/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

I'm a "cuteboy" and I'm going to be 30 in 5 years but I do want to say that it's entirely possible to keep up a feminine glow as one ages. It's really going to come down to trying to stay in shape and experimenting with makeup and hair. The tops and masculine guys into girly guys just need to realize that younger guys get older but that doesn't mean the femininity stops.

>>383370

wholesome. nice.

>>383341

You arent afraid of gay death then?

>>383337

I would prefer to be with a boy forever. But I haven't had a boyfriend yet, so we'll see

dated a girl for 9 months, and another for 5 years. We were polyamorous, so i kinda got to explore myself, but I definitely made a lot of mistakes there

relationships are scary, and it feels like everyone is also generally afraid of dating right now. Our generation is in a tricky spot.

>>383337

I see myself being alone probably but who knows. I feel you though. I make a cute trap and I could see if someone was only into that feminine thing they would probably lose interest when I'm no longer passable or they realize they're dating a guy and not a "woman" or whatever. My ideal bf is a manly top who is into skinny boyish twinks but doesn't mind if they like to feel and look like a pretty girl now and then, I do it for myself before anyone else anyways. Someone still wanting to sex me while I'm not wearing hyper feminine clothing would be super flattering and melt me since I'm an inexperienced oversensitive virgin.

I definitely wouldn't want to date someone into women/trans girls only to have them leave when I take off the bra or whatever since I may as well be alone rather than used and rejected. Also a rugged guy who could give me some life guidance probably would be good for me in general. But yeah the main question, no I doubt I'd be with someone the rest of my life

girls get old too.

I'm 26 and worried no one will love me anymore. I wasted so much opportunities when young and now I'll just get old with no one wanting me.

Don't wait until you're in your 40's to settle down. Late 20's would be good. always explore yourself and your options.

Already did. The cuteboy inside is more important than the cuteboy outside; "gay death" is for the self-loathing. I am an exclusive top, but I'm not a closet case, I don't think closet cases or half-assed 'straight' boyfriends count as people. When I commit to something, I commit, and that includes a commitment to my husband, even if he is more of a housewife.

>>383404

>My car won't start, now I'm worried I'm just going to sit on the side of the road and starve to death

Get it together mang, you're barely a young adult

>>383403

Women age differently to men

>>383389

I can admit that I am a little worried but I'm just going to try to focus on remaining active and healthy like I am now. Life doesn't have to end after 30 and as long as you feel good and continue to take care of yourself to the best of your abilities, I don't see why an older feminine guy would have to automatically lose every time to a younger one.

There has to be some guys out there who'd be into Cougar-like femboy/femguy lol

>>383396

Agreed so much as a fellow femboy. I don't think dating guys who are attracted to transwomen are a good idea for people like us. We're still GUYS at the end of the day, just feminine guys. We aren't transwomen nor are we trying to be one so being set up with a trans-attracted man when you're a femboy is just a setup for failure.

>>383424

It's stuff like this that make me hopeful that there are guys who genuinely are attracted to femboys/femguys and want to have something serious without forcing people like me to transition into transwomen to make their lives easier which is bullshit because femboys and transwomen are not the same thing.

>>383440

There are all sorts of people in the world. I was close to 30 before I had my first serious boyfriend, and he's cute on account of the Asian genes.

For the "older" members of the board, there's always hope. Lots of the time you may need to make your own hope via working out, eating right, learning to respect yourself (note that I did not say "love yourself" because there's a very thin line between arrogant prick and self-deprecating loser with no self-confidence), and actually *gulp* being willing to talk with people IRL.

And always remember that the idealized version of relationships that you see on teevee are full of shit. (Healthy, real) relationships take a fuckton of work, and you need to be willing to sacrifice some of what you want for the sake of your boyfriend. You need to have your own life in order; no one else can fix it other than you.

>>383440

I admit I have dated a transgirl before, but at the time he was basically just claiming to be a huge faggot (Christ that's a huge turn-on) rather than a full girl. I am pretty adamant that anything I do with someone else be classed as gay. I always was attracted to cute boys, femboys, etc, not transwomen.

I certainly think any guy who's caught up on what his boyfriend will look like five or ten years down the line is living in a shitty fantasy world where he can keep his boyfriend looking pretty forever. Well, he himself won't look handsome forever, and obviously tastes change. At age 12, you are attracted to other 12-year-olds, but if you're attracted to the same thing at 32, something's very wrong.

A lot of dating surrounding cuteboys is sadly garbage. Most "dominant" men are closeted (essentially just a cowardly dildo that complains), not really dominant, or both, and it means that a lot of sweet guys end up burned badly through no real fault of their own. I have hope that this is changing, but it'll take time. At the very least, I've seen it get better since I was younger, so the trend is in the right direction.

>>383445

Yeah, we exist. There's maybe like, two dozen of us, but we exist. I don't even have interest in women, and I've always been pretty much exclusively into feminine guys, to… maybe an obsessive level? Let's face it though, there aren't many guys like us at all. That means it really does rest on us to be as good to the cuteboys in our lives as possible, nobody else is going to do it for us.

If I was in a serious relationship with a /cb/ I would much prefer them drop the feminine look early instead of risking them committing sepuku in their 40's because they can't keep up later in life. There is a certain hard line that you hit where to keep being able to "pull it off" you're probably doing to have to do some extreme stuff, and eventually you'll have just been cuter if you embraced your masculine side earlier instead of trying to be a cuteboy until the day you die.

That being said I'm full fagmaster and like cuteboys as much as I do bears, so it's an easy answer for me as I don't exclusively prefer the feminine aspect, my only real real requirements are actually being funny and not being a slob.

>>383465

Yes. It is masochistic to be against your own rights and fundamental social well-being. You're using ambiguous terms to justify your own discrimination, please mind that in our current society it is easy to "internalize" your homophobia, that is, masochistically turn against your dignity and your happiness in favor of hateful persecutors. Our goals are rational, concrete and just: we ask for the same legal and social treatment that is currently enjoyed by heterosexuals and that they take for absolutely granted. I was pretty much like you several years ago until I realized I was a victim of peer pressure and primitive online propaganda. You deserve better, anon, we all do.

>>383337

Me. Being with someone for the rest of my life is all I really want. Finding a partner to spend the rest of my life with would be the ultimate success in life and would make everything else that comes just be a bonus since I'd have already won life. I never imagine that partner being a woman.

>mainly due to his feminine aspects or overall cute appearance

In a situation like that, obviously not. But I'm not some prison gay fag chasing a fetish. I'm looking for love, not sex. If you only fell in love over appearance, then that's not even love. It's lust.

>>383444

>Most "dominant" men are closeted (essentially just a cowardly dildo that complains), not really dominant

Why does this matter so much? I'm a switch who always ends up falling into the dominant top role since everyone else seems to just want to be a sub, and honestly it's just exhausting to feel like I have to be dominant all the time or else they will suddenly lose interest in me. I just want an equal relationship where I can just be myself without worrying if I'm keeping up some stupid appearance to fulfill their fetish. Sure, I prefer being the top in bed, but why does that need to carry over into life?

>>383474

I think it's time you gave it a rest, polack.

>>383444

If that transwoman liked being called a faggot than in my opinion, she's not a transwoman but that's just my own opinion of course.

But yes, these guys who are so stuck on thinking/hoping their femboy boyfriend will look the same forever are delusional and need to get a grip on reality. Because like I said, just because we femboys age, doesn't necesarily mean we'll become unappealing as we can still find ways to embrace our femininity and be appealing in the same way older women can be appealing as they adapt their look.

I have no sympathy for closeted men in the western world because being LGBT while still a little tricky, it's way more accepted now than it was 20 years ago and there's no reason to be staying in the closet until you're like 40-50+ and then start complaining when young guys are not into you. Take advantage now and build a relationship and grow together is my motto.

>>383443

Well thankfully for myself, I have my own little routine I follow to stay in shape and I try to limit the amount of junk I eat and I've seen favorable result for my femboy physique.I find that a lot of femboys do this but the admirers don't so much and it's like, if you're attracted to us for taking care of ourselves and putting together our looks, you should be doing the same thing to make yourself appealing to us lol It's a two way street after all.

>>383462

That's pretty ignorant to push though because the way you make it iseem is like we femboys are only the way we are to get attention but that's not true. A lot of us are the way we are because that's just how we are and we're at a place where we feel no shame being who were are.

Feminine older guys can look just fine embracing their feminine side, it's just a matter of adapting the style. For example, following what women do when they get older like wearing more conservative yet form fitting attire and whatnot.

I don't agree with this notion that we femboys have to complete change and look masculine/manly when we get older. Unless the guy wants to genuinely change, he shouldn't have to but rather, just find a new feminine style that compliments his older age.

>>383478

Well you're setting yourself up for a hard time because most of us femboys are not dominant nor do we want to be. I'm not saying you couldn't find a dom femboy but they're rare, a minority within an already small minority. A lot of femboys want to be in the womanly role and we can't have that with a submissive guy.

If you're looking for a switch type relationship, you could possibly find a femboy open to that but you may have better luck with a more in-between guy who is not feminine nor masculine.

>>383481

>Well you're setting yourself up for a hard time because most of us femboys are not dominant nor do we want to be. I'm not saying you couldn't find a dom femboy but they're rare

I never said I need them to be dominant. Or that I'm looking for a "femboy". Honestly, the term "femboy" just makes me cringe because I know it's just nothing but attention whoring drama queens, which you aren't helping to disprove. A normal guy is what I want. I just hate this mentality of having to live out a fucking fetish 24/7 that a lot of people here seem to want.

>>383478

Yeah, there are more subs than dominants, I know that as a dominant, I'm saying that sucks for submissives. You're exactly the kind of guy who shouldn't be dominating, though. The response to this shouldn't be for submissives to bite the bullet and try being dominant, that's stupid, you know perfectly well you're not happy doing that and you know you're not making your partner happy by being miserable just so they can get fucked. That's just the micro-closet, you're trying to make them sustain interest in a version of you that's full of shit, and you're obviously making yourself miserable in the process.

More importantly, there's no way you're doing justice to your partners if you're constantly trying to play this goofy game. You're probably gaslighting them on accident all the time because you don't know what the fuck you even want, or rather, you can't own up to it.

>Sure, I prefer being the top in bed, but why does that need to carry over into life?

Of course it doesn't have to carry over into life. Who told you that? Where are you getting this garbage information? Just because some dominants, myself included, do carry that over doesn't mean you have to.

Seriously, you need to stop.

>>383491

Fuck off if you're going to come on here hating on femboys. "I just want a normal guy, boo hoo," then go find a normal guy instead of hanging around on a board called cuteboys. Christ. You fucking whiner, begging for attention and sympathy and then projecting that neurotic shit on everyone else. No wonder you have trouble keeping cute boys around you, you're a bitter shit.

Anyways, I'm done wasting time over you. Back to caring for cute boys!

>>383508

What the hell are you even talking about? You're pulling so much out of your ass right now.

>Just because some dominants, myself included, do carry that over doesn't mean you have to.

Oh, you're another one of those who defines themselves by their fetish and sexuality. Gotcha. Where are all the sane boys at?

>that autistic rage at the end

>>383511

>putting all these words in my mouth

>getting into this much of an autistic rage over nothing

This is why "femboys" are to be avoided. No one said anything about cute guys. It's just you people who base your personality around a fetish. You're emotionally unstable and overall just fucked in the head. My original post had nothing to do with masculinity or the lack of it. It had to do with people revolving their entire lives around fetishes instead of just being people.

>>383511

Well, you're certainly oversimplifying IT IMO... some are considered "cute" whilst wanting the opposite

>>383516

There's a pretty big difference in knowing what I want and revolving my life around a fetish. Do you really see being homosexual as a fetish? Is being straight a fetish too? Sounds like you're just prison gay to me.

>>383519

>you want to live out your abnormal sexual desires outside of the bedroom and so do I

No, I want a partner to share my life with and love. Unlike you, I'm actually gay because I just have no attraction to women. Not because I've been isolated too long and developed a porn addiction or some dumb shit like you probably have.

The way you look at all of this is honestly really depressing. I feel sorry for you. Is being a sex object the only personal value you have?

>>383514

>It had to do with people revolving their entire lives around fetishes instead of just being people.

>instead of just being people.

Woah, deep. What if, like, we were all, you know, like, just PEOPLE, man? Mind = blown! Coca-cola invites u 2 live ur life, lol!

This is a board about cute boys. It's called /cuteboys/. It's populated by cute boys and boys (and sometimes even girls) who like cute boys, i.e. gay and bisexual men who are attracted to a certain aesthetic. All of this, you knew when you came here. Here you are, whining and complaining about… exactly what this board is about.

So, you're here to just spread low-quality crap, basically. You're here telling us we're fucked in the head and emotionally unstable when you're the one coming onto a board you clearly have no business being on, talking about how you avoid femboys on a board specifically about feminine boys. Are you noticing a pattern here? Probably not since you were dumb enough to do this in the first place.

You really are a special kind of stupid.

>>383520

>being cute is the same as being female

You are not smart.

>>383337

I don't really intend to date someone specifically for his appearance, and whomever I do date, yeah, I do hope I'll be able to go for a lasting relationship with him that could eventually be made into a marriage. Meeting my soulmate and making him my husband~

>>383521

>What if, like, we were all, you know, like, just PEOPLE, man?

Then the world would be a better place and PRIDE parades and LQGBTQWHATEVER wouldn't exist.

>Here you are, whining and complaining about… exactly what this board is about.

Nope. Just about how shitty people are and how they revolve their lives around their sexual fetishes. Good job putting words in my mouth, though. Good job continuing to prove how unstable your kind are as well. Just goes to show how deriving all of your self-worth from being a sex object really fucks with your head.

>>being cute is the same as being female

??????

>>383528

>When you say "just being people," you mean just being people you personally like, who all agree with you.

No I don't. But go ahead and keep on putting words in my mouth.

>>383529

>you have a fetish for cocks

No, I'm just gay and like guys.

>you want to be gay in your life AKA have a fucking boyfriend

Okay?

>but you cant keep it in the bedroom

Well it's not sexual, so I don't really need to keep it in the bedroom. The sexual bits definitely do stay in the bedroom.

>the same way you want to live out being gay by having a boyfriend, I want to live out being cute by being cute

No, the same was me wanting to "be gay" by having a boyfriend would be you wanting to "be gay" by having a boyfriend. Whether you're attractive or not is irrelevant and not what is being discussed.

>GOD FUCKING FORBID SOMEONE LOOK AND BE HEALTHY OR PUT ANY AMOUNT OF EFFORT INTO THEIR HYGIENE OR APPEARANCE OR HEALTH

Okay? Do that then?

>and thus, since I put this small amount of effort in by counting calories, by removing some hair hair, and by doing a few exercises I am somehow a disgusting fetishist trying to live my life as nothing but sex

No, just you revolving your life around your fetish of being a "femboy". I don't know how many times I have to repeat the same thing for your dumbass to process that it is about personality, not how you look. Although if you're walking around wearing makeup and crossdressing in public you should probably kill yourself.

>>383481

>If that transwoman liked being called a faggot than in my opinion, she's not a transwoman but that's just my own opinion of course.

Well he (he at the time, she now? I'm honestly not sure, it's been a few months) was just starting HRT but we talked about it, his self-identity, my attractions, and at the time it was something we both wanted him to say and think. He was really into being told what to think, like, basically his big thing was having his dominant dumb him down and control his mind. He was really sweet but yeah, he was a few months into HRT but still considered himself a trap first and foremost more than a trans girl, at least, at the time. In the end, he decided to just go full girlmode. Last time I saw her, she was totally passing. God, during that initial transition though, the sex was just incredible. He was really sweet, so, I'm just glad she's happy.

>just because we femboys age, doesn't necesarily mean we'll become unappealing

Honestly my now-husband looks better now at 25 than he did when we were 19 and first dating. Guys who don't believe it's possible to look good while being older are probably going to have a bad time, but guys who are a little more used to it, who have maybe scrolled through a femdads thread on /y/ or something, those guys are going to still be able to get a spark going with their partner well into the future. At that point, success speaks for itself.

>I have no sympathy for closeted men in the western world because being LGBT while still a little tricky, it's way more accepted now than it was 20 years ago and there's no reason to be staying in the closet until you're like 40-50+ and then start complaining when young guys are not into you.

Ohhhhh, you're that anon! Okay, we just had this same conversation a few days ago, that's why this felt so familiar. I'm

>>382312

So yeah, we're on the same page. Hope the last week went well!

>>383532

Well, I say it at the end like I know but we really didn't talk much last time we saw one another, it was just a brief hello. Looked really good, though, so I'm just assuming female pronouns by now.

>>383538

He is, don't worry about him. No use babysitting those types.

>>383538

>>saying he dosnt like cocks

Man, you REALLY can't stop putting words in my mouth, huh?

>>saying a romantic relationship isnt intrinsically tied to a sexual realationship

Sex does tend to happen in a relationship, yes. Who said otherwise? More words you're putting in my mouth.

>>saying to go ahead and keep trying to look good but at the same time that means I am revolving my life around a fetish

You can look good without having your life and all of your self worth revolve around it. This is the point you can't seem to comprehend.

>>saying that if crossdressed in public (I dont crossdress) I would be a degenerate when I am pretty sure he intends to take another man out on dates as if that is any different

Yes, it would be quite different. Pretty severely different, actually. Are you sure you're not the one being willfully retarded? Because you have done nothing but strawman every single one of my posts while moving your goalposts to avoid accepting how fucked in the head you are. I pity you. Maybe one day you'll wake up dig yourself out of this hole. Doubt it though.

>>383478

you are the type of dom I prefer, don't worry. You don't need to change yourself <3

>>383491

If Femboys make you cringe, then why are here? Did you see the name of this site? And most femboys are NOT doing what they do for attention. They're being themselves just like "normal" masculine guys do.

>>383511

Thank you. I like being feminine because that's just what I naturally am and I'd rather be myself than fake being someone I'm not. What's the point of faking being masculine when guys still complain about feminine guys who "trick" masc4masc guys into thinking they're masculine but they're feminine in reality and it comes out during the relationship? No one has time for that.

Furthermore this guy is being ridiculous. He's on a board called "Cuteboys" and femboys are considered as such. If he doesn't like femboys, he should go to a different thread post site that caters more to what he likes ("Normal" guys).

>>383532

Oh wow, nice to see you here and yes, so nice to find guys who aren't afraid of an older femguy. And I too, think I look much better at 26 than I did at 19 as well lol

>>383553

Really hate to break it to you man but cute and feminine arent synonyms

>>383551

I'm glad there are at least some alright boys here.

>>383553

>26

Oh. So that's why this is such a touchy subject and you're so defensive about it.

>>383554

I think he's too far into his own delusional world to be reasoned with anymore.

I was going to marry my cuteboy, but then he broke the relationship.

While physical appearance is a thing and I enjoyed his crossdressing and being feminine, I loved him more for who he was than what he looked like or would look like in 10+ years. Hell I'm not at all fantastic to look at. Who he was became infinitely more important to me than what shape his features were in. I know it sounds goofy as hell but as you get older that personality stuff really does matter more.

I have gotten over it, haven't found another since though.

>>383554

>>383566

Feminine traits and being conventionally attractive tend to be highly correlated regardless of gender though

>>383370

So wholesome, Anon! I’m very happy for you

>>384730

I don't know about it makioyou degenerate, but it sure does make it sound like a relationship held together purely by lust, which means it's only a matter of time until it crumbles.

>>384755

Sorry. I'm speaking from experience though.

>>383337

>being gay

>>383390

I hope that we get marriage equality here in the Bahamas as well. Lots of nice and cute black guys who would make great husbandos.

>>384805

Has LGBT acceptance been improved a little bit in the Bahamas at least? I kept hearing it was one of the worst places to be gay in growing up.

>>383432

>26 yo "Barely a young adult"

It seems to me that the patronization and depersonalisation of young people has skyrocketed.

>>383337

I'm a top, but prison gays and chasers you should know the answer is no and that they should kill themselves and no one should ever associate with them.

Anyway, yes, I totally would have married my bf.

>>383481

>>383508

>anon doesn't want a relationship focused around a fetish

>this means the other person has to be dominant if anon isn't being dominant 24/7

What the fuck is wrong with you retards? What kind of fucked up relationship ideals do you have where it's a matter of dom/sub at all times? That should only matter in bed, and even there, well-adjusted people won't make such a massive deal over whether you're fulling some fantasy fetish role at all times or not.

You're both cringy as hell and make it obvious you've never had a real relationship based on love rather than lust.

>>383390

Homosexual union doesn't serve the same purpose as a marriage as far as I can tell. Being married, it certainly doesn't feel like the same type of union nor should it be called as such. The only reason I use the term is because that's what we legally are.

Exclusive top here, yes but mainly because I'm too useless to get a work visa to be with my boy any other way

>>391640

Kind of a pointless thing to say since marriage can represent different things for different couples regardless of their sexuality or genders. It's purpose is largely irrelevant in modern society anyways based on divorce rates and common law/unmarried couples.

>>391629

> I totally would have

Why didn't you, how'd you guys break up?

>>383337

Yes. Having a really cute boyfriend is one thing, but I wouldn't marry a boy because he is cute, but because I like his personality.

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>will slowly degrade overtime and will inevitably transform onto a rugged burly bloke

kill yourself nigger

yeah fuck that i went on hrt. and prevented getting breasts

don't care if u guys think i'm tranny. my husband doesn't mind and is glad that i'm taking measures to age well for him