No.46699
Is this normal?
So I don't have much of a sexual experience, but when I do think about it, I want myself to be serviced by the girl. I would want her to take off my jeans, get it hard - if it isn't already and just do everything. I hate doing these kind of things and I would want someone to do all that. If I imagine myself fucking a girl, I sure would fuck her, but I also would love to be serviced here - like when I can just close my eyes and she will cowgirl me.
I would love to tell her what to do and just she would do all that. At the same time, I expect her to figure it out sooner or later and do these things automatically. Seduce me and everything.
It got to the point I don't really even find normal porn appealing, because it makes me feel so shit that I have to do all the tasks, like get myself aroused, jerk off, wipe it of....? It makes me feel like shit and I would want to have someone that would do all that for me.
I also really wonder, is this being submissive, dominant, something in-between or retarded (like im just a retard)? I generally really hate being submissive, but when someone says that he's being dominant, I expect he does all that himself. Not sure..
Maybe my ego is just too inflated. wtf this?
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No.46700
Another question, when you think about sex, what do you imagine?
Im just really wondering if this is normal or im just like fucked up or something, not sure who else to ask, thx in advance 8kunners for all replies.
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No.46701
>>46699
>>46700
>this is what western society have become
Why the hell everybody in your west society are paranoid as fuck ?
if you feel good just do it .. for god sake
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No.46712
>>46701
Paranoid about what exactly? About being yourself? I guess reputation? No idea
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No.46713
>>46712
about everythings you ask...
>is this normal
>what you imagine while you have sex
lol you have no confident in yourself . what you fear ? that's why I said you are paranoid .
like you msut ask permission from unknow ruler
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No.46737
>>46699
......in other words..... you're a Homosexual
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No.46738
>>46699
ITS SIMPLE : PAY ATTENTION
The scenario you hypothesize have nothing to do with sex, and everything to do with your own self perception as being a powerless little insignificant nobody, with no control over your life...
it's all about you trying to overcompensate and pretend like you're in control of something
But why waste your time with hypothesis about heterosexual scenarios?.... You're a
You're a homosexual
You are not a heterosexual
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No.46739
Instead of jacking off thinking about the hot girl at school like normal boys do...
You've worked yourself into a frantic frenzy, needlessly overthinking your lack of control, and how you would overcompensate
You're like a NEUROTIC DIVORCED MIDDLE-AGED WOMAN mixed with a 6 YEAR OLD GIRL
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No.46740
terrified of rejection, when it is discovered....
that you have a tiny little dick.....
and no idea...
how to use it
"LIKE A BOSS", right?.....
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No.46741
>>46699
It's okay, though.....
not every male can be normal... there's always going to be that one weirdo dork, the butt of our jokes, the one we all laugh at behind his back...
so...... you decided life would be easier if YOU were that dork?
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No.46742
>>46699
hint: there's never going to be a WATER BOY HALL OF FAME
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No.46745
>>46699
FEAR, RELUCTANCE, APPREHENSION, AND FAILURE
the thread
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No.46843
>>46713
Yes, but not because I'd ask for a permission. When I was young I was judged on a lot of things I've done and I don't know what's normal and what's not normal, until last year I've missed a lot of social skills and the only way I taught how to talk with people, is that I've watched other people reactions in certain situations. That's how I taught myself what emotions should I have in what situations, because I tend to get a lot confused.
The more people I know, the more opinions I have, the better I'm able to act and fit in the normal life. I don't want to have 0 friends. But simply, there are situations I just don't know what is right and what isn't and I don't want to come off as weird and therefore I act what the majority of society does. I might pretend things, but if I wouldn't pretend them, I wouldn't be where I'm now.
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No.46845
>>46737
Maybe, that's also an option. I may rather be a bisexual if so, but I don't find men attractive and the idea of giving or receiving anal sex makes me sick in my stomach.
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No.46846
>>46738
Based on what do you sy that? What exactly made you have that idea? Maybe I'm, but how can I know that I'm a homosexual? Because I like men? But I don't or maybe I just live in denial or something?
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No.46847
>>46741
No, the reason I'm asking this question is the exact opposite, I don't want to be the dork. I want to know what is it like for the normal human and act the same way.
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No.46848
>>46745
Maybe, I don't know how those emotions feel, except fear.
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No.46850
>>46847
If you were to answer, be yourself, I don't know what is it like to be myself. There are many ways I can respond to a situation and the final choice is usually the one that is the most common.
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No.46853
>>46739
I don't know if I feel this way. If you say so, I don't have enough of research and I don't know what is it like to either, having no control and having everything under control.
Right now I think that everything that is possible and everything that I want to be under my control, is under my control, but maybe it isn't? I think it is from my point of view though. But that's a subjective opinion and I may live in a confirmation bias or something like that.
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No.46857
>>46843
ok. first you as you see... this 8kun was invade by mental ill spamers . you can't really know which is truth reply or trolls.
I suffest you should ask people in another social media where you can be sure they are real human not a troll or bots .
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No.46861
>>46857
Haha, yeah. I'm aware of that and I take everything with grain of salt, but I'm really curious, what other social media should I use? See.. The main reason I use 8kun is because it's plain and simple, no stupid registrations, no stupid limits.. Where else should I ask questions? Quora? Reddit? Quora seems impractical, Reddit subreddits often enforce some limits (such as the karma you need) and I don't feel like tying everything I on-to one account. I don't know about any other social media. I don't think I use any.. :P 8kun is OK even if theres bunch of trolls.
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No.46868
>when you think about sex, what do you imagine?
I think about the engineered creature I'm going to have the smart people that i bred for this make, that will remove everything besides my brain and nerve systems, keep it (me) alive, and feeds pleasurable impulses to me so i think im being fucked.
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