it, surely it's okay right? Well, no - because she hasn't consented.
If it isn't obvious, I myself am pretty into my boyfriend going behind my back. Some cuckqueans like to vet their vixens first, others like to choose them. Me? If my boyfriend were to drop out of communication for a few hours and then return home with his cock covered in pussy juice, I'd be thrilled (while also clawing his clothes off and demanding he tell me everything).
But, if that had happened before we'd have worked out our dynamic by conversation and experimentation? I'm not sure there'd be a relationship left. Not just because he would have hurt me and showed utter contempt for me - what others think of cheating doesn't enter into this in the least - but because it would mean he wasn't the man I thought he was. This stuff isn't simple.
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No.6174
>>6165
I agree completely but please let me have my "good cheating" fantasy even if it is impossible and/or ridiculous.
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No.6175
>>6174
You can fantasise whatever you want. Thought is free!
On a different note, it's hard to find any good eromanga where the man is the one cheating secretly on his girl. It's mostly all male cuckold shit.
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No.6178
>>6175
I fantasise about it being a reality.
>eromanga
Try this thread if you haven't already seen it >>2531
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No.6184
>>6111
>last pic
How is that /cuckquean/ related?
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No.6185
>>6184
It turns out that, uh, it's not. I'm not familiar with the source work and mistook the character for a girl because of the name, the soft chin, the little lens flare/swoosh behind the portrait which looked like a high ponytail, and the lines on the chest which looked like a corset top. I'll report it; maybe just that file can be removed.
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No.6186
>>6185
You should be able to remove the file yourself.
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No.6188
>>6186
I think that'd delete all of them; I don't see an option to select a particular file for deletion.
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No.6189
>>6178
Of course. Wouldn't it be nice to have a strapping, assertive boyfriend who regularly flirts with other girls in front of you? To know, deep in your heart, that he's regularly having other, hotter girls offer themselves for him behind your back - and that he's taking every single opportunity? That whenever he comes home late, that it was almost certain he wasn't drinking with the other guys, but balls-deep in that perky, pretty blonde who makes him coffee or the shy but buxom brunette who rides the same train as him? To gradually have him become less and less careful about hiding it, to the point he stops showering before he comes back and you can smell that particular after-sex stench practically boiling off him? To know that your own pussy, tight as it is, cannot satisfy even a tenth of the variety he needs, and can easily have? To realise that he hasn't stopped trying anal with you out of respect for your difficulty accomodating his considerable size, but because he's blowing his load in another girl's tight butt at least once a week? (You have difficulty even vocalising much during sex even though he loves dirty talk - but she's got the tongue of a sultry whore and he loves it.) To realise that the reason he's taking longer to cum when you suck him isn't because you're getting worse at it, but that he's getting way better head from one of his former classmates? To know that you'll never, ever confront him about any of it, because all of this makes your belly tingle and flutter and besides, men will be men, right?
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No.6217
>>6189
>men will be men, right?
Exactly. I love and cherish my own girl above all others. This does not elevate her above the rank all women ultimately share - cocksleeve - and mere cocksleeves do not have a say in who, when, or how often I fuck. The idea is laughable.
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No.6256
>>6217
The idea that this board is inhabited by IRL alpha males seems by orders of magnitude more implausible than being inhabited by IRL grills.
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No.6259
>>6256
I'm going to chose to believe him. But anyway, even if he's pretending perhaps he might get the confidence to turn some lucky girl into a cuckquean irl if we encourage him.
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No.6266
>>6259
>s he might get the confidence to turn some lucky girl into a cuckquean irl if we encourage him
I-I'm all ears…
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No.6268
>>6256
>>6259
I don't need any encouragement on that front, but thank you for the thought. I suppose I could work in some extras from Tinder or something so your words don't go to waste.
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No.11492
>>6156
<BEING THIS ASSREKT
You're definitely a female.
>implying men aren't biologically hard-wired to slam as much pussy as possible
My wife will either learn to accept that she is my primary - but by no means only - vaginal exploit/broodmare, or she will become my ex-wife. The biological imperative waits for no man, no morality, and no qualm.
To you who would bemoan my philandering and biological supremacy:
THE WEAK SHOULD FEAR THE STRONG.
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No.11496
>>6148
>>6156
you dont have to worry about good guys cheating just because they saw this thread.
Anyway, dont some girls get off on the jealousy/embarrassment/competition/imcompetence?? You cant speak for everyone. The ideal partner/situation is in everyone's imagination.
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No.11499
>>11492
>vaginal exploit
>biological imperative
>bemoan my philandering
*tips fedora in recognition of another supreme gentleman*
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No.11540
>>6111
Personally I'm very opposed to this sort of thing because I'm a slut for humiliation. I don't want my bf to fuck girls behind my back - I want him to do it right in front of me. I want to be forced to watch him. Actually, more than that - I want to be forced to serve them.
Not only do I have to watch, but I have to assist them. If the vixen wants a glass of water, I have to bring it for her. As they fuck, I stand in the corner and observe, waiting to help should I need anything. When they're done, my bf and the vixen cuddle up in bed while I have to rest on the floor - perhaps on a rug or something, but with no blanket or pillow besides my arm. In the morning, I make breakfast for both of them, and make sure that everything the vixen wants is done before she takes off.
All that, and I get nothing out of it. I can't even masturbate while watching them because I'm locked in a chastity belt at all times. The closest I get to release is my dildo - I can play with my ass, but that's it. I might imagine being fucked by an actual man as I do so, but I haven't experienced that in forever and won't for the forseeable future.
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No.11551
>>11540
I can try to explain what it's about because I imagine it doesn't make much sense to many humiliation or compersion oriented cuckqueans. Like you explain, if you can't see it or be involved in any way, what's the point as far as you're concerned? It's too far removed from what you like as a cuckquean.
If a guy was cheating and his girl never found out there wouldn't really be a point to having this thread here. Instead the humiliation aspect could come from suspecting it or even finding out about it directly, for example by catching them in the act.
In other cases it's not real cheating but more of a fantasy or game based around having less information and control. Naturally there can be a submissive or compersive element to that. She's putting his wants ahead of her own needs, even her own needs as a cuckquean to be a voyeur. She doesn't necessarily know the when, where and who of the other women. That can be an exciting thrill. There's also the idea that the vixen is so seductive to her man that he can't resist her at all, that he'll cheat because she's so desirable.
Technically it's not real cheating anyway because it's consensual, but it can be close it. A part of the fantasy can be working out where the line is drawn, what the limits are, and pushing them. As an extension to this there are ideas about women being forced or learning to become cuckqueans as a result of cheating. Again, it's all fantasy and roleplay based on power dynamics. Like >>11496 says I don't think any decent guy is going to do any of this without first having a good idea about what his girlfriend or wife wants deep down.
So in conclusion imagine someone with less interest in the voyeurism or being physically involved or present, and more interested in the psychological elements, and you can see how these types of cheating fantasies work.
>>11499 (Checked)
Yes, the way that post is phrased is just awful. The core ideas are fine (apart from the morality part) but the language and whole approach is poor.
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No.18659
>>6189
>besides, men will be men, right?
I hope so!
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