/dpr/ - ABDL: Diapers & Babyplay

>>385

I've had the plastic problem, same as you. I've had success with multiple boosters, that prevents more of the padding from sinking.

NorthShore MegaMax seems to combat this by using the new concentrated blue SAP "core" polymer. If you're using toys that shake, you might want to give that diaper a go.

I will say that it works for me. Best orgasms I've ever had… and yes, that includes with people. Still prefer sex, just well, with a MegaMax in the mix.

>>388

Funny you say that, I just ordered my first pack of megamax's a few days ago and just put one on for the first time. I'm already in love! I have been using carousels for a while and have decided I dont really like them. First of all they are really loud which I don't particularly like, but I realize now that they just dont fit me very well. I didn't realize that was part of the problem until I tried on this megamax, and suddenly I realized what I have been missing. I dont know if its the shape or size or what, but I feel much more comfortable in them. Like, I was always worried about leaking in the carousels, but I feel totally confident I wont in this.

Here's an idea Iv had some good experiences with. If your into being gassy while diapered, a simple and easy way to maximize your toots involves some aquarium airline tubing. Take a piece of the tubing and make a small cut down the center of it on one end. This is just so you can tell which end is which for later uses. Put the end that isn't cut into your bottom and simply blow air into the other end with your mouth.

Other optional steps include adding a back-check valve (which can be found inexpensively at any pet store with fish supplies next to where you get the tubing) inline with the tube to prevent air flow in the, shall we say, "undesired" direction. Another option that solves this problem and speeds up the process is to buy the cheapest air pump at the at whatever store you get the tubing from. These can also be quite cheap, even down to ~$10. This eliminates any need to involve your mouth in the equation at all, plus makes the process faster and easier.

Simply add the desired amount of air and pull the tube out once your finished, diaper up, and have fun!

The best part is that this works just as well on its own as it does in combination with anything else happening "down there". You can add some bubbles to an enema or even a regular mess for a little extra fun. To really make things interesting, add in a little something that gets things moving down there. Suppositories, little bits of unscented soap cut up, maple syrup, marshmallows, or any other "additive" can be used.

Speaking of enemas, you can use the same tube as an improve enema delivery system. Using either your mouth (I *really* cant stress enough how much I recommend using a back-check valve in this case) or a regular old syringe, force some water down the tube. You can mix in some maple syrup or a bit of soap in a container, then use the syringe to get it where it needs to go. Feel free to inter space water with air in this case to get it mixed up a bit better.

One issue I haven't quite solved with this is getting the air to be more evenly dispersed. I tend to get a few massive, relatively silent farts instead of a lot of noisy toots.

Another thing, if you do happen to also actually have an aquarium, ABSOLUTELY DO NOT use the tube you use on yourself with anything that will go into your tank, regardless of how well you clean it. (besides the pump, so long as you are sure the end going into your bottom never touches the outlet on the pump. The positive pressure will keep it from contaminating the pump in this case.

If anybody tries this, let me know how it goes!

>>388

Makes me wish ABDLfactory sold them.

Question: how do I get ridiculously large messes?

>>392

I'm super interested in the farting, thanks for the tip! I'm gonna go buy a tube tomorrow, will keep ya updated.

>>385

This is a technique I use that helps me avoid that problem.

When you first tape up, make sure your dick is pointing "down".

I will pee a little bit standing up. Wait 30 seconds or so for it to absorb to the bottom of the pad, then lay down on my stomach. ( I find this "tricks" the diaper into not soaking it all into the bottom of the pad when you stand up later, because gravity)

Then for about and hour I'll slowly keep peeing into the front of the diaper. Depending on how much you go you might want to be careful about the angle your hips are at to avoid leaking out the top. If your in briefs-type diapers this has happened to me.

During this time you can watch porn to keep horny. If you start to get a boner gingerly flip your dick "up". When your prone on the ground, try your best to not "disturb" the swelling padding in front of your dick. The more you poke and prod it, the mushier and more broken down is will be.

After an hour (or longer, literally the longer you stay like this the better it is, you may even want to nap like this for a few hours) you can get up and now feel the front. It should be so coagulated than it's it's a fairly solid wall of mush by this point. Depending on how rough you press agisnt it, it should last a good while.

I've been considering fashioning diapers into other clothes and maybe even a full-body diaper suit. Does anyone have the DIY knowledge regarding how to do things like welding diapers together?

>>394

>>392

Cool! One thing I have tried with limited success to encourage the air to not collect all in one place (and, according to my theory, leading to a few massive farts instead of lots of smaller ones) is to try to vary the positioning and "depth" of the tube. Another thing that might be worth trying is to add it in short bursts.

>>393

There are a few ways to have large messes that Ive tried or have hwaerd of. The first is eating a lot of fiber. This also has the added effect of making things more regular and a bit softer as well.

Psyllium husks also increase bulk. I haven't tried them myself, but from what I hear they increase bulk and increase water retention. While I haven't tried this myself, I really want to eventually, and have heard good things about it. (It comes in a pill or powder form I think)

Another idea is to supplement your regular mess with something extra. pushing a (peeled) banana up there can add a bit of extra volume as well.

>>396

>>385

>>388

>>390

So an update on the megamax experience: I absolutely love these things! First of all, like I said before, they just feel like they fit better. (all comparisons Im making are against carousels, since thats all I have used lately until now) They also feel like they absorb a lot more, and more quickly. They feel drier against my skin, even after peeing in them several times. They are a bit quieter (only a bit, they still crinkle) and start off thinner and more discreet (a definite bonus for me) They also feel like they swell up more. I am also amazed at how well they are holding together. Even after several "sessions" with a vibrator, I don't think they have lost any of their structural integrity. All the gel that started up front is still there, and it hasn't clumped up at all so far. In contrast, carousels pretty much were totally clumped up or broken down after just one "session". Like, there was no gen between the inner and outer layer of the diaper. The tapes feel like they hold better, both with the initial application and a second application. I also think they wick moisture better. I dont feel like I need to put myself into super specific positions to ensure that pee gets absorbed in the right places (at least not nearly as much. I still keep things pointed down "down there" and mix up my positioning a bit, ie laying on my back, sitting, standing, semi-reclined, to help with distribution to stop early leaks, but it doesn't feel like its as critical to do this as it is with other diapers Iv tried.) Another really nice thing is that it seems to hold pee in the gel more tightly than other diapers Iv used. Like, if I sit down in this when its wet, I dont get a bunch of pee that gets squeezed out of the gel/matting. With other diapers, I just couldn't sit on my bottom after they were past a certain level of fullness, or it would just immediately leak out the sides around my butt, leaving 2 (often pretty large) wet spots on my pants and whatever I was sitting on. The price is also really reasonable. Before shipping and tax, they are listed at $23 for 10 or something close to that. After I added in shipping and tax, I think my total was like $33 or something. And to top it all off, there BLUE! I've always wanted a more "grown up" diaper. Not like a medical style grown up. Like something that would be made for a tween/early teen. More dignified and "big kid" oriented than a cutesy baby style print, but still with a splash of color or something in there to make it interesting. Perfect for the abdl "middle" (as opposed to a "little")

>>404

I don't have any direct knowledge or experience with this, but I would say your best bet would be to try to use some kind of heat weld. You see this in things like foodsaver bags and such. The idea basically is to have a thin wire heating element with some kind of film or cover over it that keeps the plastic from immediately melting and also keeps it from sticking to the heating element. The goal is to apply just the right amount of directed, concentrated heat to a very precise location so that you fuse two layers of plastic together without melting the whole thing. Like I said, I have seen them most recently in a vacuum pump foodsaver device, but I also know they make stand-alone versions that you slide along whatever seam you create.

I've recently been really bored with wearing diapers. Does anyone know a way to spice things up and make it like, I dont know, more fun/exciting to wear?

>>390

The MegaMax has one of the thickest two layer wing constructions. The inner wing is so huge it will routinely clip your testicles… but it's not painful - it's only uncomfortable if you do it on purpose.

Basically MegaMax has each set of wings designed to stop leaks independently. If one fails, the other backs you up - assuming you put the diaper on properly - it would be very hard to leak with one.

Part of that is good design, another benefit is that it channels urine onto that blue extra-dense polymer discussed above.

>>415

It depends on what you're interested in. But I'll caution ageplay has a binge/purge component to it that is rather universal.

Forcing efforts to ageplay more when you're in a purge cycle can backfire and lead to depression and regret. Very common for early-stage ABDLs to throw out all their stuff, only to have to spend a lot of money to buy it back when the purge phase ends.

If you want to spice it up, everything from involving a partner, to anal play (enemas, plugs, etc) to watching cartoons.

But, for most, the best thing to do is to let the phase pass on its own.

>>415

If you're looking for more stimulation, there's a variety of vibrators/stimulators you could go for that'd make things interesting. Just make sure they're waterproof. If you're finding getting off too easy, you could try chastity devices to slow things down. If anal or messing is more your thing, any sort of prostate massager/buttplug will work and there's always enema play or other suppositories (like the marshmallow trick). If you've got the money, then a new fetishwear outfit might be enough to keep you happy.

Also, if you're just plain bored of it, you can always just take a break and see how you feel about it after a while. You shouldn't be forcing yourself to indulge in a fetish and there's plenty of people who go through phases of liking/hating their fetish (its not even just an ABDL thing), so maybe you're just not in the right phase to want it. There's no harm in waiting things out.

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tell me that this isn't a changing table.

>>392

A quick update about the method I shared for increasing how gassy you are while diapered ( or anytime, really).

I mentioned before that I often have issues with all the air getting let out in a few huge farts, and I think I may have a solution. I just tried this before/in combination with messing for the first time, and I found that it helped a lot with breaking it up into lots of smaller toots. You don't necessarily need to mess for it to work either. Just needing to go is enough!

Another thing I would recommend trying is diapers and snow suits/snow pants. Not only does it just feel super comfy and snuggly and remind me of playing in the snow as a kid, but it also does a super great job of hiding the diaper! The snow pants are big and bulky, so you cant see the diaper, they make plenty of noise when walking, masking the sound of the diaper (plus its pretty much the same sound the diaper makes in the first place) and third, they help cover up the smell from any stinky accidents that happen! Its like the perfect thing to pair with diapers!

Another kind of related thing is the idea of using a morph suit or something similar as an improve onesie. You can get them on amazon for pretty cheap in just about any size. They sell them as morph suits but also as a kind of form fitting leotard of sorts for dancing. They make a great base layer for a costume, so that provides a nice explanation for why you own it if that ever comes up. Also, as an added bonus, I found that they can help keep you cool because they wick moisture off of your skin really well! You can get them in all sorts of variations, full face cover, head but no face, just up to the neck, etc.

>>591

Oh, and one more thing about the snow suit. You can put some kind of a vibrator in there and zip it up, and it does a pretty good job of holding it in place!

>>591

>>592

Or, you know, just wear a onesie.

>>596

That would be ideal of course, but I live with my family during the summer and in a dorm during the school year with a roommate. I have a diaper stash at home, but its small, and the more stuff I accumulate, the more likely it is to be found. Plus, if I did get a onesie, it would need to be washed at some point, and that would make it rather likely that it would be noticed. By using something else, I can get a similar experience without increasing the detection risk, as I have a perfectly reasonable explanation for why I have a morph suit (I actually got it for the costume first and then later realized it could double as a diaper suit)

Once I get my own place with my own washing machine and all that, I will absolutely buy a real onesie and tons of diapers and probably a few cloth diapers as well, and I will mess much more often.

>>394

Did you ever get around to trying this? would love to hear someones experience with it, sounds like an interesting idea

>>1430

I tried this last year, didn't do so much for me. Does it differ from person to person?

>>1444

Also, check 'em.

Has anybody tried catheters and diapers? I really want to try this.

I know there are some associated risks of UTI and all, but I imagine if you know what you are doing and dont keep it in for too long that it is reasonably safe (especially considering that caths are pretty common in the medical world).

How uncomfortable is it to get it in, and then to keep it in? how can I minimize discomfort?

I would assume that my best bet would be to just order some online, but what about a DIY kind of idea? could I use some very thin, non porous tube and totally sterilize it (using isopropal alcohol, and/or boiling water) and ensure it doesnt get stuck inside by having the end have a bulb on it or something? Im thinking like a pipette with half the end of the bulb cut off or something.

As for minimizing infection risk, I would imagine that the first step is too keep the thing totally sterile until its ready to use, making sure hands and crotch have been washed very well, etc. Also I think that drinking a lot of water might help as well, both before, during, and after using it, because it will help keep a constant flow going out, and then afterwards it will help flush everything out. Is there anything else I could do?

>>TLDR: how do I catheter and diaper safely and without pain and discomfort? (Im a guy if that makes a difference) What caths would you recommend for low cost, high comfort, and discretion?

>>1704

>diy

Dont be fucking retarded one wrong move and you will be having a fun chat in the ER

They are uncomfortable, they do sell pre-lubed ones with lidocane consider those.

There is one brand I have heard good things about from some tetraplegic patients I have seen, but I dont have any personal experience, VaPro catheters.

The big thing for them was it was usable with a C5 cord injury and they paid out of pocket to use them since their insurance wouldnt cover it.

They were also happy that they never had an infection using them nor a parasympatheic response (so there is probably minimal to no discomfort).

The other day I was able to achieve bedwetting through the excessive consumption of alcohol, and I wouldn't mind pursuing it further. However, my diaper leaked everywhere. I know I can get a waterproof mattress protector, but I'm not too keen on doing laundry all the time. I'm a cheap bastard so I only have purchased pharmacy brand diapers. Would going to cloth or using plastic pants with the disposables work to keep in leaks at night?

>>1709

Plastic pants will helps that a ton.

First off, make sure you're pointing down into the diaper. If you're pointed up, you'll likely leak.

Sleep on your back or tummy, but lay on your side in disposables and you'll likely leak.

Then plastic pants with disposables will generally not only prevent leaks, they're super handy at just holding up your diaper in general.

Some tricks from the photo pros.

Riboflavin/B2 Vitamins makes your pee BRIGHT yellow. It'll show up very prominently in your diaper.

I really miss the Abena Abrilet Max booster. Most boosters on the market are incredibly thin while dry and then swell up as they're wet. Abri-let had a good thickness already while dry.

This allowed one to stuff their diaper to give an extra poofy bottom. Place one folded over in back and then a second stuffer lengthwise towards the front. It creates that ideal diaper shape for good photos.

Magic Shave Powder is the best for hair removal before shelling out for laser. It's incredibly cheap per can, but follow the directions carefully and to the letter elsewise it can burn pretty severe. It stinks and can be a bit messy, so it's not recommended if you're trying to be discreet while doing it.

>>1714

Would you say magic powder works better than the Nair products? I'm always iffy on trying them because of all the horror stories floating around, but I'm so tired of shaving and bending in odd directions to shave.

Also, about how long will the hair stay gone?

Speaking of poofy bottoms, does massaging and folding the diaper around really make a big difference in the poof factor for pictures? What about the absorbing power?

>>1719

Yes. I personally never liked Nair. When I used the creams I would use Veet. Worked much better, but it would still leave patches of hair.

Magic shave powder completely melted everything, but my skin is usually pretty sensitive after. My nipples always sting even though I try really hard to keep the chemical away from it.

There used to be a Google doc for instructions because you use a whole can when you do your body. If anyone gets a can I layout the whole routine. But you should probably do a small test first because my skin has probably built up a lot of tolerance from using Veet for years.

How long the hair stays gone has always been better then shaving. That's something that really depends on you, but if I didnt I would have thick black course hair, everywhere. I usually do this every two weeks because you do have to let it grow back a bit again before it feels safe to do it. However I do stay completely hairless longer.

>Speaking of poofy bottoms, does massaging and folding the diaper around really make a big difference in the poof factor for pictures?

Yes fluff your diapers, but it's not going to make them thicker in the sense of making you waddle more.

Fluff them so they're crinklie, softer, and you can get the fit better. If you want to make them look thick, stuff them.

Functionality wise the abrilet maxi was perfect just for 'looks and feels' thick. If you just want thick for looks reasons, you can sheer the wings off baby diapers. But they dont have the passthrough like boosters.

>>1719

>magic powder works better than the Nair products

full stop

just wanted to chime in with a confirmation that that this stuff is amazing. never could use nair bc of the chemical burns. just waiting on an order of the "fragrant" stuff now and hoping that the smell isnt AS bad (there is no way to overstate how bad the normal stuff smells). btw i get roughly double the time out of magic shave vs a razor, just remember to moisturize after and exfoliate tomorrow.

>>1720

>But they dont have the passthrough like boosters.

You can always poke holes in the bottom of them. I would recommend making lots of small or even tiny holes so it lets liquid through, but minimizes the amount of gel crystals that escape.

>>1705

>Dont be fucking retarded one wrong move and you will be having a fun chat in the ER

Yeah, I assumed it would be a terrible idea, but figured it doesn't hurt to ask.

Ill look into those VaPro things. Thanks for the tip!

If you are really more into just plain hypermessing, get some walgreens store brand diapers in the largest size they sell. Soak them in the bath for a few minutes and just put the gel into your diaper. the SAP isn't harmful. Definitely wear some plastic pants that fits tight around the legs and waist. If any spills just scoop up what you can and let the rest dry, should be easy to clean after that. Not sure about using it *up there* yet though, I don't think it would be harmful but don't want to risk a trip to the ER. If anyone knows whether or not it is safe like that, please let me know.

>>1917

in theory, if it had already absorbed its maximum capacity, it should not pull the water out of your rectum and reduce you to a dry husk like how Carn removed all the water from the spellcaster who killed him in the 4th Eragon book.

In theory.

The gel itself it non-toxic and biologically inert. You could eat it if you wanted. I wouldn't recommend it, but it wouldn't harm you any more than eating other inedible things like crayons or grass.

>>1721

Just wanted to come back here and give my little review of the stuff I just used. I went out and bought the tube of the magic powder for coarse hair. Some white pasty like lotion that came in a white bottle.

I have to say I'm not a huge fan. I globbed the stuff on half my pubes waited the 4 minutes it says to, wiped off a little bit and it wasn't really removing the hair so I waited 2 more minutes. When I wiped the stuff off (it says don't exceed 7min on the bottle.) I still had a lot of spots and long hairs in certain areas. It did remove some patches of hair but not all of it.

Could have been user error but I mean half my junk was caked in the stuff, I almost used half the whole tube. It didn't really burn or anything which was a nice surprise, I expected to be dipping my junk in ice cream in order to cool it off, but that didn't happen. The spaces it did clean still had stubble on it like it was shaved but not very close. In the end I ended up just shaving like I always do to get the smoothness I desired. It may be better if the hair isn't kinda long idk. Maybe it'll be more worthwhile when I'm older and can't bend to reach all the spots I need to or something but right now it's not a great product for me.

>>2102

>Seemed to me it was a pre-mixed version from the same company so I don't see why it wouldn't make a huge difference.

I don't know anything at all about the specifics of how magic shaving powder works, but it may well rely on being a somewhat fresh mixture to work the way it does.

The cream shares no ingredients with the powder other than calcium hydroxide, so they are likely quite different products though both depilatories.

>I was probably being over cautious with it because I didn't really want to put the stuff on direct skin. So I used the hair as a buffer between the cream and skin.

Yeah, that's uh, not how to use it. Depilatories are meant to work by dissolving the hair at the surface of the skin.