No.768
Not sure it is the right topic here, I have a very sweet mommy, that I love and have been with for two years, but know she started to talk about lending me to a daddy, that she would really enjoy seeing me in the care of a daddy. And to be honest I really don't see how it would turn me on but she insist, and insist it is for her and not me. She even set up a playdate with him for tonight. Really not sure how to handle it. :/
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No.770
>>768
On a scale of 1 to 10, how uncomfortable does it make you?
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No.771
It is so confusing, She has "played" with me many times so I'm not afraid of that, not objectively. It is more, I really do not see me with a man, a daddy. But if it is a punishment like she tried to argue it like, I'm not sure it would be harsher then a bad belting. So 6 maybe? :s
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No.772
>>771
Then you need to discuss it with her like an adult, anon. If you're not comfortable with anything, you need to be upfront. And, in theory, if she respects and cares about you, she will understand.
If she becomes angry or resentful because you won't play with a daddy, then you need to re-examine your relationship with her.
Its a shitty feeling, anon, I know, but if she doesn't respect your wishes here, where will it end?
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No.773
We have discussed it a lot, she doesn't become angry, more disappointed. But I'm also so afraid of losing her. She has been the best part of my life since I found her. :3
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No.774
>>773
Maybe you two should sit down and write some Will, Want, Won't lists.
https://youtu.be/xoYxd3E3UXU
If this is important to her and you're willing to try it for her, then more power to you. But you should understand going into it what she wants you to do. And she should understand you're uncomfortable with this.
Feeling forced to do something you're uncomfortable with in order keep a relationship going rarely ends well. Your desires are just as important as your partners.
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No.775
Yes, you need to talk to her more, which might be late if the playdate is today. What I can say is that my little really come to like how much stronger his daddy are, as I sadly do not have that strength. Is it an option to have the daddy nonsexual? Guess not as most men thinks which what is between their legs
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No.778
Maybe you can try it once?
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No.779
I will do it, what could once do. How could I get less confused about it without trying. :s
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No.781
And we have discussed it for long, and I have just delayed it with maybe later, I have none since we met it was one other preference, said on her profile.
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No.782
Don't forget to report back!
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No.784
>>781
Your boundaries are yours, and important. But it would be good to discuss a few angles with your mommy.
Have you discussed why your mommy wants you to play with a daddy, and what she expects/hopes to see?
What worries you about playing with a Daddy? Is there sexual expectation in your play, or is it more non-sexual.
Like if it's strictly non-sexual from the Daddy, and Mommy just wants to see her baby be wholesome with a father figure. That's not gay or anything. You're just doing something for Mommy more then yourself.
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No.789
How you get filled good by the daddy!
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No.794
>>784
This!
Im not sure if abdl play is super sexual for you but if its not then I see no problem at least trying it out.
But personally I would like to have both a daddy and mommy sexual and non-sexual so I might be biased.
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No.796
Go for it! A lot of littles learns to love their daddies!
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No.807
OP here, I was a bit silly yesterday. Of course my mommy had no intention of it being sexual the first time, just a regular playdate. But yes, in the long run it is expected more. So nothing happened more then him diapering me before bed. Which felt totally different, someone that could hold you down with one hand. Otherwise just playing with my cuties and watching a movie.
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No.808
Why do i get the feeling this is some cucking fantasy LARP
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No.1061
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No.1066
Met him once more yesterday, still safe. Just diapering and spankings so far. That I could handle. But feeling a bit pressure building up. :s
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No.1083
>>1066
Mate you're in between a rock and a hard place. It seems like you're not done for this. I'd pull out right now if I were you.
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No.1086
Because you can not trust the Daddy to pull out when he's in!
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No.1131
The sooner you accept it the sooner you will learn your position. Just curious, is he black? Are you a sissy? Or only a baby boy?
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No.1139
>>1083
Yeah I start to think so, or at least trying to make it nonsexual in the long term. will see how it goes.
>>1131
Not sissy if it means dressing or behaving like a girl, I might have tested it more if not my mommy was so against it, she wants her little boy. :p And what, how is that a question which color he is? Do I miss something?
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No.1140
>>1139
Get a nice skirt or dress to wear when you meet your daddy and it will go easier, feel less wrong! Black is usually bigger which is better for little boys!
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No.1162
So much conflicting ideas here
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No.2055
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No.2056
>>2055
I honestly hope he's ok. I know it's difficult for him, not wanting to disappoint his mommy. I've been with my Mommy for 5-6 years Now and it's had ups and downs but still great and I enjoy every minute of my time with her. If she wanted me to also have a daddy things could get a little weird. I'd like the idea of having 2 CG to take care of me and being a family..but I'd really have to trust the daddy before anything sexual happened (but I'm also a little bisexual too and maybe he isn't.) I also don't know how I'd feel about sharing my Mommy with another man I'd probably be really jealous and protective of her.
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No.2157
>>2055
Long story short, it is back to usual without a daddy. It became so weird after a few times, and my mommy accepted it was not a fit for me. And now I also know it is not for me. :)
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No.2163
>>768
If you're telling the truth, how did you find your mommy?
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No.2166
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