/mai/ - Waifu★

Don't look at it.

The same way everyone else deals with all the soul crushing pressure, guilt, and pain residing at the periphery of day to day life. Don't think about it.

> tfw 90% of the porn with my waifu is yuri

I don't mind

>>64403 (OP)

I feel the same way when it comes to porn of Ruby; the best thing to do is just ignore it/steer clear of it.

>>64626

Pretty much this.

>>64403 (OP)

Find a character that looks similar to her and look up the most vile and hardcore pornography of that character you can find, preferably depicted in similar situations to whatever it was you saw drawn of your waifu. Then just reason in your mind that any porn of your waifu you saw was that character instead.

>>64403 (OP)

The way I look at it, having almost the exact problem with waifu lewd myself it isnt canon. plain and simple. Its still rough to see when looking for new images, yes, but that allows me to simply put in the back of my head that it isnt really her and nor is it necessarily something she'd do or even be into. You know your waifu better than some pornmonkey drawing her for shekels.

>>64429

Consider suicide

Alright so this is going to be a vent post so if you don't like vent posts please ignore me.

I know, I know, it can't be helped, rule 34 exists for everyone, just don't look at it, etc etc. But no matter how much I mentally prepare for this kind of situation, I just can't deal with it. I just can't.

Everytime I check pixiv, there's a new lewd pic of her.

Everytime I check new Comiket content there's at least 2-3 doujinshi of her. Tags are always rape, mind break, public use etc.

Everytime I search for her name on twitter I get doujinshi book sites announcing new stuff of her.

Everytime I browse halfchan there's a thread of her with anons saying things like "yeah I fapped to her like crazy" or linking doujinshi/posting cropped porn.

Oh, and I didn't even mentioned her h-flash games. Yes, it is THAT bad.

And that shit destroys me. It ruins my day. I feel sad for the whole day thinking about how even the fanbase treat her as nothing but fapbait. What the hell am I supposed to do? I'm at this point of regretting the fact that I have a waifu and seriously considering "moving on". The worst part is I can't even do that, I tried and after two days I caught myself thinking about her again.

Those feelings don't go away no matter what I do. When I think of her I think about her porn. She's already treated like shit by the fanbase, and now this. I hate this so much.

>>64795

Man, considering that my waifu is a series than has lots of yurifags in it's gigantic ranks and the fanon, which is ever-present in the fandom, said she's a lesbian chick-magnet, I'm always seeing her in fanart get paired with other girls, some even are the waifus of the people here.

And there's always new fanart everyday, you know? It's frustrating. I have yet to meet other Marisabro, but I'm constantly being besieged like this. I can only steel myself from it. Abandoning her is not an option, I'll die inside.

>>64795

When I ever see anything lewd (or worse) of my waifu I always try to remember its not really her. just a drawing of her, this is common sense I guess and even I get infuriated when I see such art of her

>>65108

I'm not going to debate that she is real to you, but she isn't real to them. You are wishing harm on them, because they have fetishes that involve NOT actually harming anyone. Honestly, that kind of makes you just as bad, just in different ways

>>65108

I don't think Fuuka would like it if you wish for pain or misfortune upon others. I get where you're coming from, but you should just let it go. These people may be debauched, but there is nothing you can do about them. You'll drive yourself insane otherwise. Just ignore it.

>>65126

Fuuka will never feel that pain though, she can have everything you want for her and feel she deserves in your mind. By ignoring it you are reducing your own distress, and that will improve the lives of both you and your waifu.

>>65127

I already know it doesn't affect Fuuka, my problem is having to deal with these impulses of frustration when I see images of her in pain.

Even if they aren't actually her my reaction is always the same, disgust and frustration.

Isn't it normal that if I love someone I get irked at people who draw her like that and make a profit out of it?

And not only that, but some prople find suh images funny and amusing, which only reinforces my vitroil

I'm an emotional person I must admit, and it's this why I have a hard time not feeling anything like suggested.

I just want to make clear that I'm not justifying my mindset in any way, I'm merely being honest with my feelings and what hurts me.

That "You're just as bad as them" was insulting, I don't know how to answer that

>>65129

Understandable enough. Sorry.

>>65129

Just do your best to avoid these people. I know, it sucks, but you have to just ignore it. If you can't control your emotions, then there is no other solution short of avoidance. Your disgust is completely natural, which is why I advise you just avoid these places and people as much as you can.

After a lot of thought, honestly I agree, seeing your waifu get raped and killed is kind of… traumatizing. But at the same time, it is just a product of fantasy and imagination… The same as your waifu relationship, it is a fantasy, but you embrace it a lot, so much, that other fantasies hurt you.

It makes me think of when I was a kid and thought I had powers, then my friend said he had double the power (his imagination) ruining my imaginated version of my strong self, so I said that I had triple the power… etc.

In the end, just create a fantasy that makes you the hero that saves her from those nasty fantasies, or tell yourself that it is very childish (with the metaphore I provided). You could also say that your love will triumph over all evil, all while stopping going on those sources.

>>67351

I suppose. For me I take a simpler philosophy in that since she's essentially your spouse it's alright to lewd your waifu as long as it's not something demeaning/gross or something she would dislike. That being said, I get your point and am aware that there are some waifuists who hold similar views about their waifus.

>>67356

That's pretty much my sentiments exactly. I don't mind the regular stuff, it's just the degenerate things of her out there make me sad and angry.

I think it's a very human thing to feel upset, upon seeing degenerate or nasty depictions of someone who you care for. Someone you've chosen to share your life and love with. I think, my best advice, would be to simply avoid sites where such images/videos are produced like the plague that they are. While this can't always be the easy solution (as I've learned myself, unfortunately), it definitely helps when you purposefully put the offending material out of your reach.

It's just a shame.

Don't know about nasty shit, but whatever I see porn of my waifu I just project myself in this. I also avoid everything that involve mass sex, different skin color or body type, names etc.

>>68211

I do the same when I can. I just try to stick to nice things that I can project onto/self insert as, and try to avoid things that won't work with that. The only problem is that avoiding them can be hard.

>>68212

No one said it will be easy. But that's why prometheus bring us tags and blacklist. Just learn to use them.

>>68230

Honestly usually only none waifufags or casuals follow this logic its incredibly misguided. It borders on headcanon. Characters don't remain stagnant, at least most dont, they often change over time as the piece of media goes on and continues. Its the same with normal people, as they change you have to accept how they change you cant just pick out the good parts you like. Also they're not objects if anything they're an idea if you don't want to call them a person and ideas very easily change. I think that mindset was formulated by someone not in a proper waifu relationship.

As for dealing with porn i think the best thing is to remind yourself its not canon and is just a bunch of made up stuff thats not true. Which is actually true. Just try to forget about it. Try to think that she just wants you I know technically my logic can be used against it but if you're truly in love i think that is grounds to go beyond rather than some random fag with a boner

>>68232

>How do you explain people who have the same waifus, though?

Thats up to the waifufags, some waifufags don't see themselves in a direct relationship and its much more an admiration, Ive seen some whos waifus are from a series with a lot of canonical alternate realities use that as a way to solve it. This doesn't require that there only be one just that they have to accept changes and not dismiss any other version. Outside of that they can do whatever.

>They wouldn't. For them, it's just a meme, a funny fad they can ignore or make fun of

That's just one type, they very go to type, I'm talking more the redditfag type, types who will ditch waifu for a real girl, are into it just for community, polyfags etc. This image is spread around a lot so they just kind of latch onto it as true because its so prevalent.

>will not rather do that old chanfag approach when tackling this kind of question

I was kind of confused by this but i assume you mean casuals will resort to this. Usually when a casual does this they do it ironically, they don't have any true attachment so it wouldn't fuel any real jealousy unless they're mega autists. The only people I've seen do this are people who are extremely attached.

Point is, that image is dumb, your waifu isn't an object shes a good girl don't treat her like an object that you can swap out and pick aspects for.

>>68231

I never really liked this way of thinking either. For me there is just one instance of her and I know that one since I (maybe conceitedly so) think I know her best. People who see her differently are just deluded. In my opinion this approach was mainly to get people to stop shitposting about waifu wars in actual waifu communities that wanted to have a nice atmosphere and discussion.

I know I'm possessive, but luckily I don't know of anyone with the same waifu as me. I don't really get people who can be friendly with other people who have the same waifu. As a rival maybe, but definitely not a friend. It would irk me to no end, but I'd just ignore and avoid someone with the same waifu, just like I do with anything related to her that I don't like, since you can't get things to go away on the internet by poking the hornet's nest.

I think part of the problem with that image is that it's Miku, who you can project just about anything onto, since there is no actual canon to go by. So you have a character design, but no character defined by an authority. The character is created by the community and so anyone who considers her their waifu can pretty much just pick and choose what they like really.

I'd really like to know who made this image originally. Would really shed some light on things.

>>68231

All media will have to have an end at some point. Anything beyond the little you've actually seen is an inference, headcanon. I think the image is just taking an idealist view, that the character exists as an object, the being-for-others in the observer's viewpoint, and will be observed as different for different viewpoints. The image isn't telling you to only keep the parts you like of your waifu, rather it's trying to tell you that the waifu that exists in your brain is a different waifu from someone else.

The fact that it uses as example Hatsune Miku is a point of interest, because she really has little personality in the first place. Not that she's a blank slate but you have a lot of room for interpretation with the vocaloids. She isn't necessarily "pure" or "slutty", to interpret her into either category is not only okay but a necessity.

>I know technically my logic can be used against it

Really what is the difference between believing she's in love with you and inventing something new about her personality? Isn't being in love, and with whom she is in love extremely important to the essence of the character?

There's no real answer to who your waifu is. Your own viewpoint is regulated by the author of the character, you only see some things while perhaps that could be the tip of the iceberg of who that character is.

The best you can do is try to keep your image of the waifu as close as possible to the original essence, while accepting some interpretation is inevitable. And this interpretation doesn't just go for waifus but for everyone we seen and know in reality. An image of your mother is constructed in your head without really ever knowing her on the inside.

>>68233

>I was kind of confused by this but i assume you mean casuals will resort to this.

No. The whole sentence is:

> And second, it assumes that they will not rather do that old chanfag approach when tackling this kind of question: Call each other faggots, have a spergfight, and make a shitstorm. We don't want that here.

You're not missing the colon, are you?

>>68234

>but luckily I don't know of anyone with the same waifu as me. I don't really get people who can be friendly with other people who have the same waifu. As a rival maybe, but definitely not a friend. It would irk me to no end

Trust me, it's the worst. I cannot stand any of them and I just pray for the day when all of them finally move on from her.

On a more serious note, I just play it off in the sense that it probably wouldn't exist in her world/canon. Since I'd exist with her, then it wouldn't really be something that's there. It's just weird alt-world fantasy, the way bad dreams and intrusive thoughts "exist", a scenario that didn't actually happen. Though if it bothers you that much, just do >>64404 and >>64412