/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover

>ABDLF updated their site

>Tykables Overnights not on the site anymore

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Worst part is that saveexpress has them, but they don't stock MegaMaxes :(

>>109755

>>109756

Interesting development: I got contact information for someone in the ABDL scene in my city, I contacted her and am waiting on a reply.

Maybe she can help me further with something like this.

> get gf

> ForReal.jpg

> tell her about this stupid fetish

> she doesn’t mind

> Hope

> she doesn’t mind so long as I don’t wet or mess around her

Beggars can’t be choosers I guess, still very happy to not be mocked.

>>109871

I think that's fair, she can't control her dislike of seeing wetting messing any more than you can control your enjoyment of it. As long as she accepts it that's what's important

>>109867

Got a reply, she doesn't really help people directly with finding someone. Understandable but a bit of a bummer.

Oh well, guess i'll have to wait until fetish meets happen again which is probably never.

Question for those with a Magic Wand: do you think one with a ribbed/dotted head would ruin the front of my diaper when I use it?

>>109880

Yeah, solid level of communication/openness. She’s willing to change me into one, make me cum in one, and generally baby me including breastfeeding. Really not too bad to not get the bathroom use all things considered.

>>109909

pretty jelly tbh, I can't even properly wear here at home.

I am very close to buying one of those CB-6000 chastity cages just for shits 'n giggles, talk me out of buying one.

Are they safe for short term (less than a few hours or so) wearing?

>>109959

No. You want one for shit 'n giggles, then get one, give it a go, see if you like it. There's plenty of guides out there so go read up and make sure you know what do safely. Also it's probably best to start with wearing it for a short time to begin with.

>>109982

So they are safe for short-term wearing yes/no? Can you link me some guides?

>>109985

https://www.lovense.com/bdsm-blog/chastity-cage

This is the first result I got from googling, just search 'guide to wearing a chastity cage' and have a look. There's loads.

>>109987

>mfw the amount of maintenance and care chastity needs

Jesus christ. I'll postpone getting one indefinitely for now then. A cage + wet/messy diapers = BAD idea with regards to hygiene.

>>109987

>>109990

Maybe when i'll find someone to wear with who can help me with it i'll consider getting one but that's gonna be a while, if ever.

Another question: i'm looking for some extremely powerful laxatives, what's out there? Preferably something that doesn't take half a day to work.

>>109990

I mean like anything with you body you need to be careful. It may seem overwhelming but essentially so long as you get one that fits correctly, and keep the area and cage clean you should be fine. Wearing one in a wet/messy diaper is fine (I've done it) just be sure to clean up properly after.

>>109992

Is it true that cumming after a while of chastity feels much more intense?

>>109998

I mean for me it felt no different then if I just went without for a while not wearing a cage, though there is something freeing when you take it off though. That being said I've only worn it for a day at most, so can't say for what it's like wearing one for longer periods. I bought it as a curiosity and only really take it out to use occasionally.

So I had a realization this morning that I haven't worn boxers for over a year now. Since I started working from home I've been able to wear diapers and ageplay clothes more and more, and once I had a decent collection of traing pants or adult baby briefs just stopped wearing adult boxers. In fact the only adult underwear I wear now are panties when I fell like crossdressing.

>>109653

Probably because it’s some catfish larper. Absolutely no normie would be that open about it. I have normie friends who know what im into but it’s not a topic of discussion, it is not something for every acquaintance to know. Least not be because it isn’t really fair to share your kinnk on normie media

>>110076

That's pretty cool. Can you tell a difference in the material between those and ABDL onesies? Like do they feel more professional / babylike or higher quality since normals tend to buy them?

I always have trouble with getting WAY too hot in a onesie / footed PJs. Which sucks because I have a lot of cute ones but I could never sleep in one without being way too uncomfortable. Plus I need my feets to breathe!! They get claustrophobic!

>>110077

Yeah I wonder if it's someone larping. If they were trying to catfish people for money or trying to draw in horny ABDL guys I imagine that they'd have way more obvious ABDL stuff on there though. It's so weird that it's so subtle and just the occasional tweet about diapers. I still think it might be real but if it's real it doesn't make sense to me how someone can be so normal and then occasionally tweet about diapers.

spent most of my 20s living with parents or shit roommates

grinded my ass off during the pandemic to save money

moved in to my own apartment recently

can wear diapers whenever i want now

sometimes life isn't so bad...

I have finally started wetting the bed more often than not with out waking up. Pretty excited but now i kinda worry if i end up passing out at a friends place or something people would find out .

>>110118

way to go anon, its only a slippery slope from now on

>>110176

For sure, I had lived with my parents and would sneak wearing diapers for awhile. Then met my Mommy and moved in with her 5 years ago. Went 24/7 and didn't look back. Now I can't be trusted to go without.

>>110118

Grats anon.

>>110200

https://youtu.be/9-e8YOkCeS8

Anyone know what happened to oglertube.com?

LGBTQABDL+ when?

Imagine it, you can turn up to work in nothing but a diaper, and your employer can't say a word

You can get people arrested for calling you pisspants or 𝚸𝚺𝛅𝚹phile

The state will subsidise the cost for surgery to make you incontinent, to have your body match the way you feel inside

We can use public changing rooms without shame

it could be glorious, the whole world has to partake in our perversion, under penalty of criminal prosecution

>>110324

Never, hopefully.

If you really, seriously want to be associated with those LGBTQ faggots who act so obnoxiously in public that it makes normies and even other faggots want to lynch them, then I think you should get the rope too.

Homos of whatever variety at least know who they are and what they want. That ain't me, but I can respect it.

Trannies want everyone else to accept something they won't even accept themselves. Fuck 'em.

I know who I am, and I know my perversions aren't fit for public expression. They make laws to let niggers be niggers, they make laws to let trannies be surgery-niggers; but there was a reason people didn't want that stuff happening in the first place. If laws have to be written to protect you while you're doing your thing, there's a good chance you shouldn't fucking be doing it. And by that I mean inflicting it on other people.

So no, fuck off. Don't even joke about it. It's not funny whether you're being retarded ironically or whether you can't help it.

>>110324

I'm kinda digging the surgery idea. I'd probably take that option if it were available.

>>110330

While I agree with you to an extent laws change periodically with the changes in society. I also don't like the whole "I'm a woman (but really a man) so you must treat me like one and refer to me as one otherwise I'll take it as an act of violence against me" like get outta here with your delusional bullshit. BUT if they want to walk around in a dress and be a man, whatever. If people wanted to walk around in a diaper and act like a toddler then let them. So long as they don't expect EVERYONE to treat them as if they're 2, or as if they're a woman and buy into the whole make belief world they live in it's fine in my book. Everyone should be able to do what they please so long as they aren't hurting anyone else. The whole "nobody wants to see that and what bout mah childrens" argument is kinda weak. The person walking around in a diaper or a dress isn't hurting anyone, if you don't like it look away. It's the same for normie shit too, if you don't like confederate monuments or flags...fucking look away.

>>110324

Honestly? No. ABDL is a kink, and should be treated as such. People don't want kinks and fetishes be included within the LGBTQ+, they need to be their own thing.

>>110368

The T is a kink as well, and that's widely supported.

>>110381

Crossdressing and sissification are kinks, being trans is not.

>>110383

There's no difference

It's anguish relieved by crossdressing and role play, if that counts as a medical disorder then so does wearing a diaper in wallmart

The experts themselves say this anguish doesn't need to reach suicidal levels to be valid, anything goes.

>>110385

They're not, crossdressing and roleplay are completely different to being trans, but clearly knowing the diffeence is far too complicated for someone such as yourself.

Whats funny s there are multiple other things you could have picked, like Leather, Latex, & BDSM Pride or Rubber Pride but instead you pick something that is already accepted.

>>110387

You haven't explained why, you're just asserting that it's true. Twice no less.

It gives me the strong impression that you don't spread your beliefs by justifying them, you spread them by insisting on them.

Sissy's and crossdressers get prescribed HRT too, they are trans in the eyes of the law, in fact they're trans in the eyes of everybody except people who arbitrate what "real" trans is, but this doesn't supersede law or human rights so it's inconsequential.

One day when we master telepathy the question will finally be answered, but until then there is no applicable difference.

I guess in the mean time we can get a head start on arbitrating what a "real" ABDL is.

>put on brand new Abena

>first time padded in months

>”lemme wet for a few hours before bed”

>wet

>need to poo

>NEED to poo

>don’t even consider going to the toilet, just bend my knees and mess the fuck out of my diaper

That was some intense little space but fuck this is going to take awhile to clean up

>>110388

Because that's not not how this works? You're the one contesting established science, thus you're the one who needs to back up their claim.

You claim that being trans is a kink. Prove it.

I've just been prescribed some medication that has a rare side effect of incontinence. Can someone convince me why it would be a bad idea to wet my pants and blame it on the meds?

What can I do / take to destroy my bladder? Serious question. I’m already urge incontinent and have to pee sometimes as often as every 5 minutes even if the last time I had water was over an hour ago. I currently have to pee about 20 times per day, but it’s extremely annoying to consciously feel the urge/pressure to pee so often.

I have a nice jobby and the ability to piss myself so often without this affecting my life. If anything the amount of toilet trips I’m making now is a massive waste of time.

>>110422

Haha I was thinking about doing that as well. Side effects of two of my meds can be nocturnal enuresis (bedwetting) and urinary incon. Couldn't I just tell the doctors "I'm having some night time wetting issues and occasional wetting myself while awake" and they'd give me a reason to wear and wet diapers wherever. (oh but I use the VA hospital system so i'm sure LOTS of people here would have an issue with me getting compensation for urinary incon if I went that route, ya know cause it's basically the same thing babystar did)

>>110425

With it impacting your life the way it is getting a script for diapers shouldn't be a problem. But if you find something that isn't shoving a tube up your pee hole and letting it ruin your muscles let me know.

>>110426

I’m going to my general doc to get a referral in a an hour actually. Yet I probably won’t be able to see a specialist for a short while due to current preoccupations. I really would rather be fully incontinent at this point because I am toilet breaking and washing my hands 20+ times a day without even drinking a healthy amount of water for my activity level. Never mind the discomfort. If it results is a script, great. As long as I don’t have to wear a catheter.

I already wear diapers to bed because I’m waking my spouse around 3 to 4 times per night getting out of bed otherwise. Apart from dehydrating myself I don’t really know what to do. I thought holding everything would help retrain my bladder, but that only makes it impossible to focus on whatever I’m currently doing, so I’m between a rock and a hard place.

>>110428

Oh I can imagine it being a real pain to constantly feel the urge to go and actually have to go to the bathroom RIGHT THEN. I wouldn't think the catheter would be the first choice for your doctor. I could be wrong though since I'm no medical professional. They seem to have lots of downsides.

Anyway I hope your doc was able to help you out in some way. Keep us updated, I'd be interested to know what happens.

>>110441

I wasn’t able to receive a referral at this time due to a long-distance move, so I’ll have to try again after I’m settled.

>>109998

It can do, just like if you refrain from doing for a couple weeks or month or so, then let it out. I've personally found that the build up helps, the anticipation that when you remove it you can really have some fun.

>>109990

I wouldn't worry, it's only a bad idea if you don't take care of it, especially if you plan on messing. I got one last year to wear, and had no issues. I usually wear it at night while diapered, it helps keep things in check, and that does sometime involve messing. Important thing is, when you do your usual clean-up take it off and wash it, especially if it got dirty. Once it's clean, dry it off and pop it back on again, easy. If you're already wearing diapers and messing them it's really nothing special.

Also, since you're new I'd advise getting a silicon one first. They're soft and flexible and so are perfect for getting use to wearing one, plus if you do get an erection while wearing it there will be less discomfort (and trust me, you will to begin with). Once you're use to it move onto a plastic or metal one, I prefer plastic but some of the metal ones do look really nice.

Also, a couple other tips: Trim your pubes if you don't already, or they will get caught, and I'm sure you don't need me to tell you what that's like. Also if you're wearing one without a diaper, pee sitting down. Do it standing up and you'll make a mess. Finally always make sure you know where a key is, just in case of unforseen circumstances that require you to remove it. Some people like to freeze it in a bowl of water so while you can't get to it instantly, you can still access it fairly easily just by heating the bowl up and melting the ice. I keep my spare in a draw with the rest of my stash, don't really feel the need to do all that since like I said, I mainly wear when I sleep.

Go try it out and have some fun. It may seem intimidating but really it's not!

>>110559

I informed what a silicon cage is and holy FUCK they're expensive. I'd rather spend that on a nice magic wand and diapers.

>>110422

So I mentioned to my doc that I was having some night time bladder issues but she didn't buy it. Ah well, probably for the best.

>>110641

Don't try to trick doctors, they know better.

I have case of having to pee every hour, ever since my early teens. I used the bathroom everytime there was a class change, the time one teacher leaves the class and another comes in, so no one noticed or if they did they didn't made fun of it.

Later, I tried to use this to justify wearing diapers to an urologist. He did some exams and said I just have a sensitive bladder or something like that and I could hold in the pee just fine, diapers weren't needed.

Like you said it was for the better, I can say the same. I tried going 24 hours for three days and that was a pain in the ass, now I have sympathy for people who actually need to use diapers.