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/cuckquean/, I'd like to know what you think of the terminology that's evolved lately around cuckqueaning. Not just the obvious term like "cuckquean", I mean things like
Cuckcake - another girl whom the partner fucks, non-dominant and friendly towards the cuckquean
Mare (from cuckolding's "bull") - another girl who the partner fucks, dominant and degrading towards the cuckquean
Queanbull (after some Tumblr blog, idk) - the partner of a cuckquean
'Cuckmaster - same
Queancake - I have no idea what this means, I think Tumblr is just mashing words together now
Personally? I think it's awesome that words are emerging to describe different positions within different cuckqueaning dynamics but honestly I hate these words. They're so cutesy and chucklefucky. They also don't really suggest the positions in and of themselves, so you just end up with more confusing labels that need to be explained. (Worse yet, I'm starting to see cutesy definition graphics emerge as people try to name themselves experts on this.)
What do you all think of the emerging vocab? Do you think it can be improved?
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No.2975
>>2928
>Often, it also feels like a cheap failed pun on cupcake…
Wait what's the real origin of the term if it isn't cupcake related?
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No.2977
>>2975
>>2928
Same here, I thought cuckcake was literally just an over sexualized pun on cupcake brought about by people who wanted to try and act cute with their fetish and only ended up failing and causing a linguistic nightmare.
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No.2979
>>2972
Beautiful Blonde Cunt/Cutey?
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No.2989
>>2974
Didn't really have to be about interracial shit, more that BBC has become a meme at this point that is synonymous with cuckolding. That is what I was looking for.
>>2979
That one is cute.
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No.2990
>>2989
>a meme at this point that is synonymous with cuckolding. That is what I was looking for.
Cuckqueaning doesn't really have an equivalent. Which IMO is a good thing.
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No.2998
>>2990
>Cuckqueaning doesn't really have an equivalent.
Having viewed more that a few cuckquean porn vids (amateur and pro) I would generally agree with this assessment. The only common theme would be that the vixen looks different from the quean in some respect. Older, younger, hair or skin color, weight.
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No.3017
Thanks.
For my porn I def enjoy Mare/cuckquean style. However in my real life I would like a cuckcake.
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No.3020
>>236
You're telling me she doesn't bake you little cakes to snack on while you watch? You're getting ripped off.
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No.3030
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No.3311
Lately it seems like those with compersive cuckquean interests are not identifying themselves as cuckqueans, mainly because cuckqueaning seems to denote humiliation by default and compersive cuckqueaning simply isn't known about.
Might it be that another term is needed, related to cuckquean but exclusively denoting compersive cuckqueaning? It seems like the whole compersive/humiliation distinction gets completely lost otherwise.
Problem with this idea for me is that I like the cuckquean term. I like the horn symbolism, I like the sound of the word, I like its origins. I want to keep it.
Perhaps a new word for the humiliation cuckqueaning side of things, to weaken its grip on the default word? Pic unrelated.
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No.3313
>>3311
>Perhaps a new word for the humiliation cuckqueaning side of things, to weaken its grip on the default word?
I don't think this can ever happen as long as "cuck" means what it does on the male side of things. You'd have more luck making a new word for the compersive side. You might be able to push "compersive cuckqueaning" as a phrase, though, and I certainly sympathize with wanting to keep sharing that umbrella.
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No.3314
>>3311
>>3313
What about just "quean" for the compersive cuckqueans?
A woman who shares her man is a quean.
A woman who shares her man to feel humiliated and denied is a cuck-quean.
It cuts out "cuck" and its humiliating associations by default, its spelling sets it apart, but it kind of keeps the head wife-ish and by choice associations because it's pronounced like "queen".
Plus, making "cuck" a suffix makes humiliation the special case instead of the default and keeps all of "cuck"'s potency as an insult.
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No.3315
>>3314
>making "cuck" a suffix
Fuck, I meant a prefix. A prefix!
Kind of an ironic mistake, when you think about it.
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No.3317
>>3314
Ehhh. That might work until you have to pronounce it verbally and then immediately clarify, every time, that you don't mean "queen" and it's not femdom.
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No.3318
>>3311
I don't really care for having separate words to make the distinction either. FWIW there's a similar feeling among cuckolds, but there's the establish hotwife scene that catches anyone who doesn't see humiliation inherent to sharing the wife. There's just a venn diagram where a segment of hotwifers intersects simply because they want to belong to a peer group that's very "popular" right now. There's a perception to hotwife/swinging where it's sleazy or degenerate. Some people see cuckolds as enlightened, though that is ridiculous.
Point is, if you want open relationships with no power dynamic, that's swinging and it's been around forever. People who want to be part of this new cuck fad but don't like the power dynamic are just looking to avoid old labels. This bugs me a little bit because it just makes it harder for people to get what they want.
If you really want a word for it, how about just "fuckquean". Narrows the focus, keeps a connection.
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No.3321
>>3318
>they want to belong to a peer group that's very "popular" right now
>Some people see cuckolds as enlightened
wat
why
why tho
>Point is, if you want open relationships with no power dynamic, that's swinging and it's been around forever. People who want to be part of this new cuck fad but don't like the power dynamic are just looking to avoid old labels.
Problem with swinging is exactly that it's assumed as a bidirectional open relationship. I just want my boyfriend to fuck and have zero interest in other men - that's one of the reasons we had to avoid swingers' clubs. And there is still a power dynamic between he and I - it's just that I don't feel humiliated or disadvantaged because of it.
I suppose there comes a point at which we have to stop trying to divide this up or we turn into Tumblr snowflakes.
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No.3326
>>3321
>why tho
what bruh, you still treat your girl like she's some exclusive piece of meat only you get to enjoy? Like you control her something? How positively quaint.
> swinging is exactly that it's assumed as a bidirectional open relationship.
Swinging is a blanket term that applies to pretty much any activity that allows one to have sex outside the limits of a monogamous relationship. If someone assumes a more narrow focus, that's on them. I'm sure if you went to a swinger's club and said "he's here to have fun and I'm here to watch", you'd still be met with open arms.
> And there is still a power dynamic between he and I
But there's no power dynamic between you and the unicorn, right? You only interact with them visually? That's the important distinction between cucking and swinging, since the humiliation in cuck comes from the third being better than you in some way.
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No.3327
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No.3329
>>3326
>>3327
Yeah, "unicorn" isn't really the right term I think? The other girl doesn't really have to be into girls… a-although I think it's nice…
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No.3331
>>3329
Yeah, "unicorn" is an older term than either vixen or cuckcake and to my understanding denotes a bisexual girl willing to be a couple's third. Has different associations.
But it'll never not remind me of this.
>>3326
>I'm sure if you went to a swinger's club and said "he's here to have fun and I'm here to watch", you'd still be met with open arms.
That's good. Perhaps one day we'll give it a shot if we find a nice place.
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No.3332
>>3321
>why
I recall that semi-recently there was a rash of "lifestyle" articles about how cuckoldry was the "thinking man's fetish" or some such nonsense. That's probably just a symptom though. Fashions generally don't make any sense.
>>3326
>I'm sure if you went to a swinger's club and said "he's here to have fun and I'm here to watch", you'd still be met with open arms.
Don't swinger's clubs generally try to discourage single men from getting into the mix? If she was only watching while her boyfriend played with other women, wouldn't that be the same net result as admitting a single man?
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No.3335
>>3332
Depends on the place. When I went to clubs in NYC back in the day, my wife would dress all slutty and flirt with the guys but wouldn't play unless it was with me. She might play with the other ladies a bit, but not the men. I, on the other hand, had freedom to play as I liked. We were more partial to the BDSM clubs, so this wasn't a frequent occurrence.
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No.3337
>>3332
>Don't swinger's clubs generally try to discourage single men from getting into the mix?
True, but that's mostly about weeding out creeps. The true weirdos who can't keep a woman and have a 90% chance of being there to actively try and break up an otherwise healthy marriage.
>>3327
>>3329
>>3331
I used the term unicorn because I understood it to be "a female third introduced into a relationship that won't cause any jealousy issues or try to separate them so she can take the man for herself". In modern, non-kink relationships it's called a unicorn because it doesn't exist.
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No.3344
>>3337
>be "a female third introduced into a relationship that won't cause any jealousy issues or try to separate them so she can take the man for herself". In modern, non-kink relationships it's called a unicorn because it doesn't exist.
Wow, that all sounds like a pain. Good thing we don't have to worry about unicorn-hunting; vixens are way easier to find.
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No.3688
Sigh…
SV/DCQ: Sub Vixen, Dom Cuckquean-
Relationship in which the Cuckquean degrades and humiliates the Vixen
DV/SCQ: Dom Vixen, Sub Cuckquean-
Opposite of above
PV/CQ: Passive, friendly relationship between Vixen and CQ.
AV/CQ: Aggressive, hateful relationship between Vixen and CQ, also known as reality.
CV/CQ: Competitive relationship between Vixen and CQ- The constant battle to one up the other. Involves jealousy.
LV/LCQ: Lesbian Vixen, and Lesbian CQ- a shit ton of confusion and mental issues.
If you have caught on to the pattern i am using here, you probably have realized that this is a much simpler way to categorize the fetish rather than make up a couple of really cringy, disgusting terms in order to describe something that really does not need such a unique category.
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No.4147
>>3688
Anon being Very Clever aside, these categories do seem to include most of the dynamics I've heard of, except I'd change "Competitive" to "Rival" (RV/CQ) and add one more:
CV/CQ: Active, co-operative relationship between Vixen and Cuckquean, where one or both assist the other.
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No.4151
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No.4159
>>4151
And that's why I always side with Freedom.
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No.4175
>>4159
>Siding with the mutant fucking hippies
Oh dear.
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No.4180
>>4175
Well, in fairness, the Zone is a gigantic sausage-fest. And you know, if the choice is boning a mutant or two or hearing big brother Duty talking about his mission over the loudspeaker every time I went to the merchant, then light some candles and break out the lube.
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No.18581
Bumping this thread because we've had lots of minor terminology threads popping up lately.
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No.18591
>>4175
> Taking jokes literally
Have you considered cognitive behavior therapy? A lot of autists like you find great help in it.
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No.18592
>>4175
>>4180
Always wanted to play that but my PC is ancient even for this. Do you have the option to violate muties?
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No.18593
>>18592
No. The whole game is a sausage fest, anyways.
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No.18598
>>18592
Same here, I started playing it on three seperate occasions and each time either my saves got deleted or my CD got fucked or some other problem prevented me from playing it.
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No.18599
>>18598
They're not the most well built games, in a lot of ways. A lot of great ideas, but they're a bit janky, so it doesn't surprise me that you had problems. There are a bunch of mods out there, though, so that might help. I think most of them are geared towards helping the games reach their potential, gameplay wise, but some might address technical problems. I'm not really that familiar with them.
That picture makes me sad that there's no proper Slav simulators focused around cute girls. The closest would be the Witcher games, probably. We need to either import some Japanese people to Eastern Europe, or some Slavs to Japan, and get that ball fucking rolling.
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No.18600
>>18599
Anime game with QT St Olga when?
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No.18601
>>18599 (checked)
Yeah, I'd probably play it with some mods. There's a few meh-tier games I know like Travnica and Everlasting Summer, the latter would've been a decent game if the character art was as good as the background art and if the main character wasn't so completely unlikable and unrelatable, but yeah, you're right.
>be Slavic
>been planning a comfy RPG game like Skyrim about Slavic fairy tales and folklore
>can't program for shit
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No.18602
>>18600 (checked)
We can only hope, anon.
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No.18604
>>18601
>can't program
If you can dream it, you can do it. Git gud with programming.
We'll be waiting on qt milfy Baba Yaga.
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No.18605
>>18604
>>Milfy Baba yaga
>>Not going for the obvious Lolibaba interpretation
Actually now that I think about it why not have her be able to switch between both?
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No.18606
>>18605
Well, being an old witch, I figured it would be more appropriate to have her be older the other charactes, which would be young girls. And she'd have great big tits, as is anime law. And naturally, her chicken legged house would be a mecha.
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No.18609
>>18601
I know RPG Maker at least has some pretty nice documentation so even if ya don't know about programming ya can start there.
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No.18610
>>18609
Yeah, but that restricts you to, you know, making RPG Maker games.
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No.19278
The male cuckolds (oh sorry, they prefer to be called stags now) have made a play for the “vixen” term. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Vixen
Is there nothing they won’t throw their vile nature onto?
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No.19279
>>19278
Hm. Any idea for how we fuck their shit up, people?
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No.19280
>>19279
The most straightforward way would be to post our canonical definition from >>1551 and then all vote it up past all the malecuck definitions. What happens next will shock you!
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No.19281
>>19279
Is there anywhere cuckolds congregate besides /leftypol/ where we could remind them that the dynamics of their fetish are different?
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No.19282
>>19281
>making contact with male cuckolds
>ever
It’s not worth it. Trust me, it’s not worth it. It’s the opposite of worth it.
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No.19284
>>19282
>male cuckold
Isn't that a tautology?
But in all seriousness, maybe we should at least consider it.
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