Dear Anons,
What is femdom?
We all know that it is female domination, but what does it actually mean for a woman to dominate you?
>A woman in latex and high heels stomping on your balls
No, that's just a man's idea of how we want women to dominate us.
What would a woman get out of stomping on your balls? There are other threads in this board about how hard it is to find a dom. Isn't that indication enough that traditional femdom isn't about what your average woman wants?
So what DO women want?
I have two words for you. Emotional Labor.
They want guys to be thoughtful, that's what's sexy for women. If you want to truly submit to women, you have to do what they desire. You have to see things from their perspective.
"OP" I hear you say "Emotional labor sounds like some feminist buzzword". Ok, well there's a pdf of stories from women about their experiences with men failing to provide emotional labor so have a read through it (All 49 pages of it), and get back to me.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B0UUYL6kaNeBTDBRbkJkeUtabEk/view?pref=2&pli=1
>or if you don't trust OP, google the Metafilter Thread on Emotional Labor, and you should find the PDF