No.406519 [Last50 Posts]
What do cuteboys think about chasers? I'm talking lonely chubby faggots who have never touched a woman and now prefer the company of effeminate men, what are your thoughts on this?
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No.406522
I generally have a "live and let live" attitude, unfortunately a lot of guys that chase after 'cuteboys' tend to either get burned through rejection or burn the other guy because they're prison gay only and make them feel like shit after fucking them/jacking off to their pics once.
Desperation? Maybe. Every case is different, I'm a cuteboy with a rather chubby boyfriend and we've been going for a helluva long time so maybe there's a chance for some guys out there.
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No.406523
I usually just ignore them
But sometimes when I feel like it I might put on a show for them just because I find being such a slut pretty hot
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No.406526
I really like dick but I can only get off if the guy is feminine to the point of androgyny or trap. I am primarily physically attracted to the form of women, but I've always preferred the tomboy types who act more like guys. So really I could be happy with an effeminate guy or a masculine girl, but I don't like masculine guys or overly girly women. Am I a chaser? Am I just fucked in the head? Here's a picture I like a lot.
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No.406530
>>406519
i despise the term "chaser" and anyone who uses it earnestly i immediately disregard as utterly worthless. unless youre a tranny with dysphoria related mental issues regarding what qualities about yourself others are allowed to like you for then the term just makes you sound brain dead, and why anyone would wanna date someone who acts like a nasty, entitled little cunt because theyre too stupid to consider the words that come out of their mouths is beyond me.
in regards to the kind of person you described, if they actually fit the bill then no, its not healthy to be in a relationship with someone who doesnt have their shit together and isnt even trying. its ok to be chubby, its not ok to seek someone purely out of desperation, thats no proper basis for a relationship.
personally, im a femmy looking dude with a pretty damn masc boyfriend. hes got a bit of chub to him, but i only mind in so far as its not good for him to be like that. hes my teddy bear and im happily engaged to him.
>>406522
>unfortunately a lot of guys that chase after 'cuteboys' tend to either get burned through rejection or burn the other guy because they're prison gay only and make them feel like shit after fucking them/jacking off to their pics once.
yeah, seems like people on both side of this are often caught in a vicious cycle of cunts burning otherwise good people to the point they become cynical, which is never nice to see and unless they can get over it is gonna prevent them ever actually getting with anyone worth their time.
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No.406531
>>406526
is that a fucking dick coming out of a vagina?
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No.406532
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No.406537
>>406519
welp tbh there is a threshold to how much i can endure a persoons look. but i try my best to not be like that. after all im not perfect myself. i feel bad for them. if they really needed i would give them company. tho i dont want lewd stuff without me knowing them well. thats it i guess
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No.406538
>>406519
I enjoy their company online. They seem to like my photos a lot. I don't really care what they look like when we're engaging in lewd chat, though if I do like men, I prefer chubby ones. Some of them make very good friends. It breaks my heart though when I have to tell them that we can't be together in reality.
It's just really nice to have people to appreciate my body.
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No.406606
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No.406619
>>406519
If we're talking over the internet "chasers" I find them socially retarded and entitled. The internet is not real life and just because you saw a pic of someone attractive on the internet doesn't mean that person wants to message you and get a plenty-of-fish style conversation going where you confess your undying love for the pictures of them you saw. Also getting fleeced and milked by ewhores is unconditionally pathetic. No one is going to want to fuck you because you spend a bunch of money on them anonymously. Take your money and do something productive with it for yourself. It is absolutely your fault that no one wants to fuck you and that no one finds your self loathing and self pity attractive.
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No.406632
>desperate lonely men wanting to fuck horny attention whores
I don't see the problem tbh.
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No.406635
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No.406641
I'm not attracted to chubby, fat, or obese guys at all. I take relatively good care of my body, going to the gym at least 2 days a week and have been doing all sorts of fitness related activity for the past 6 years now and I'm just attracted to Muscular men in general.
Have I been lucky in finding a Muscular guy who likes androgynous feminine guys? No but I'd rather be single than be with someone I'm not attracted to. After all, how many of these chubby chaser types are attracted to overweight to obese feminine guys? Not a whole lot. But as the saying goes, it takes all kinds and there are feminine guys who are attracted to chubby guys (usually on the older side in my observation). But me personally, I'd pass.
And even then, even if the guy is attractive to you physically, it's a terrible idea to be with someone who is only with you out of desperation.
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No.406665
>>406619
>No one is going to want to fuck you because you spend a bunch of money on them anonymously. Take your money and do something productive with it for yourself.
Who said anything about sending money?
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No.406726
>>406665
Ewhores mostly ewhore for free clothes and gifts/patreon money
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No.406815
>>406726
That only really happens to actual grills though
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No.406816
>>406815
dunno fam, ive heard otherwise
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No.406844
>>406816
>>406815
perception is 9/10ths of reality my dude
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No.406853
Is it a surprise to anyone that some masculine men (me, for instance) like feminine cuteboys? <3
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No.406871
>>406853
>man is attracted to feminine characteristics
No, this is not surprising and is the basis of the whole "are traps gay" argument. Hownu r u.
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No.407137
I'm already bad at being able to tell if someone is actually hitting on me with the thoughts of "why like me of all people"? But sometimes it's a dead giveaway. I'd ignore them, but knowing they're attracted to me gives me more chances of selling them artor lewd pics. More or less, I'll befriend them and have potential return customers.
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No.407141
This thread has me worried I'm one of the guys in question. I was really turned on by a best friend when we were just adolescents before i cared about not having been laid but I don't know.
I am talking to a cuteboy right now but he has been responding less and less. I am worried i am putting too much feeling/desparation into this and hes just looking for one time sex. I will not lose interest just after fucking him, i have already jerked off to personal pics he sent me.
If he just cuts off communication with me i will feel pretty brokenhearted, even though we havent met in person yet. I really just want a cute bf, no gf right now but how do i know i just havent convinced myself of that because he is my only real chance at a relationship? I guess the best thing to do would be to cut back on my long-winded responses, let him initiate. Problem is he is really shy virgin I think and I dont have a clue what is going through his head about all this or whether he is nervous to talk or just uninterested in me. I sent him pic of my cock and he was really into it, and I told him I am not in the best of shape but i am not extremely chubby anymore.
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No.407142
>>406519
What do we/I who have been referred to as cute, 'femboy', twink, looks like this picture & have been referred to most of these things irl;
think of you guys who lust over us?
Me and many other twinks alike hate you degenerates who are very predatory to us irl and online, most of you have a form of mental illness and addiction.
You try sexualizing us to exploit us then claim we play victim when we dont play ball.
I'm 5'3 and weigh around 116lb, I'm straight & christian, I used to be neutral on gays and trans people but then those people kept trying to sexualize me and kept acting predatory towards me because of my race, size, and looks.
I've spoken to other twinks/boys like myself who have dealt with the same things who feel the same way though many are more tolerant than I have become.
Girls do it as well but are more subtle about it and dont want to actually exploit and abuse you sexually , they respect the purity and twink man's struggle.
TD;LR Any sane 'cuteboy' hates you unless they have mental illness as well, leave us alone degenerates
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No.407152
>>407142
and cuteboys are any less predatory? id say i qualify as one myself, and ive seen plenty of nasty little bastards from this place and others do horrendous shit to people because "ew chaser lol" before. ive seen many a cuteboy string on hapless sods who dont seem to appreciate how nasty so called cuteboys can be, and dont expect to be lead on for the amusement of others when everything they ever talked about and shared with them gets passed around for laughs.
fetishise you? get over yourself you pathetic little pansy and accept that youre not entitled to be liked by only those you like and for the reasons that you like.
exploit you? are you one of those clowns that thinks advertising yourself with your body is going to net you a partner worth having? if youre an adult capable of being responsible for your own actions theres no such thing as exploitation, whatever rods youre experiencing youve made for your own back in one manner or another.
thanks for the reminder to exercise today tho, im gonna need to get a good bit stronger if i want a hope in hell of cracking the skulls of the likes of those aforementioned wankers if im ever lucky enough to meet one.
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No.407171
>>406519
The term "chaser" is just a catchall phrase for when saying "I don't like that guy." There is no such thing as chasers. Every human being has been "fetishized." It's called attraction.
I'm saying this and I am cute and a virgin who is not looking for sex. If I get hit on, I know it's just someone attracted to me. I don't flip out over "chasers" because they don't exist, it's just people attracted to people.
> I'm talking lonely chubby faggots who have never touched a woman and now prefer the company of effeminate men
I'm sure there are some who find them attractive. Plus who gives a fuck what their reason is?
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No.407183
>>407171
Chasers exist. They're heterosexual men incapable of getting a girlfriend so they turn towards effeminate men to take the place of a girlfriend and then hold men to the standards of a woman
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No.407192
>>407152
>>407171
I agree. In all honesty, the problem with cuteboys is this absolute sense of entitlement. That, and that they expect a lot from others while giving very little in return.
They exploit people by putting their bodies on show and giving false hopes in order to get people to buy them shit or do shit for them. That's just fucking rude. Somebody like that does not have the right to complain when all they've done is play with peoples feelings.
When somebody gets bitter or resentful towards them, "eww chaser" or "muh mental illness". Surely not all of them, but if some of them would just get their heads out of their own asses, that'd be nice.
But when somebody doesn't play along with such games, suddenly they lose all interest.
It's a self made problem really.
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No.407652
>>406519
The only (consensual) sexual experience I had with someone was a chubby guy. I don't have the confidence to talk to anybody but he offered to pay me for him to give me a handjob and I needed the money
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No.407655
>>407190
>Do desperate men exist or only in your imagination
Yeah it's so implausible I can't imagine it being a real thing. Guys are rarely desperate or thirsty enough to fuck other men or gross fat women. Doesn't happen
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No.407656
As someone with a bit of a kink for chubby boys?
If they're nice enough, cleanly, and cute, I'd love a "chaser" for a bf.
If they're literally just horny (Don't get me wrong I like horny, but I'm not just a cumsock), greasy, sweaty, unclean…probably not.
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No.407661
I was a chaser during my early 20s, but I gave up after getting turned down a few times. Honestly being a chaser is sad as fuck, its basically a beta orbiter except instead of obsessing over a woman you're obsessing over someone who looks like a woman.
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No.407672
>>406519
I'm a big guy (5'10, around 280, solid mix of fat and muscle - I can bench 250 and leg press 450 comfortably enough), and I'm into cuteboys.
Now, don't get me wrong, I was no chad, but I certainly got laid more than a few times, and I'd still be open to relationship if I could find a woman who was both attractive and sane.
For me, fucking cuteboys is more of a kink, something to get my rocks off - to just completely ravage a soft, tender, short, small boy, not much older than 18-20 or so, in their sexual prime, naïve about the world; gets me going just thinking about it.
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No.407745
Personally it think it's fine as long as both parties are consenting. prolly wont end up with a healthy relationship just gunna say
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No.407760
>>407655
>im so desperate i turned gay
>not prison gay or bi, but solely attracted to other males
>this is to such an extent that i chase a smaller pool of partners exclusively while having absolutely 0 game
>all the while being fully aware of how male sexuality is highly visual
seems a bit of a suspect proposition to me
in either case, this isnt how its used. at least not in any sense other than people projecting that understanding onto anyone who doesnt fit their idea of who should be allowed to be attracted to them.
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No.413553
Nice to see my thread is still here. bump.
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No.413566
As a cuteboy(TM) myself I personally pity chasers. They're not often bad people, just extremely desperate with lacking qualities.
I don't need someone hot as fuck that will drill deep into my ass with a 12 inch schlong, I just want someone cool to talk to. Someone that accepts me as I am and will be cool to spend time with, that I can talk to without having to be a "cuteboy" or without having to fuck beforehand. (Even though any BFs I've had I've fucked p frequently)
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No.413680
>>413566
>I don't need someone hot as fuck that will drill deep into my ass with a 12 inch schlong, I just want someone cool to talk to.
Talking is overrated, give me dat big 12 incher all day everyday ;)
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No.413684
>>413566
this. and i'm not usually attracted to most men unless they are kind of feminine/cute and most chasers aren't very attractive to me.
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No.414188
>>406519
What if I'm both a cuteboy and a cuteboy chaser?
I haven't touched a woman sexually either. FUCK
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No.414195
>>406519
Not a true cuteboy, but I get annoyed by guys who act really sex-starved and desperate. That goes whether they're acting that way toward women or other men. Other than that, I have no problem with them and dislike when people shit all over anyone they're not attracted to who shows any positive attention toward them as a "chaser." It's a cruel thing to do. It reminds me of how bitchy young women accuse ugly or socially awkward guys of being "creepy" just because they're not up to their standards.
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No.414200
>>414195
These kind of people revel in attention. Just like bitchy female youths. They revel in the attention, and want to feel the power to hurt someone else's pride.
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No.414253
>>414195
OP here, as a self-proclaimed chaser I would to add that the amount of brutality aimed towards us is staggering to say the least. Especially for apps such as Grindr, there is no catching a break when it comes to being shut down
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No.414313
>>407183
>They're heterosexual men incapable of getting a girlfriend
>incapable of getting a girlfriend
Any attractive men is able to get a girlfriend which leads for the such called chasers to be "guys i'm not attracted for" as said by this anon: >>407171
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No.414325
I met a guy off of Whisper who I thought that I could trust. He took me to a secluded area on a cliff at night for our first meet. I know, not a good idea. He actually respected my boundaries and nothing sexual happened; we just talked about life and being gay (I'm pansexual). We agreed to hangout at his place because I was horny and I agreed to wear panties under my clothes because I prefer it and I know that a lot of fags prefer the effeminate meme (I'm actually a trans girl, but didn't acknowledge it at the time. I was 21 then and now, I am 25). We hung out in his room and kissed and cuddled and he got really happy upon seeing my panties and hips and stuff after lifting my shirt. He started touching me and just kept going. I was too afraid to say anything and he was a pretty strong and big guy. He gave me fellatio. I was so ashamed for not telling him to stop. I was ashamed of being slutty. I told him that what he did was not OK and that if he tried anything, I would cut him (I always carry a knife now and bigger targets are easier to stab and cut). He apologized over Discord and that's all I wanted: an apology. He was my first black guy and I have never been with another since because I unfortunately seem to run into all the dumb stereotypes of black guys: I always seem to meet niggers instead of black men. My rape has also affected how I view black men and chasers in general; I always feel like chasers or black guys are secretly rapists. It's safe to say that I have major trust issues with chasers and black guys especially after my trans bf was raped by a black guy who he thought was a friend. Chaser is just an umbrella term for people who are simply predators sexually. A pedophile is a type of chaser for example.
While I will be flattered by chasers attention, I will always be ready to hurt them if they try to violate anyone that I care about or myself because they are sick. They're sickness can be cured, but only if they want to cure it. Even after treatment, the chaser will still have lingering demons, but treatment can make it more manageable. I myself can be predatory. Heck, I met my current bf: the love of my life off Whisper and I was first drawn to him because he was kind of a chaser. I was drawn to him because I knew that he was into me being a girl: the dick just made it better to him. I knew that I was safe and turns out everything was. We eventually moved in together and now I can enjoy all manner of sexual events with him daily (which we always have to be honest). We have sex 3-6 times a week multiple times. I love him dearly and not just because of the sex which is how it should be.
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No.414326
>>414253
Yeah, it's completely ridiculous.
>>414325
>Chaser is just an umbrella term for people who are simply predators sexually.
The term most often seems to be used for "guys I don't like."
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No.414328
>>414325
>being a tranny
>fucking a nigger
>regretting consensual sex is "rape"
I can't tell if this is bait or if this board has actually sunk this low.
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No.414334
>>414328
I'd love to get fucked by a nigger if I knew they weren't sketchy.
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No.414354
>>414326
The worst part is some of us get branded this title when it's completely out of our control, and they say gays have less standards.. not when it comes to twinks, femboys and trannies
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No.414355
>>414354
Yeah, they seem to be as shallow as actual women. I'm not saying I'm not a superficial guy, but I'm also not enough of a heartless asshole to try and shame people for having the nerve to exist in a way that doesn't match up to my own personal preferences.
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No.414360
>>414326
>a term for "guys I don't like"
Just face it: you treat certain people like sex objects and that's predatory behavior. You go on the prowl for bussy. You could say that it's unattractive behavior
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No.414364
>>414360
You wouldn't be saying it's "PrEdAtOrY behaviour" if Chad did it
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No.414366
>>414360
Believe it or not, but people have physical preferences in terms of the kinds of people they're into. There's nothing "predatory" about that.
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No.414385
>>414355
imagine being bi and still get rejected by BOTH genders
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No.414399
>>414385
I find it funny because I'm a fat 35yr old slob, probably the quintessential chaser and I have no problems attracting either.
I think it's the aura of desperation most chasers give off that scare off potential dates.
It's kinda a catch 22, they'll never learn to be laid back until they are successful, but cant score because of the creepy virgin vibes.
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No.414400
>>414399
Do you attract both cute guys and grills like this fine specimen?
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No.414401
I don't like women because women are niggers, my boyfriend isn't a nigger
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No.414402
>>414400
Yup, and better, that one kinda looks like a Japanese girl I once dated, she liked bearish guys, both in looks and personality.
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No.414426
>tfw fem
>tfw just attract masc guys
I just want a fem qt of my own why the fuck do things work like this
Shit sucks
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No.414472
>>414426
no one cares about your kind
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No.414480
If anyone even drops the word "chaser" in a chat/convo I immediately ghost them. There's only a few archetypes that use the word, their motivation differ, but they all have one thing in common:
>I'm as much drama as a woman
No thank you.
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No.414487
>>414325
Extremely trappilled, was like reading a page out of my own life
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No.414489
Personally if they're super persistent I give in a little.
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No.414491
i don't see anyone saying exactly what i could say on that subject in the thread, maybe just misread it but anyway
i don't care much about actual "chasers", but the reasons for the definition of a "chaser" really often wrap up a sense of "fetishization" and i sincerily don't get it, coming from a "fetishist" comprehension of myself since my childhood i've soon had the feeling that pretty much any sexual attraction shit could be labeled as a "fetish" and that when it's called a "fetish" it's simply often to emphasize that it's not supposed to be "normal" sex. it produces a boundary between normal and abnormal. the more "normal" sexual attraction is never labeled a fetish. i don't think that's a good definition if it's simply a way to call out creepy/invasive behaviour, or just a way of seeing things you don't think is attractive.
to make things clearer i'm a 95% gay guy, i've always been attracted to mild/non-passing crossdressing or effeminate guys and have been called out when i was a teen in my "weird" tendencies inside and outside of my family and have faced public humiliation about it (i like to crossdress a little myself too). i probably have a "fetish" affinity, i don't mind much anymore, but that kind of approach is heavy for me bc it can have a lot to do with (public) shaming. probably quite a personal view on this, but whatever.
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No.414492
>>414491
(i think it's particularly obvious when some trans folks seem to consider that any representation of effeminate ppl in hentai/porn is "fetishist" or even transphobic even when it includes absolutely no trans ppl, and sometimes use that term as a commutable word for "transphobic". as if any sissy/crossdressing/whatever stuff was transphobic and everything was about them).
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