No.408038
Anyone else comfortable with being bi but still chose to never have sex with men? It doesn't seem worth it to me. I usually just fap to dicks every now and then to keep my urges in check.
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No.408046
This is good. When did you start to feeling in this way to men and women? Do you get excited by masculinity or femininity or both, but for men and for women, espectively?. Another thing, what is your sexual preferences about men and women?
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No.408068
>>408046
Always been into woman but didn't feel any gayness until after years of porn use, so I'm one of those new age bisexuals who got turned out by porn. I wasn't opposed to fucking dudes when I first became curious, but changed my mind later after just losing interest, now I'm stuck with leftover faggotry that I have no use for.
>Another thing, what is your sexual preferences about men and women?
With woman its the usual straight guy stuff, big asses and cute faces, but with guys I just really like dicks.
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No.408072
>>408068
Good, because you are not bissexual nor faggot. Now, the cure I've not because I never was able to keep without porn or fap. Anyway you need stop with porn and fapping to reboot the inputs and return your life. Of course, again, I never tried fully, but it's a logical thing you stop with porn and fapping to reset the inputs.
Also, people say that you need 1 year in nofap/noporn to reboot your brain inputs.
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No.408079
I consider myself a straight bisexual. I’m pretty content with just women, but men are also attractive. It’s not porn addiction either. I remember being attracted to other boys when I was a kid and being turned on by men doing sexual things in movies. Maybe god fucked up my straightness. Idk.
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No.408081
>>408079
This is interessing. Do you get excited by masculinity or femininity or both, but for men and for women, espectively?. Another thing, what is your sexual preferences about men and women?
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No.408093
>>408038
There is a lot of testimony from people just like you on yourbrainonporn.com
Long story short: if you quit watching porn and take volitional control of your fantasizing, you will normalize over time. It's an addiction, like any other, in a sense.
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No.408114
I'm I bisexual if I like to 'conquer' women and want men to 'conquer' me? Even if I just like their dicks or does the conquer part show I'm attracted to masculinity?
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No.408120
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No.408121
>>408114
I think not, because it's the same symptoms with us and we aren't attracted to masculinity. if you started to like dicks and being dominated by males with porn, so you are the same us. The way to cure this is quit porn and masturbation and over time will normalize. As he said:
>>408093
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No.408125
> hit puberty
> discover that I like dicks more than I like pussies
> tits are ok though
> at the same time be a deeply religious catholic
> try to pray the gay away
> the more I pray the more urges I got
> start masturbating anally
> bust first nut ever to crossdresser porn
> fuck this gay shit.jpg
> be mad at self
> lose faith
> still mad at self
> start doing things I consider manly
> getting into fights, spending more time with my dad, got a tomboy GF, lose virginity by busting a fat load on her buttcheeks (whilst imagining she's a trap)
> spend time with other men only by construction working or fighting
> don't allow myself any form of relax around men for the past 7 years
> fight with dad and win
> only ever relax around my GF and female friends
> watch gay porn again out of curiosity after some time
> get fucking mad at the dudes everytime they kiss or hug
> urge to punch their teeth out
> good.jpg
> look at gay humilation porn (the stuff where they pretend to rape each other or spit in eachother mouths or wrestle-fuck)
> cool dicks but fight or flee response active
> remember all the fights I got into
> focus on imagining how to put a guys arm into a lock and then punch him into the throat
> forget about the dicks
>gayness neutralized
> start hanging out with dudes casually
> homo thoughts gone
> got a bunch of bros that I watch anime with
> GF is now my wife
> eat her pussy for breakfast out of pleasure
> also get mad at Italians everytime I see them having close bro-romantic physical contact
The only way I can get off is by a romantic fuck that involves caring about the partner. This requires a woman. Every other form of sex strikes either moral disgust (always think of the bottom guy as a fucking gimp and wish to kick him in the face) or a fight or flee response in me. Mostly the latter.. Traps can't do although I do like dicks, and fapped to trap porn a lot because they behave too much alike passive men and not enough like aggresive women. Wife agreed to peg me with a strapon when I asked her but I didn't feel like doing it when the deed was about to be done.
> always follow your heart
> also see every human being as a potential enemy men and women alike
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No.408133
>>408125
you literally started fights with people out of your own insecurity. youre not a man, youre pathetic and no capacity for violence will ever hide the fact that youre weak as fuck on the inside.
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No.408135
>>408133
He made himself not gay, despite unethical means, that's still a pretty impressive feat.
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No.408136
>>408135
he might have made himself not gay but he sure as fuck made a faggot of himself
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No.408137
>>408136
good luck using the word 'faggot' as an insult on this board
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No.408138
Are girls interested in cuteboys, especially androgynous/feminine ones? I want to find a gf, but i feel like girls are only interested in masculine men. Cuteboys who have/had gfs share your stories, how did you meet, how to know if a girl likes cuteboys, how rare is it for girls to like cuteboys?
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No.408139
>>408133
Yeah I'm not a big fan of going to such extremes to ungayify yourself, but I see what he means, because for me its far more fulfilling to cultivate my masculine side, I just happen to have an interest in being feminine as well, at least when it comes to sex.
Guys like us tend to try too hard to make ourselves straight, when really all we have to do is gain control over our sexual urges so they don't do whatever harm we're worried about. It seems like within the gay community it isn't seen as honorable to limit your sexuality the same way it is with the heterosexuals. Figures like Nikola Tesla are look at as demi-gods for forgoing sex for the sake of science, but if a gay or bi guy does the same hes just repressed.
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No.408141
>>408136
>>408133
I always wonder why western europeans consider self-change a weakness. Psyche is flexible. Everyone with little effort can develop emotional or motoric responses to different stimuli you recieve.
Try scratching your nose everytime you take a piss. After a while you'll do this involountary or might end up not being able to piss without it. I used violence and physical labour as sort of a signal jammer. I do this kind of things a lot so that my emotional and physical responses match and act out my beliefs and moral values.
Contrary to you I'd consider a person abandoning the worldview he worked hard to develop for the sake of random idiosyncrasies
> a faggot weak on the inside
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No.408142
I know what you mean op, but men interest me more these days than women. Some semi-sexual close experiences with my childhood friend in our early teens were the first times I thought romantically about a guy. hadn't really watched much porn beyond straight at this point. We grew apart and I felt straight until like 18. Men seemed too hostile and unfriendly and why bother when women were what I was most into but started jerking to gay porn occasionally.
I slowly started to realize how feminine I have always acted around other men especially online even as a kid my mom joked around about me and my friend being like a couple. Felt grossed out by myself at the same time about this unless it was a guy that I thought of as a real friend. I have had sex with a woman recently tho and was more homo than ever since then. I have a sub cuteboy bf now that I like a lot and completely lost interest in tranny-porn, normally only look at straight stuff but quitting all of it hopefully. Men are much more enjoyable to be around than women, and without worrying about my virginity anymore I just don't want a gf that much. Maybe I'm prison gay and just think of cuteboys as women with better personalities idk. Femininity is the main thing I am into sexually. It feels like cute men are capable of being more feminine than most women. It might just be the times we live in that makes me this way.
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No.408143
>straight bisexual
That's not how it works you fucking tumblrkin zoomer. You like one, the other, or both. How you even begin to think you can somehow not that line is beyond me.
>>408138
Pic related. It doesn't really work out because you're wearing a mask the entire time you'll be hiding parts of yourself from her anyway, but keeping up a facade of femininity is a full time job on top of that. The relationship is built on the idea that she thinks of you as a girl, so if you do anything that gives the impression of being "one of the guys" it's over. Some women claim to be into this kind of thing, but all women lie.
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No.408144
>>408137
>being this new
>>408139
or you can separate your sexual self from the rest of you
>>408141
oh i dont doubt i could if i really wanted to, it would take many years but it is doable. what i dont see is why i would do it, or why i would act like a total fucking pansy lashing out at others during the process. women might look alright, but by and large they are fucking repulsive creatures. why would i ever want a woman when i could have a man?
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No.408145
>>408143
>You like one, the other, or both.
Stop being so uptight about labels, I'm just using it as a cute way to describe men who are bi but choose to be with woman only. You have vegan omnivores, so you can also have straight bisexuals, its perfectly logical.
>>408144
That's not very hard though since I only get super gay while looking at porn, as long as I'm away from my computer I have no serious gay urges.
>or you can separate your sexual self from the rest of you
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No.408146
>>408141
>I always wonder why western europeans consider self-change a weakness.
I don't think that's the issue, its just with sexuality any attempt to change orientation seemed fruitless so the motto has been to just accept it. People with any sort of homosexual inclination deciding not to indulge have always been shamed.
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No.408147
>>408145
no i mean take the dick but dont act like a fucking faggot. just because you like men doesnt mean you need to talk with a fucking lisp and walk about the streets dressed like a cheap whore.
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No.408149
>>408147
>no i mean take the dick but dont act like a fucking faggot.
Oh no, one of the main reasons why I don't fuck men is because diseases are so bad, its not because of the negative stigma or anything petty like that.
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No.408159
>>408145
>choose to be only with women
>bi
Explain in a simple sentence how you think this works. If I'm uptight it's because surprise surprise, words have meanings.
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No.408165
>>408159
Sexual orientation is based on what you are attracted to and what arouses you, you can be attracted to men and woman and still choose to only have sex with gender.
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No.409842
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No.409849
Why do bi, straight leaning guys attract the ire of both gays and straight people? I don’t really find dicks and general masculinity attractive, and it’s hard to find a guy that is okay with me JUST giving their insides a massage with my dick and that’s it. I understand people wanna get off, but for a marginalized group, I still run into a lot of guys that can’t wrap their heads around that you can wanna fuck guys without being a huge cockslut.
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No.409855
>>409849
truth be told i dunno. theres also the aspect that if youre with a gay dude theyll want you to find them attractive in general, not just their arse.
>marginalized group
cmon m8
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No.409857
>>408125
what the hell are you even doing here if you became an alpha? go away troll
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No.409922
>>409849
Gay because you can be a fag but also live the normal straight life with a wife n kids, straight because they just see you as a whole faggot regardless of your interest in woman.
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No.413723
>>408068
I remember thinking effeminate men were attractive as a teenager, but also started to fantasize about getting fucked. It makes me wonder whether porn had anything to do with it or not. I remember looking at artistic images of both naked men as a kid out of curiosity but don't really remember getting turned on by them.
>>408147
I agree with that.
>>409849
Both straight men and women generally seem to be repulsed by men who have sex with men (bisexual women often get a pass though). I think there's probably an innate biological reason for it. Gays and lesbians don't trust bisexuals because they see them as people with dual loyalties.
It sucks. Even if you're a top, straight people seem disgusted by you. I'm interested in trying bottoming at some point but am going to have to do it secretly because enjoying dick somehow means you can't be a real man. A lot of women also seem to think you're ruined forever even if you only experimented in the past.
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No.413947
My girlfriend went to another guy. We were going to go on a general trip. But my girlfriend dumped me and I was left all alone. How to find a girl?
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No.414052
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