/femdom/ - Femdom

I can speculate but that's it. I know growing up my dad always had a very unstable life while my mom was always gainfully employed and reliable. Was mostly a loner and generally got along with girls more than guys. I even found wearing girl's clothes to be a turn on. When I first started getting sexual with a girl, I remember how I loved to eat her all out and give her rimjobs, but didn't care to receive blowjobs. Then when we finally had sex, it didn't seem all it was cracked up to be, even though I found her to be incredibly hot. I was always more happy with her sitting on my face.

Can't exactly think of a specific time. I remember in elementary school these two girls used to make fun of me because they were stronger than me, and in high school and workplace because I have an 'agreeable personality'.

>>3071

Yes.

1. At kindergarten I had this classmate which, for some reason, had biceps. Yes, biceps. We had this thing where she would flex them and I would act, idk, terrified or something. Tbh it made me feel funny.

2. My female cousin who is older than me used to wrestle and tackle me and tickle me/blow rasperries on my stomach.

>>7860

I used to do this, with Smash Bros. If I was actually playing, I'd often play "worse" when against a female CPU. Good times.

I was always a bit of a loser/loner in school. I was a strong and tall kid, but I'd get bullied by people I was strong enough to beat up because I was so scared of getting into trouble that I would rarely retaliate (The few times I did my fears were confirmed and I was the only one to get in trouble.)

I started to develop and play with my penis at an incredibly young age, I was just feeling around when I was like 4 and it felt good so I started messing around down there all the time, though I was obviously still too young to cum or anything, like I said, I developed early. I first came when I was 10 years old. I was playing The Sims on my PC in my bedroom and I closed my door so I wouldn't get caught, and then made all the girls in the game barefoot and masturbated to their feet and came. I always felt a strange feeling towards feet since as young as I remember, but it was only when I reached around 10 that I realised it was attraction.

The combination of all this meant I was looked down on as a loser, laughed at, bullied and humiliated by most people at school. The boys I would try to fight back quite often but the girls, I was already so shy around them, I just felt like they were so above me, especially when they'd laugh at or mock me, I'd never be mean to them in return and always put up with it, after all, even talking to girls was difficult because I was so shy with them. I asked out a few over the years, all of which I had major crushes on and I always got rejected and usually laughed at by them and all of their friends. Multiple times I even had betrayal scenarios take place where people I thought were good friends of mine knew I had a crush on a girl in a different class. In the worst one that happened, one of my "best friends" who was pretty alpha/chad and liked by all the girls got like 10 other people in the class (mostly girls) to join him in convincing me she had a crush on me and wanted to be my girlfriend, etc. Which next day led to them all stood around me in a circle laughing at me as the girl I had a crush on screamed and yelled at me how she would never want to be my girlfriend, that she doesn't like me, that I'm a loser, etc. while everyone was laughing so loud it was getting hard to even hear a lot of what she was saying.

Around a year later I had a crush on another girl but was too beta to ask her out, especially after what had happened the last time. This girl was a good friend of mine for several years however, so we still remained friends. This was around when MSN was a thing though and everyone in school used it religiously. She had recently got a boyfriend and it was a guy I couldn't stand. I can't remember what started it but we had an argument on msn and he told me he was going to beat me up at school the next day. Sure enough, the next day at school I was in the playground and he came to fight me, and I was too scared of getting in trouble, and so his girlfriend, my friend of several years that I had a crush on, watched as he gave me a small beating and she just laughed about it.

So I was seen as a loser by everyone but girls especially, but I remember one day in particular on the last day of primary school that at the time I found horrible but now, with my femdom and foot fetishes it is the hottest memory I have.

It was a P.E. lesson outside at school, and I had some issues with my legs that meant I couldn't do it. This was the final year of primary school so at this point boys and girls are still in the same classes and P.E. is still done together, so a really bossy/dominant pretty girl in my class is one of the other's on the bench with me as she wasn't able to do P.E. that day. A few of her other female friends were there too, and since it was a small bench there wasn't enough seats for everyone. I had gotten there first and didn't want to move. The dominant / pretty girl I mentioned before was the second to sit down though, and she wanted her friends to be able to sit next to her too, so she started berating me and insulting me while her friends laughed and occasionally joined in, and kicked me a few times while complaining about me taking their seats and that I should go away and leave them their seats.

>>8073

Part 2

After a little while of this I obliged and went around the corner sad and moody. Now, around the corner, the corner was essentially made of trees, and it was a shady area inside there we weren't usually allowed into, so I had forgotten there was a bench there, but it was a hot day and I'd now found the shady bench. I smiled to myself and lied down on it and started relaxing in the shade. After about a minute I started hearing them talking about me. They were laughing a bit and saying how pathetic I was and that I'd do anything they say, etc. One of the girls mentioned that I was probably sitting on the floor around there and they laughed, then one of them said "I'm gonna go take a look at what he's doing" I opened my eyes when I heard that and looked towards the entrance of the shaded area and saw her coming towards me with a big grin like she was ready to laugh. As soon as she saw me lying on that shady bench, that grin turned to a look of complete anger and disgust. Without hesitation or saying a word she instantly turned around and went back to her friends' and I could hear her complaining that I had it better around here as it was actually shady and I had a whole bench to myself. Soon, all the girls came over to me, the dominant pretty one leading them. She started telling me to move off the bench and I refused sand told her I had already moved for her once and she couldn't make me move again. I did not expect that to be taken as a challenge, but it was, so she instantly grabbed me by the arm and pulled as hard as she could until I was over halfway off the bench. Of course I fell off as a result and landed straight in the grass in front of the bench as they all laughed at me. The dominant one pushed her foot down on my chest to push me into the ground more, and then sat down on the bench, and her friends joined her. I got up and started complaining that it was unfair and I already moved for them once and said I was going to go back around and have the other bench for myself. The pretty dominant girl really didn't like that, and started telling me if I did that she'd come round there and drag me off that bench too and that she'd beat me. Then she commanded me to get on all fours, and I hestitated. She told me I was going to be her foot stool, and again to get on all fours. After a few second I did what I was told and she laughed, stretched out her legs and rested her dirty shoes high up on my back, near my neck. She mentioned something to her friends, I don't remember exactly, it was something about me being pathetic enough to do this, and they all laughed, and another one of her friends stretched her legs and started resting her feet (she was in dirty shoes at the time too) on the lower end of my back. I moved around a bit now and then to stay comfortable, but I stayed like this for probably 20 or so minutes until we heard the whistle for lesson end and they all took their feet off me and walked around the corner and then I did the same.

I had much more rejections and betrayal rejections from apparent friends when I went to secondary school the next year, but not a lot really happened in a femdom capacity except for on a non-school uniform day on my second year in secondary school, when a girl I had a massive crush on was sat across from me and started smiling at me out of nowhere. She asked me if she could rest her Converse on my chair, and I said she could. She stuck out her legs and her feet hovered above my crotch for a moment before she said "Well, can you move over then?" I slid over to the end of my chair to the point I was hanging off it and it was difficult to stay seated, and she rested her feet on it beside me, she smirked and said thanks. That was the only time that girl was ever even a hint dominant though, she was almost constantly sweet and kind, hell even when being dominant then she was kind lol.

But looking back, it was around when I was 13 after I'd have most of those experiences I started getting really into Femdom porn and turned on by the idea of women dominating me, so I think they all contributed to it, slowly, over time, and then the constant femdom porn for years made it more extreme. :)

>>8077

I guess, I hated it at the time but them finding it gross and laughable plays into my humiliation fetish now so it makes it hotter for me honestly.

It's interesting to see we all converged onto a similar kink but all have different backstories. Kinda sad to hear people say stuff like:

>I find it impossible to self-insert into a situation where two people are engaging in consensual sex and experiencing mutual attraction

Poor guy.

Anyway for it started with my childhood girlfriends I'd say.

When living in Australia my first childhood girlfriend/best friend between let's say 5 and 8 years would always make up games/roleplay that involved her being some kind of princess (as kids do, lol)

I usually took on the role of a prince, rather than a serf, but being a prince usually involved me having to overcome challenges to win her affection. We'd always come up with scenarios for me to prove myself and win her over.

We also do things like whenever we were in the pool together she'd lay on the floating bed and I'd tow her around. So she'd say things like "move me to the other side," and I do it.

It wasn't really femdom in the adult sense but I definitely associated feelings of high self esteem with doing things for her.

I think this relationship was where I started to get the warm, fuzzy feeling from being bossed around.

As for the more physical aspects of femdom, it's kind of similar. Most of my friends growing up were girls and often they hit and kick me (but playfully, not maliciously like some of these stories). I always got the feeling that when they'd do it they were testing me to see how strong I was. I would enjoy letting them hit me as such because it made me feel strong and powerful. I knew I could take it and i knew I could stop them if I wanted to, but I didn't want to and just enjoyed it.

When I first started whacking off it was basically an extension of this. I always fantasized about my girlfriends hitting and kicking me because i was able to take it and impress them. I also allowed my joy of doing nice things for women play into these fantasies and thus my femdom fetish was born.

As such I've never really had a vanilla relationship. Every time I meet a girl I pretty much tell her straight up then I enjoy being hit, jumped on, etc, and 99.999% of the time the girls I meet seem to be into it.

I think it's easier for me (than some guys) though because at the end of the day I think I'm more of a top than a bottom. I like being hit and doing nice things for women but I do it because it makes me feel good. If she don't dig it then I move on to another girl. I think I fit the criteria for "topping from the bottom" and I don't like it at all women women are cuntish for no reason.

But yeah that's my boring story

>women women are cuntish

When women are cuntish*

I remembered this recently, probably had a lot to do with how I am now

>Really young (Kindergarden, 1st grade? idk)

>Be at birthday party

>In bounce house alone with a girl from my school

>She's cute, taller and bigger than me, grown up for our age

>I'm still a smallboy

>We start to fight

>She grabs me by the arm, swings me around and throws me off to the side

>Both of us are just playing around, not really trying to hurt each other but she is easily stronger than me

>She's not being mean or anything, but is clearly having fun pushing me around, giggling the whole time

>Desperately hiding my embarrassment while she pushes me down, tackles me, wrestles me to the ground, kicks me into the sides of the bounce house.

>I'm trying my hardest, she's just playing around and having fun, but over and over she comes on top

>Anytime I get close to her she just grabs me by the arm and swings me around again

>Sits on my back a few times while I'm laying face down.

>It's a soft bounce house so I'm not getting physically hurt from being thrown to the walls and ground.

>Probably had a raging boner at the time and didn't know it

>Goes on for a while until I give up and leave

>I come out all sweaty and tired, humiliated

>Later at home, think about it and feel weird.

I'm tall and strong now, but sometimes I wish I could be a manlet so normal girls could have a chance to physically dominate me like when I was a kid. I've never been into gentle femdom, I just want to be outclassed by a girl who's physically superior.

I was beaten up as a kid and was always shy with girls, and I always felt like girls were supposed to make the first move for some reason. I think it's pathological, I am a retard honestly and it ended up with submissive fantasies. If I "get better" I will leave femdom behind, but I will always want to please women and make them happy I think.

>>8184

you wont ever get " better" none of us will

>>8192

I already got better and most of this fetish stuff here doesn't interest me anymore. It's not even difficult, I never want to quit worshipping women though, but that wasn't the intention.

>>8195

and yet here you are anon

>>8196

Why are you so passive aggressive, is this part of your sub persona? lmao. I'm here to talk and read, not for the content.

Definitely from my mom. She is very assertive and controlling, and I was quite distant from my father when I was very young, so I had most of my influence from her. Also, all of my teachers until I was 12 being female definitely played a role. I saw them as authority figures that needed to be obeyed, so I tried to do so as much as possible. Of course, I never want it to go into abuse, I just want them to take control and tell me what to do, I like it when women tell me to do things in a nice way.

>>8204

> I like it when women tell me to do things in a nice way.

That's adorable anon, but we need to be careful we don't justify laziness because of this preference. I really hope women can be more confident and demanding though, there's at least a few women like that, I've seen a few girls that ask a lot of favours and ask men to help them with stuff at least.

>>8205

Of course, I do have motivation issues, but I don't want it to be my only motivator to do things. I just like it when a woman tells me to do things and what I did makes her happy, it feels nice.

I'm just whatever the opposite of a pillow princess is.

I want to make sex all about my partner, with my experience, viewpoint, stimulating not really entering into it. I'm into women, so there you go.

I wouldn't say it really came from anywhere. Just how I am.

Thinking back, as early as elementary school I was convinced that girls were naturally smarter than boys but boys were naturally stronger, as a way of evening things out.

Then when I was 13, I was kicked in the groin for the first time by a girl, after I had tried kicking HER (it didn't work as well). Prior to this I knew getting hit down there hurt (though I didn't know it was that bad), and that boys and girls were different "down there" but I thought we were both sensitive. But as I lay on the floor, I felt that this excruciating pain was coming from my testicles, which she didn't have. So my brain put two and two together: "Boys and girls DON'T hurt the same down there" + "My pain is coming from my balls" + "She doesn't have testicles" = "My testicles are the reason it hurts me more than her."

At that moment my whole belief of the sexes was shattered. I still was convinced that girls were smarter because of what I'd always observed in school, but now to see that the one thing I thought we boys had going for us was no more, thanks to these things that only we boys have… it was devastating.

But at that same time, I noticed that my dick had gotten hard even as my balls were in agony. And somehow, it was this newfound knowledge that my sex was severely disadvantaged against hers that turned me on.

From then, my submissive side began surfacing more. I became obsessed and enamored with the pussy, and soon my porn tastes changed: I only enjoyed pictures of just girls, and where she was naked below the waist. As an extension, I developed a facesitting fetish: I began fantasizing nonstop about the idea of having a girl's pussy on my face, where I can smell it or taste it, preferably while my own genitals were being punished by her. I also got a foot fetish, considering that I came to this realization that while men associate with their fists, a skilled girl can bring a man to her mercy with just her feet.

Fast forward to today, where I now have this fetish, where any girl or woman I come across in public or meet, I can't help but have that passing thought of "She can reign superior over me anytime; she just chooses not to." Every time I see a dating or married couple where the man is in the lead or they are equal, one of the first thoughts that always hits me is "She merely allows this." Every girl and woman I talk to, I am all too conscious of the fact that the only reason every conversation with them doesn't end with me on my knees clutching my manhood in agony and envy is because she is kind and chooses not to, not to any strength or credit on my part.

It's both a constantly humbling, as well as thrilling reality.

When I was about 6 or 7 I had fantasies of tying up or being tied up by my hot tall blonde babysitter. I remember reading some picture book as a kid and one page was like a cartoony medieval village scene. In the scene there was some guy stuck in the pillory blushing, and I applied that imagery to my fantasies as well, the idea of her locking me in a pillory and humiliating me publicly.

When I got into porn as a teen I got into bdsm, both femdom and fem-sub stuff, but I slowly began to realize that I am probably too much of a pleaser to ever dominate a woman. By my sophomore year of college I was pretty comfortable with the belief I would always be the submissive.

>Be elementary school age

>Take karate lessons

>Play fight with brother who's a year younger than me, "practicing" our fighting skills

>One time we went for a family event and stayed at my cousins'

>Two female cousins, older than me, (I think one is 3 years older than me and the other is 5 years older). Both blonde and pretty hot in all honesty

>We decide to do a 2 vs 2 fight of me and my brother against our cousins

>In my mind I'm thinking that guys are stronger, and that I know a little bit of martial arts, it'll be easy to win

>Ohfuckno.jpg

>Since their both bigger than us we get steamrolled

>Older one throws me to the ground and wrestles me while I'm flailing helplessly

>Keep coming at them and nothing works

>Pin me down and make me beg them to let me go multiple times

>Family in the other room can see it happening

>Laying face down with cousin on top of me pinning me down, she talks to my mom for some reason

>Mom tells her that we practice fighting all the time and cousin bursts out laughing, while still pinning me down

>"Wow this is my first time fighting… That's embarrassing for them haha"

>humiliation.jpg

>Rest of the trip they make fun of us and order us around, knowing they could beat our asses senseless if we talk back

>When we're in a room away from the rest of the family it always gets worse

>Remember them sitting down and making us go on all fours and let them rest their legs on our backs

>They seem to have forgotten about it by the next time we see them, burned in my mind though

I grew up and was never really into incest bullshit like that, but damn realizing that some girls could kick my ass and use me like I'm their property was life changing to be honest.

I went on a camping trip with family friends when I was around 10. The other kids there were a boy a couple years younger than me, a girl only a little younger than me, and her little sister, who was the youngest of us all. The oldest girl was blonde, athletic, cute, and bitchy/bossy. Being the oldest, I thought of myself as being the leader of the group of us. At one point all the kids were hanging out away from our parents, and for some reason the other boy started being mean to the youngest girl, eventually ending up with him pulling her hair and making her cry. The older sister was pissed and immediately started wailing on him, punching him in the stomach and face until he fell over on the ground. She started stomping on him until our parents eventually heard him yelling and came over to break it up. Our families were all pissed off about the fight, and were deciding how to punish them, so they asked me who hit first. As I was going to speak the girl who had beat him glares at me in the eyes and I get super intimidated and have a weird feeling inside, so I decide to defend her and lie saying the boy threw the first punch. He got punished and she got off scot-free, and spent the rest of the day being smug about getting away with it. For the rest of the trip there was a weird unspoken shift in power, where now girl decided what we were doing and what games we were playing, and I would just go along. Realizing I enjoyed seeing a girl physically dominate a boy, and I enjoyed getting bossed around by a girl was probably the origin of my fetish.

Mostly getting abused by my mother. Also when I was a kid I'd fantasize about the neighbour girl hitting me and bossing me around, too.

>>8810

>Mostly getting abused by my mother

If you're comfortable enough in sharing, do tell us more!

My friends and I spent a large part of elementary school being subservient to the girls

>1st grade

>At recess, the play area has a big field where most kids in my grade hang out

>It's sunny, but there's an area with trees and shade that most kids always want to hang out at

>My group of friends and a group of girls would always race at the beginning of recess to get to this area first

>We would always argue about who gets to hang out there

>Eventually, evolves into "battles" between the girls and boys

>Usually we're just chasing each other around, but sometimes when teachers weren't looking we'd actually physically fight

>We both recruit more kids to our sides, recess for us just becomes about this game

>Boys were cocky and relied on our physical strength, usually girls would think up strategies to trick us into moving away or surrounding us

>For a while we have the tree area completely as ours

>One of the girls has a big sister a few grades above us

>She gets her older friends to join in

>Big girls show up with the regulars one day and tell us to leave

>Laugh it off and say we've taken over now

>Fight breaks out, but with the older girls we are now outnumbered, and the bigger girls are obviously stronger than we accepted

>Have to retreat

>Next few days we try to retake the place but get beat back every time

>Eventually swallow our pride and come begging to let us hang out there

>We come to a deal that we the boys can be there as long as they do what the girls say

>We agree

>For the rest of the year the group of girls boss us around at recess

>Start calling us their servants and we're okay with it

>Strangely feels good doing whatever they ask us to

>Realize years later that I had an obvious crush on some of the girls, and enjoy being under a girl's control like this.

I know this had to have some effect on me. Wonder if any of the other boys feel the same, or I'm just the weird one.

watching star treks

The Lorelei Signal

this got me started

It was inherent. When I was around 13 I happened upon a really harsh femdom doujin (i am not not not a girl by akai mato) and it made me more aroused than anything I’d ever seen before. I thought i was gay because i had no concept of femdom.

I'm relatively new to it. I didn't really have any experience that planted the seeds for later. I wasn't a small wimpy looking kid either, big and burly even young. Probably just a mix of porn addiction pushing me to new realms and my social anxiety making me very shy around girls.

>>8970

I read somewhere a long time ago that it's nicest when a bigger guy is into it or something. Anyways best of luck to you

Basically, I got the shit beat out of me by a small girl in high school.

>Be sophomore

>In a extracurricular club at my school with about 15 other people

>One day a towards the end of the year friend in the club invites everyone to his house with a pool to swim

>We're hanging out in his backyard and two other guys have a little wrestling match in the grass

>This gives us an idea to have a sort of fight club tournament

>Be skinny fucking lanklet, so i'm just watching, not challening anyone

>Freshman girl challenges me sort of jokingly

>I deny, but everyone taunts me until I decide to do it

>She's short, cute face, nice legs and feet

>Go out to grass to have the fight

>Wearing swimtrunks, she has a skimpy af bikini

>Assume I was going to win because shes younger and smaller than me

>Right before start I think of how embarrassing it would be to lose and my heart starts racing, get psyched out

>Someone counts us off and we start

>She must have done some sort of martial arts as a kid, because she immediately suprises me with a super solid kick to the stomach that winds me and knocks me down

>Before I can get up she rushes me and stomps my head into the ground HARD

>Completely disoriented, vision blurred and head spinning

>Too dizzy to get up, stumble/roll around on tbe ground

>When my senses return, I'm laying on my back

>She has her heel on my throat

>When I try to get up she crushes down on my windpipe

>Can't breathe, go into panic mode, lower body flailing

>She's looking down at me in the eyes, laughing and telling me just to tap out

>Can't get her foot off my throat

>Vision starts getting dark, so I tap

>She lets out big excited giggle

>When I try to get up she stomps me back down and taunts me

>Her best friend starts taking pictures of her doing victory poses and flexing with her foot pressed down on my chest

>Too exhausted to fight her off

>Won't let up until her friend records me admitting I was her bitch

>For the rest of the party she makes me get down on all fours and be a chair for her and her friend, or else she posts the vid/pics on social media

>Hide boner in shame

>Masturbate to the thought of her almost exclusively for like a year

Not really sure to be honest, but. I'm pretty sure it comes from having a mother who had me when she was twenty years old, and didn't really give any oppertunity for me to socialize. It was just myself and her, and her constant control regarding reading books, manners, etc.

Not definite, but a decent gift. I was influenced by Femdom at least the age of 9, and influenced by the concept of Vore/woman taking control of.l men even younger than that.

Yeahhhh

>>8966

>When I was 13

>I am not not not a girl by Akai Mato

>Released: April 7th, 2015

That makes you 16. Though underageb& isn't enforced here, technically visiting and posting here is illegal since you still count as a minor.

I've always had it as long as I remember since some girls would tie me up in primary school when they "caught" me during games.

I remember my first fappings in middle school were about femdom thoughts.

I see this as a mental illness and I wish I could cure from it.

I don't have a fetish. I just like hot strong women.

>>5130

> I grew up sort of sheltered thinking that guys were supposed to be strong, tough and naive/trusting okay, dumb, and girls were supposed to be perceptive, clever and manipulative. Obviously girls were made to lead and boys were made to toil, right?

Glad to know that I am not the only one who got that impression.

>>9446

(same guy). I don't know where exactly that impression came from, it was probably tv like you said. But it fascinated and repulsed me simultaneously, to the point that it got me into both femdom porn and the Men's Rights Movement.

>>9447

>it got me into both femdom porn and the Men's Rights Movement

It's not that odd. Almost all feminist women are submissive as well.

I've tried to figure this out, and my only best guess is being around a lot of older girls as a kid. Particularly around the age of 10 or so, the only kids in my neighborhood were a 15 year old girl (who was a bit tall and athletic, especially for a girl). Any game we played, she dictated the rules and I always enjoyed her being in charge. When I turned 12 or 13, I started fantasizing about her but she started hanging around older guys with cars. When I was 18 or so, this older woman wanted to sleep with me, and I was all for it. She dictated every little thing, every little movement. In her eyes I think she felt she was just training me or she just knew what she wanted from me and was up front, but I was probably willing to be her sexual slave if she wanted me to be. Then when I first had sex with someone my age and someone rather submissive, it felt lacking something.

>>9190

>>For the rest of the party she makes me get down on all fours and be a chair for her and her friend, or else she posts the vid/pics on social media

Should've just let her. People would not care much and would have quickly forgotten. If not, you could've told everyone some lie like you were just acting, letting her win, weren't going to hit a girl, or even that you actually got off on it!

I had a lot of male friends growing up and they always would play fight a lot in middle school.

I had crushes on some of them and it felt really good when I would pin them down and win, so I guess I mixed the two lol.

Also in middle school, I accidentally punched a boy who had a crush on me in the face and he fell even more for me afterwards. In high school, he wanted me to shave his head, scratch him, and beat him with my skateboard.

I didn't really have feelings for him specifically, but I fucking loved the idea of a guy begging for more as I beat the shit out of him.

Although we never dated, this went on for years until we both found other people.

It was a simple train of thought: Hey, blonde girls are hot. Hey, there's all these buff blonde women in fiction. Hey, strong women are hot. Wow, the idea of getting pinned down and ridden like a toy turns me on.

No complex backstory, just one kink leading to another.

>>8074

>read 2nd part of your story

>literally all of this shit has happened to me

>still remember those two benches (one of them shady one of them not) from my middle school

>wtf.jpg

A-anon….are you my doppelganger?