I've been thinking about the concept of oversocialization from Uncle Ted's Industrial Society and It's Future, and this occurred to me.
In case you haven't read it, basically, socialization is when people learn the norms, morals, and values of society, and then act on the. Oversociallization is when someone learns these norms, morals, and values of society and takes them too far, to the point that they reject them on the whole because the think they do not hold up to their own standards. An example would be a liberal who hates America and say that it was founded on racism, even though in actuality America was founded on the ideal of the inherent equality of all men. Even though that ideal was not completely achieved in the beginning, and even if that ideal is factually incorrect and unachievable, that founding ideal was still there. An oversocialized person is incapable of understanding that even if an value of a society is not perfectly met, it is still a value of that society. If that didn't make sense, I suggest you go read Industrial Society and It's Future, it's explained much better in there.
Anyway, I've noticed that atheists seem to have this same sort of oversocialized attitude towards Christianity. Whenever you hear them complain about Christianity, it always boils down to the same two reasons:
>1. God is mean, and doesn't follow his own rules.
or
>2. Christians are mean, and don't follow their own rules.
Notice the similarity to oversocialization? They will complain that God says killing people is wrong, but then kills people. Or that Christians say that you should love everybody, but then are sometimes hateful. And so on. Notice that nowhere do they disagree that killing is wrong, or that love is good. Their main complaint is that they think that God and Christians don't live up to their own standard. They are oversocialized.
Of course, this isn't an entirely perfect theory. They will also claim that Christians are bad because Christianity opposes homosexuality. But even then, one of their biggest reasons for supporting homosexuality is that they think it is wrong to judge other people. Not judging people (without judging yourself) is a Christian value. Again this seems to be related to oversocialization, because they take the not judging way to far.
So what do you all think of this.