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How does one become "kinder"? Friend 12/13/17 (Wed) 03:20:01 No.37750

Hey guys, as what the title says, how does one become nicer anyways?

I am not trying to complain about whatever I experience today, for I know we have a thread on that. I, however, just need to know why I act like such a nasty jerk and how to fix this.

For once again, my bad behavior has taken away one of my "privileges", despite how I truly do believe that I wasn't acting like a rude and nasty individual. Right now my parents, mostly my dad, are furious with me and I do not know how to deal with this in a good matter really.

My attitude has always been a problem for me, for as long as I could remember, its almost the same thing my parents keep on telling me about and you would think by now I would have gotten over it, but yet still here I am, if I disclose my age, it would make the situation seem more pathetic.

So I hope by coming here I could receive some advice on what to do. Please and thank you in advance.

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Friend 12/13/17 (Wed) 22:29:12 No.37754

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You just have to practice it and soon it will become second nature!

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Friend 12/14/17 (Thu) 00:33:08 No.37755

Well, how about a little more info on what happened? It could give us more context and really, we aren't here to be cruel, you know you made a mistake. Acknowledging that something is wrong is already heading in the right direction.

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Friend 12/14/17 (Thu) 01:10:12 No.37757

Yeah we need more detail, otherwise all we can say is stop being a jerk.

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Friend 12/14/17 (Thu) 03:04:37 No.37758

Maybe you are fine. But your father is a controlling cunt who hates to have his authority questioned.

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Friend 12/15/17 (Fri) 03:34:16 No.37764

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Follow the ways represented by this good boy I got as an early Christmas gift.

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Friend 12/16/17 (Sat) 04:03:37 No.37773

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Thank you all for the responses. Sorry it has taken so long to reply, I was just nervous thinking about the replies, but I see there is nothing to worry about, and especially with the board that I am on. So I mind as well try and give off specifically what happened, not as if I have much to loose anyway.

>>37755

>>37757

So for quick context, me and my siblings have been trying for months to get a ps4, but our dad manage to buy one in November, we now have the ability to play games we've been urging to play all year.

So in this month, our first start was with, well I will just call it THEGAME for it could have been anything really. I gotten it in November, was waiting to play it with my sister for either today or tomorrow by the time of this writing, but on Monday my dad accidentally saw the game, of course now being curious of it, kept on asking me about it, but it was whatever for I tried to answer them the best I could. Now we reach Tuesday night, we both were just done making dessert (pretty ironic considering what comes after lol), then dad asks if we could pop in THEGAME. Now I just simply said, "No I cannot play it tonight, that wasn't the plan. I haven't even played it yet." That was all I said, then left to get some water. When I came back immediately after he was like "Dude, c'mon, I just want to see it." Again I tell him no not tonight, literally any other night, but not tonight since I needed to study as well for this week's exams. In retrospect, maybe I should have just made way and shown it to him, but what I wasn't expecting was for him to now start denying me from the console all because I didn't want to play it yet. You already know what happened after that was mentioned in the OP. Geez, he even went the extra mile to delete my account on the ps4 (although no skin off my bones, it was just filled with betas and a game I haven't even played yet, so nothing lost). Again, everyone in the house was saying that I was to blame for it, but once again, I do not feel as if my sentence was "displaying a nasty attitude". Right now, it's kind of weird, but we are both giving each other the silent treatment, he haven't talked to me in anyway shape or form since then, pretty crazy right?

Oh boy, hopefully any of you guys made it through this "painful" and "tormenting" tale, for that was what essentially happened. I will be waiting in "anticipation" for the responses to this. Cya

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Friend 12/17/17 (Sun) 02:22:59 No.37775

>>37773

OP here again, just giving an update on my matter. So finally after all this time, I just decided to apologize for my behaviour. Me and my parents our cool now, we good. I can finally go back to my games, well least not immedialty. :P

But I (And maybe others) would still like to know all the ways of being "kinder" though.

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Friend 08/31/18 (Fri) 12:20:48 No.39323

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That story doesn't sound rude, friend, and I'm curious how things are these days since this thread is a bit old. Perhaps it was word choice somehow, or your parents were the unkind ones.

Being kind is about caring about how other people feel and doing what you can to be positive and helpful as long as it stays within your own comfort zone.

It sounds like your dad disrespected your comfort, anon.

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Friend 09/02/18 (Sun) 02:49:19 No.39325

>>39323

Hello weird guy sage posting on old thread

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