/kind/ -Posted this on /adv/, gonna do it here, too.-I'm going to be quick here:My life is shitty, not because of normie lyf stress problamz but because I lack inspiration, energy, will to live, willpower, etc. I just feel a really giant void in my chest a

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Friend 01/29/17 (Sun) 02:39:42 No.34816

Posted this on /adv/, gonna do it here, too.

-I'm going to be quick here:

My life is shitty, not because of normie lyf stress problamz but because I lack inspiration, energy, will to live, willpower, etc. I just feel a really giant void in my chest and in my head and that makes me feel irritable, physically weak and made me stay in the last year of high school. I don't want to try killing myself because I'm aware this world is just plain shitty, I want to build my body up until I'm a huge ball of muscle and I want to study a lot, have like 5 kids and be happy but… I lack any source of creativity, inspiration, willpower, etc… What do I do?

I tried to post this but yeah, I deleted the full explanation text like twice. Go figure.

tl;dr i have no will to do some things and then i fail because i don't do shit-

Didn't add this up: I'm 18yo, living with single mother, in a country in which a big economical crisis is next door and nope, I won't be a NEET because I'll be kicked the hell out of what I call home! And I have until March to enter university or I'll have to find a job… what dooooo????

If you want to ask me anything, or post a text wall, be it! But I seriously would need some help.

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Friend 01/29/17 (Sun) 03:00:42 No.34817

whatever you do. don't try to do it all. you will get stress and even less motivation.

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Friend 01/29/17 (Sun) 05:11:15 No.34818

>>34817

But why? I want to be fit, to be a good man! And all I am is a near-hikki who's lost his trust on people because of his behaviour… I've lost my gf, my friends, all…

Also, I'm failing at school and doing nothing to recover. Why wouldn't I put just some effort onto this?

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Friend 01/29/17 (Sun) 19:35:07 No.34825

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>>34818

You should! But you shouldn't overwhelm yourself, you will just burn out that way. Choose one thing and start working on it, and later you can expand to the others. Change is slow and gradual, so don't expect quick fixes.

How likely is that you can enter university? I would start with fixing your education.

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Friend 01/29/17 (Sun) 21:52:22 No.34828

>>34825

I still haven't finished high school, gotta end like 9 subjects yet, two from previous years.

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Friend 01/29/17 (Sun) 22:32:36 No.34830

>>34828

You still have classes and everything? Is there some kind of exam that you have to do?

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Friend 01/30/17 (Mon) 00:53:22 No.34832

>>34830

Yes, only exams and then I'm free. I don't know in other countries but here if the year ends and you still have subjects pending you're going to exam. You can only have up to two previous years' subjects otherwise you repeat the year.

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Friend 01/30/17 (Mon) 23:07:24 No.34851

>>34832

How do you usually study? Do you need help?

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Friend 01/31/17 (Tue) 00:05:24 No.34852

All this sounds kind of familiar. Are you from Argentina?

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Friend 01/31/17 (Tue) 02:54:35 No.34854

>>34851

I have until the end of February to finish high school, and I still haven't started studying, so pal, I frankly don't know!

>>34852

How'd ya guess? You're from here, too? You know me?

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Friend 01/31/17 (Tue) 05:10:53 No.34858

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>>34854

Yeah I'm from here too, just a year older than you and starting university this year. The economic crisis end the retarded system of previas gave it away.

Anyway, how bad are you with your subjects? You can ask for help here if you want. Though it might be worth just repeating the year and getting yourself together in the meanwhile.

Also why the "build my body up until I'm a huge ball of muscle and I want to study a lot, have like 5 kids" part? seems a bit excessive for now. You should just focus on finishing school, that's seems to be your current problem. One thing at a time friendo.

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Friend 01/31/17 (Tue) 06:28:27 No.34860

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>>34858

Well, last year was crappy because not only I didn't pay much attention to school attendance but because my ruskie furienwaifu was left in agony after being stabbed four times by a creep in a park.

I still have 9 subjects left pending and guess what? I'm in an arts school. Yes, I'm a failure at life.

Oh and my lovely girlfriend (who's two provinces away) left me because I'm a dick who doesn't/didn't pay good attention to her too much, suffered ranting and jealousy attacks and uhm let's say I was given another chance after a quick break up involving a no contact rule for about half a month, but this time she says she doesn't love me anymore. She left me last tuesday after coming back from another province, I noticed she didn't talked too much with me, only sent me nudes once after some nice chat, and the days before we talked nice… I don't think this is true though, because this last time I didn't do anything bad to her… this is making a wreckage out of myself. She didn't love anyone else before, she was pure before meeting me, she was… different, I made her change a lot, I think.

And without her, no, I'm not going to be the same, that means two years gone in vain and I want her back before anything else. She said she won't change her mind, that's her decision, blah, blah… but in the end I think she loves me (she told me she appreciates me) but… how do I gain my girlfriend back? Man, I'm suffering a lot and she doesn't look like she gives a damn fuck! In the end, I'm not as cold as steel, I'm soft, you know? I'm a charismatic, joyful, /pol/-style prankster alpha male, not the brawn-and-Chad-y type of alpha, I gain respect from others by giving them advice, being all nice but somewhat cold, and obviously being humorous all the time… but with her, these last months, uhm, it's hard because it's like she doesn't stand me anymore. It's like I'm damaging her and I really don't want to do it anymore, and I swear I'm changing and I'll change! But oh God, I don't want to switch to anyone else, she's special enough to be mine… huh…

I want my girlfriend back, NOW. WHAT DO I DO?

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Friend 01/31/17 (Tue) 07:21:39 No.34862

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>>34860

That sounds like a pretty bad year, yeah. But from the way you put it, it doesn't seem like there's any chance of going back. She's made up her mind and the fact that she lives far away from you will only reinforce it.

Have you considered just letting her go and using this as a learning experience?

>that means two years gone in vain

If you believe that those two years were good times then I don't think they were in vain.

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Friend 01/31/17 (Tue) 23:25:14 No.34868

>>34862

I can't let her go, for I know she's the one. Do you think if I let myself take some time maybe things will go smoother?

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Friend 02/01/17 (Wed) 16:52:29 No.34876

>>34868

I think you should definitely take some time for yourself. Being so emotionally dependant on another person can only en bad for both parties.

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Friend 02/02/17 (Thu) 05:21:34 No.34899

>>34876

The problem is I really am not, I just am 100% sure she is the one and only love of my life. I am fully conscious of what I am implying right now.

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Friend 02/28/17 (Tue) 01:08:18 No.35375

Main problem solved: my ex came back to me. I can't believe this shit. Only argued once in two weeks now… now this is some chance.

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Friend 09/13/17 (Wed) 10:08:56 No.36912

fix4

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