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>How does a Christian move past the "dunking on atheists/non-Christians" phase of knowing about Christianity and move toward actually living out a Christian life?
Never really wanted to dunk on anyone, but I did want to share, and the atheist (and God haters) slapped me down pretty good. You have to realize, all you can do is pray for them as Grace is a gift from God. Some of them really have to hit bottom before they'll find Grace. OTOH, it is against Church teaching to associate with heretics and atheist. Most Catholics don't know about that one.
Others will be impressed by a good example. I've messed up my life so I'll never be a good example, but my research advisor in Grad school was a very good Catholic and since meeting him and looking up to him, I wanted to be like him.
>That seems to be my biggest issue. A sense of intellectual "pride" knowing that I am defending God from His detractors and blasphemers, without actually living a decently Christian life.
Well, you're required to defend the faith; that's why the Bishop gives you a symbolic (or real) blow to the cheek at the sacrament of confirmation; to remind you to defend the faith.