Hi, I like to share my experiences with you.
I was 18 and she 22, we meet in driving school and started a relationship. I was a virgin and she changed that very fast. She took the lead and I accepted it. Since she has been into gothic we talked about this stuff, leather, chains and so on and I was stupid enough to tell her, that I would try everything she wants.
She started to train me, ordered me to be at her place in every free minutes I had. After coming in I was collared and had to service her before we did anything else. I did not mind eater her out and being dominated, but she tested my limits and that was very stressful. After spanking me over the knee (what was kind of sexy and fine for me), she tries the belt and sticks until I could not take it any more.
She tried me to the bed and refused to let me go for the whole weekend. She was a nurse and diapered me when I needed to… go. For the beginning it was okay, but when you notice that the chains will never break and you are at her mercy it is something different.
She did not accept save-words and I was scared of her when she finally let me go.
It was too much for me and when she ordered me to move in with her I broke it up and literary ran away.
It took me years to try it again. Now I am happy married and we play from times to times as switches. That works for me.