No.55 [Last50 Posts]
When did you first realise you were a cuckquean or had cuckquean tendencies?
If you are a cuckquean's partner, how did you discover your partner's tendencies?
If you are neither, how did you come to know and enjoy this fetish?
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No.57
I always liked the idea to make my potential girfriend go crazy by not giving her sex so she gets a great lust for my cock.
And fucking a random girl in front of her eyes is the best way to let her see what she misses. Sounds somewhat childish but the idea that my girfriend thinks about that she will never get fucked as hard as the girl I fuck makes me feel.. good in some ways.
Besides that I would really like my gf to see me having rough sex, it's a turn on for me.
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No.60
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Once upon a time, my boyfriend jokingly suggested he'd have to get a mistress. I can't even remember the context. We laughed, that was that.
Except it wasn't, because it stuck in my brain. I found myself thinking more about it, imagining how I'd feel if I knew he was off enjoying some other pretty girl. The answer that I eventually came to was that I felt it was fucking hot.
I'm pretty submissive and I get off in a big way on my boyfriend's pleasure. What I discovered was that it didn't seem to make a difference if he was getting his pleasure from me or not - I still got off on it.
The thoughts became more lewd as time went on. I fantasised about being around the house, taking a bath, cooking dinner - all while loud moans and wet noises were echoing out of our bedroom from my bf fucking another girl.
So yeah, I discovered my cuckquean nature from a throwaway quip.
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No.61
This is reminding me of that one story back on halfchan's /r9k/. There was a girl that said she, her boyfriend, and her female friend were watching a movie together, then she went to go get something. When she came back the two of them were kissing and she told them to stop in a beta way like "st-stop" and then somehow that lead into her friend sucking off her boyfriend's dick right in front of her and then wiping his cum onto her crying face or something. They continually do that kind of thing now and she's said she genuinely believes them both to be good people who only had the best intentions in mind when that happened.
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No.63
>>61I've seen the male equivalent story too, right down to the weak objection. No crying cum-face-wiping though, just him being sent to sleep on the downstairs couch.
>wiping his cum onto her crying faceThat's a little extreme. Honestly, tears would be a turnoff for me.
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No.65
Which aspect in cuckoldery do you like? I mean just to know that your boyfriend has sex with other girls sounds… Boring.
Do you always want to see your bf having sex with other girl? And if so, would you want to implement some other things?
Like roleplaying: your bf pretends you to be his little sister and wants to show you how to have sex.
Are do you like to act as a dog who is only allowed to lick up the rests?
Oh, to licking up, would you like to lick your boyfriends balls when he fucks another girl or even give him a rimjob? Or are you masochistic enough to lick up the crempied pussy of the other girl to have the privelege to taste your boyfriends cum?
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No.66
>>65The leadup, the anticipation, the text I receive from him letting me know he'll be fucking her soon, hearing about it in little drips afterwards… it's anything but boring. If he was just doing it on the side and never spoke of it, yeah - but it's not like that. I've watched him fucking another girl in person before and that was kind of like a roller coaster.
I'd like to lick his balls while he's fucking, maybe. No rimjobs though since I have an aversion to analingus both giving and receiving. No interest in licking the other girl, though I understand why others would find creampie eating hot. It's not really about "privilege" or denial or anything really masochistic to me, just watching my guy be a stud. I fuck his brains out repeatedly afterwards because seeing him fucking is HOT.
Little-sister roleplaying doesn't have any appeal for me since I'm already a little sister and I have zero - ZERO - attraction to my big brother.
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No.98
>>66>I don't like receiving rimjobsAre you gay or something?
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No.101
You know what aspect of this stuff I don't really hear talked about too much? In the same way cuckoldry focuses on the dick being bigger than the cuckold's a lot of the time, I never hear cuckqueanery focus on the girl who isn't the cuckquean having a much tighter pussy. Nobody says anything about cuckqueaning their white girlfriend with a qt asian girl, for example.
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No.102
>>101Oh no, that's definitely a thing. It often focuses on external stuff too like bigger breasts or a better body. The humiliation-driven gals especially like the other woman to have a tighter pussy or bigger boobs.
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No.104
>>101Cuckquean dynamic does have differences from common cuckold dynamic. Often a lot of the difference is in the different kind of sexual threat another woman poses to a woman, as opposed to that a man poses to a man.
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No.108
>>61>They continually do that kind of thing now and she's said she genuinely believes them both to be good peopleHot as it might sound, and even if she got off to it, it doesn't seem like the case since they didn't even ask for her concent and just exploited her meakness.
So sad.
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No.109
>>108I know what you mean. The bf and the girl were kissing before the girlfriend came. Saying
>she genuinely believes them both to be good people who only had the best intentions in mind when that happenedis dumb, she is deniying that her boyfriend betrayed her.
He is an asshole and was Lucky as fuck that his girlfriend was a cuckqueen
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No.112
I'm not sure if this is technically cuckqueaning, but I like the thought of my boyfriend having a second girlfriend. In the fantasy, they'd both act like it was completely normal and I'd just accept it, not get jealous.
Sometimes I imagine he wouldn't have sex with her much, because she isn't as into it as him, so when he wants it and she doesn't he just fucks me. So I'm the mistress, sort of. Or they both have jobs and I act as housewife to both of them.
It's not so much about humiliation and more about lower status. I'm always lower status than the other girlfriend in some way.
I think these fantasies probably show some pretty bad issues I have. Like being so antisocial the only way I can imagine having a genuine female friend is if we're in a relationship triangle together. Or that I want to be able to have a relationship just by offering sex, with someone else providing intellectual companionship.
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No.115
>>112Cucking is the negation of perceived inadequacy by submissively allowing the partner out of the requirement to fulfil all needs from the cuck.
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No.116
>>115Then my fantasy is emotional cucking, where I submissively allow my bf out of fulfilling my emotional needs. The sex is the one thing I'm still good for.
So it's emotional inadequacy. I believe I could provide for him sexually, but I let him get companionship elsewhere.
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No.118
>>108>>109I agree. This is just coercion where the girl rationalised it afterwards. Even if she did enjoy it, they did it without her consent.
You see a nontrivial number of girls who post-rationalise infidelity as "oh I discovered I'm a cuckquean so it's okay". Well yeah, but
he still cheated on you and the cuckquean conclusion is kind of shaky.
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No.122
>>120
I make a fuss of my girl (maybe give her a small gift) after each cucking, just so there can be no doubt she's my number one. Admittedly, I often tell her about how much fun I had while we snuggle and once the small gift was the other girl's panties - but the thought's there, y'know?
But doing those things after a non-consensual cucking that for all intents and purposes came out of nowhere? I'm not a girl so I can't answer but I'd be viewing them with a lot of skepticism and more than a little hurt.
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No.155
>>116This is actually really interesting. It's almost like you want to be your own boyfriend's other woman, which is an inversion of the usual formula. Except the other woman can provide companionship too, but that's splitting hairs.
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No.158
>>155It's still me in the submissive/lower role, because the proper girlfriend is fine with it. He's not fucking me because she's not good enough, but more like because she's too good for it. If he wants sex when she's busy, that's my job. So it's not really being a mistress. It's more like I'm his concubine and she's his wife.
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No.160
>>158>concubineThat's a good way of putting it.
If you wanted extra degradation you could reassign yourself even lower, as an object. His onahole, or cumrag.
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No.161
>>160Sometimes I do imagine that, like I'm just a slave or tool for housework and sex. But usually it's me being housewife to both of them, household assistant to her, and sexual relief to him. Maybe like a maid, except part of the family and relationship too.
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No.162
>>160>>161Oh or like I'm a 1950's housewife and she's a modern wife, so he's got both kinds of relationship at once.
And I imagine my relationship with her is sisterly, but with her in charge.
A touch I like are me not having my own wardrobe but just sharing her clothes. She gets first pick, and then my choice of outfits is what else she has. I can ask them to buy something I like, but if she doesn't like it, too bad.
Another idea is there being a double bed for him and whoever he's sleeping with tonight, and a single bed in the next room for the other. If he wants sex and she's tired, she'll take the single bed and it's my turn in the double. But if she wants sex or they want to cuddle, they have the double.
I like that because it means we're sharing a room/bed, like we're living the same life. But I'd probably rather we both just sleep on either side of him in one big bed.
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No.163
>>161Sounds almost like a pet, only more functional. More working dog than pet.
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No.164
>>162>Another idea is there being a double bed for him and whoever he's sleeping with tonight, and a single bed in the next room for the other. If he wants sex and she's tired, she'll take the single bed and it's my turn in the double. But if she wants sex or they want to cuddle, they have the double.This is doin' things to me.
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No.165
>>163I have that kind of fantasy too, but so far they haven's been the same ones as the three way relationship. Also cat instead of dog.
>>164I wish I could add to it now, but I can't think of anything else do do with that idea.
If there's one big bed for the three of us, then he might fuck me while she lies next to us and reads a book. Then when he's finished he kisses her goodnight and lies down, with me against him. When she's done reading, she lies down on the other side of him and our arms touch as we all three lie together.
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No.166
Not a cucuquean, im a guy, i use to jerk off to cuckold porn sometimes and wondered if the reverse existed were a women gets cucked.
I like to think of myself as a porn astronaut exploring the vast reaches of porn and fetishes.
I will jerk off to basically anything that isnt kids or animals.
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No.167
>>101What i have seen on the rare cuckquean blogs is that sometimes the other women will be sexier and better looking, like a bimbo type, while the cuckquean will look plain or ugly or fat.
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No.169
I discovered and confirmed my girl's cuckqueanishness in a series of experiments but the initial spark that it lead from was simpler.
One day I was fucking her bareback for a little before I put on a condom. I pushed myself forward and over her, opened a bedside drawer and started rifling through the stuff within, looking for the last condom we had while still nonchalantly slamming her into the mattress.
It took a little while to find it but once I did and returned to looking at her I noticed that she was redder and breathing much more heavily than usual. It felt surprisingly good, she said, to be ignored while being fucked.
We were both surprised but wasted no time. I blindfolded her and browsed delicious 2D porn on the laptop while she wrapped her legs around me and did her level best to be the greatest onahole ever.
That tendency was the spark that eventually illuminated her cuckquean nature, deeper down.
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No.170
>>169That's simply submissiveness or using yourself as toy. Cucking means she's turned on by you fucking others.
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No.171
>>167For me,
>>165, my fantasy is that I'm the sluttier one, while the other girl is smarter and better at other things. She's flatter, more professional, etc. But that doesn't she's plain or unattractive, just that she can do other things and I can't, so sex is my job.
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No.172
>>170No shit, son. Hence:
>That tendency was the spark that eventually illuminated her cuckquean nature, deeper down.That wasn't the discovery of her cuckqueanishness, but it was what
lead to it. Don't be teaching others to suck eggs.
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No.254
>>112Look into polyamory. You might just be polyamorous. It's a thing.
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No.255
>>254I think it's polyamory coupled with submissiveness. Getting to submit to two people. But there's a similarity to cuckqueaning, despite the difference.
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No.256
>>255Strangely, I agree. I think it's because
having the fantasy is cuckqueany, even if the situation fantasised about is poly.
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No.413
>>166>I like to think of myself as a porn astronaut exploring the vast reaches of porn and fetishes.you should listen to the song "rocket man" while you jerk off and yell "IM A ROCKET MAAAAAAAAAAN" in sync with the song when you cum
just an idea
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No.416
>>166>I like to think of myself as a porn astronaut exploring the vast reaches of porn and fetishesDamn nofap faggots stealing the term fapstronaut from having a proper use.
Roughly the same reason why I'm here on this board as well.
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No.434
I'm not a a cuckquean— I've just always wanted to be "the other woman", I guess. I wasn't ever interested in being the woman in the traditional cuckold scenario, but when I first learned about this, I was all in. It's super fucked up. I get a lot of satisfaction knowing that guys with girlfriends are attracted to me and knowing that I'm better looking (or maybe just better) than my ex's partners.
I get off on being a little dominant with a guy. Making him blatantly lie to her so he can meet with me, leaving marks that he'd show off or have a hard time hiding. Have him come home nightly, lipstick and perfume on his collar and all.. I think I'd want to seduce a man and get him to worship me. Have all of that looming over his girlfriend… I like the attention. Maybe I'm selfish.
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No.474
>>118Nah, that's bullshit. She needs to get involved and be a good cuckqueen.
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No.477
>If you are a cuckquean's partner, how did you discover your partner's tendencies?
My new girlfriend kept insisting she'd do anything I wanted sexually, but I never really took her up on it, just "aw thanks, that's so nice" etc. She'd say it a lot though.
One night before I went to her house for a party, she texted me
>would you ever sleep with someone else?
When I said no, she replied:
>what if i wanted you to
Which was awesome, because it was pretty clear this was not the 'what if' situation she'd made it out to be.
That night she introduced me to a friend of hers from college, who was crashing on the cough that night. Very pretty.
Once everyone leaves and we go to bed, she asked:
>so what'd you think of so-and-so
I said she was cool, very funny
>you should go check on her
So I fucked my girlfriend's friend on the basement floor. When I went back to bed, my girlfriend rolled over, felt my soft clammy dick, said "good", and rolled back over to go to sleep.
It was fucking awesome.
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No.479
>>477>When I went back to bed, my girlfriend rolled over, felt my soft clammy dick, said "good", and rolled back over to go to sleep.Aww, that's such an adorable moment.
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No.508
>>166Same here. I jerked off to the strangest and most disgusting things on the internet, things I`m ashamed of even to type here. But in real life, I`m fucking vanilla. Even anal isn`t an obssession of mine. My gf is not very welcoming of the idea, but when I want I it, I can have it.
I love the idea of her letting me fuck other girls, but when push comes to shove, I feel very guilty about pushing for it to happen. I don`t know why. Even with the fact that she likes the idea, in my mind it`s very unfair to her.
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No.521
>>508I think it's a good thing to be apprehensive about it. It means you're being careful not to push her in a direction she doesn't want to go. I see people occasionally ask how they can "train" or "make" a cuckquean and I think that gets into some hugely questionable ethical territory unless the girl has asked to be trained or made that way or otherwise given over all control of how she is to be.
But if you're feeling guilty over comparison to some abstract, higher "fairness" then don't. What your girl wants is what your girl wants and especially in BDSM/kinky relationships that's often the exact opposite of "fair".
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No.569
So do you think cuckqueaning is compatible with being in a polygynous relationship?
Would you have to have only cuckqueans who get off on the others being fucked in turn?
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No.572
>>166>I like to think of myself as a porn astronaut Disclaimer: this post and the subject matter and contents thereof - text, media, or otherwise - do not necessarily reflect the views of the 8kun administration.
No.582
>>569I would consider them compatible but not necessary. Lots of different ways for relationships with 3+ people to work.
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No.600
>>582Agreed. A cuckquean would fit right into most poly mixes, but they'd be compatible with the presence of non-cuckquean poly girls.
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No.2408
I've always liked watching and I have a huge fetish for being protected and treated as helpless. These two things combine in a really twisted way to make me feel warm and tingly when I watch my husband getting his rocks off with another gal, I can't explain it well.
As for how I came to it? My husband's just naturally really flirty. His confidence is part of what attracted me to him in the first place. One evening, I was laughing along as he worked his usual magic on a girl we'd just met and suddenly it just snapped into place in my mind that I wouldn't mind it at all if he went all the way with her. I didn't even know the cuckqueaning term until very recently.
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No.2421
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No.4462
So last night my partner straight up said that she wanted to watch me fuck other girls, no room for misunderstanding, it was quite clear.
But how do I go about this? What did you all do in the beginning when you were "getting started"?
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No.4463
>>4462
That's refreshing. I was fearing we'd get another "how2 maek girl cuckquean?" question any day now. Go tell your girl she's a gem.
As for how to get other girls to bed? Start slow. How sure is your girl that she wants to do it? I'm going to assume pretty sure. Mine was sure too, but we still took it slow at first. The way we did it was that we very gradually ramped it up. First she fantasised a lot while I stroked myself beside her and moaned. Then I went off and got blowjovs from other girls, each time keeping her as updated as I could and letting her cool down and process it for a few days after each encounter (after we damn near broke the bed right after I got back of course). Then I seduced one of her friends who we already knew was hot for a threesome with us, except rather than a FMF threesome as the friend imagined it was me fucking her for a few hours while my girlfriend watched (turned out the friend liked that much better).
The important thing during this process was that we talked the fuck out of it. We were open and direct with each other about what we felt, doubts, excitement, contingency plans, et cetera.
After that we were sure of it enough to make it an ongoing arrangement without limit so I developed some BDSM play partnerships and vanilla FWBs. Where you source your vixens from will greatly depend on your own circumstances, style, tastes and the circles you move in.
The thing you want to find out is what about this idea your partner finds hot and what you find hot. My quean, for example, doesn't need to be present and really likes wheedling details out of me when I return. She also appreciates it when, crude as it sounds, I make an effort to leave traces of the other girl on my cock so she can clean me off as she 'reclaims' me.
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No.4465
>>4463
Thanks for the quick response.
I don't think I want to advance it much further just yet, I think simply exploring the fantasy a little is a good start, I'd like to find out how she imagines it, what about it excites her and her feelings on it etc.
What I did manage to learn from her is that her prior fantasies of it have included girls that are "opposite" to her physically, tall blondes with large breasts etc, but so far that and that she would like to watch, is all I know.
I'll make sure to maintain openness and discussion about it with her though as you say.
Thanks for your insight, its much appreciated.
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No.4466
>>4462
>>4463
>>4465
It's always nice to have some reasonable stories of communication and cooperation. Exploring new fetishes safely in a relationship is something to cherish, but it takes extra care when any third parties get involved. Also, this bumped the >>2421 pornstronaut, which is hilarious.
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No.4467
>>4465
One thing you might discover as you experiment is to what degree she's a humiliation-driven or compersive cuckquean and how those elements interact. There's plenty of discussion throughout the board about the distinction between the two, so here's a basic primer. Humiliation-driven 'queans experience cuckqueaning from the perspective of emotional masochism, and so get off on things like being unfavourably compared to the vixens, threatened with their man being stolen, submitting to the vixens, as well as other things that register as degrading in connection with their men sleeping with other girls. Compersive 'queans get off on how good their man is feeling, the opportunity for him to experience a wide variety of pussy, how hot he looks/sounds while fucking, the extra virility he displays after having sex with vixens, etc. The compersive vs. humiliation spectrum doesn't tell the whole story, but it's a useful top-level category to help understand her.
Be attentive also to other sub-fetishes attached to her desire. For example, occasional 'queans actually have a cheating fetish too, which means they fetishise secrets and being "ambushed". Mine has a strong scent fetish and spends ages just huffing my chest and groin after I come back from cucking her. Another I saw here has a domestic service fetish mixed in and likes showing hospitality to vixens as a sign of submission to her man. Creampie eating and cleanup is something you see a lot turn up in porn, but in my personal experience it's not as common among cuckqueans as you'd expect.
A good exercise during this phase is to ask her to point out good-looking women to you when you're out in public together. When she does, show appreciation and be specific about what you like about the girl she's pointed out - then ask why she pointed her out. If you're both comfortable with it and won't be overhears, you can even leapfrog into little dirty swaps of what she imagines you doing to the girl, what you'd like to do. This has a lot of benefits including deepening the bond between you, building comfort, bedding down cuckqueaning as something you two do together, learning about each others' preferences for vixens, signalling any recurring elements of fantasy, etc. Keep it spontaneous and playful here! You never want cuckqueaning to feel like work.
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No.4481
>>4467
I think my girl is definitely on the compersive side, she has previously mentioned that she likes watching me and similar things regarding sounds, saying things like i deserve to feel good, etc.
I wasn't aware such a distinction existed though, so thanks for explaining that.
and it is funny that you mention that, as some things in public are what lead me to consider the possibility of her being interested in this in the first place. When we go to resturants, while we wait for our food she often points to waitresses and asks me how spankable I think they are (spanking is a big thing for her).
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No.4484
>>4481
What you describe sounds like a compersive dynamic. I was a bit more shy when I first brought the topic up with my boyfriend, but seems to me like she's taken the time to really make herself comfortable with the fetish before bringing it up directly to you, you both already have a good sexual rapport going along these lines and you've taken a responsible attitude towards exploring it. All of these things are very, very good!
Queries about waitress spankability are also a strong corroboration, especially since it's something she really likes. I tend to point out nice legs and butts to my boyfriend because I know he really likes them, plus sometimes I ask him to speculate on what kind of underwear girls are wearing. It's got to the point where I don't even have to ask verbally anymore, I can just do it with my eyes and he'll understand. You will probably find yourselves developing similar little rituals and signs, which are especially important during the act itself.
This is going to be a very exciting time for you both, so keep your head and good luck! Let us know how it's going or when you need more advice. If you're both comfortable with it you could get her on here too.
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No.4489
>>4484
I'm not sure on how much thought she has given to the fetish specifically, I doubt she knows what its name is and such. Not that it matters I suppose, but I do wonder on how developed her feelings are on the matter.
Oh I forgot, the strongest evidence I had until this point was that she became very excited when she realised that I enjoyed hearing how she had more than once bragged to her female friends about various things regarding me and our activities in the bed, she started doing it more and telling me about their reactions while she would perform acts on me.
If you don't mind me asking, how is the emotional aspect of it for you? My biggest concern is that (should we ever decide to take it beyond just a fantasy) emotionally she would find it too hard to handle.
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No.4501
>>4489
>If you don't mind me asking, how is the emotional aspect of it for you? My biggest concern is that (should we ever decide to take it beyond just a fantasy) emotionally she would find it too hard to handle.
The emotional aspect was my biggest concern too. I wanted it and I was pretty sure I could handle it, but I also knew that emotions have a way of not doing what you expect. Even being conscious of that helped because both my boyfriend and I were being careful about it.
While he's cucking me I feel a whirlwind of emotions. It's like they're all coming so thick and fast I can't really feel them properly so they sort of pump around in this heady rush of excitement. A lot of queans online describe it as a roller coaster and I think that's apt. You know when you're really worried about something and your mind makes up all kinds of feverish possibilities even though they're dumb? It's like that except sexual and positive.
For me, the really important thing is the before and after. It's really important to me that he keeps me updated on what's happening logistically. Once, his phone ran out of battery overnight and he was later back in the morning than he expected because of train trouble. I felt really upset and abandoned even though I knew it was silly and when he finally arrived home I was a bit of a mess and needed lots of cuddling. He always carries a backup battery now. On the other hand, when he sends me messages about when he's about to get private with his vixens and is about to go silent I love it because it means he's thinking about me too. I also insist that he doesn't bring vixens to our home; lots of queans get a thrill out of their beds being used but I feel squicky about the whole thing for some reason. There are other things we do, but I think my point is made.
We developed these little protocols by trial and error because we were aware of the need to do so. I kept watch on myself and didn't freak out if I felt bad, and he paid attention as soon as I said something was up and we talked about it to figure out what was going on and what we could do.
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No.4502
>>4489
>>4501
Oh! One other thing I should mention is the emotions of the vixens. It's often overlooked in these discussions but they have feelings and needs too. I don't know as much about that because it's my boyfriend's domain but from what he's said he is careful to make sure they don't feel like disposable sex toys for us (unless they're into that), nor do they feel pressured into acting or being a certain way for my distant benefit. He's also careful to never lead them on or give them expectations of a romantic relationship or anything like that, even if they don't know about me. He seems pretty good at doing that while still keeping a warm and comfortable sexual rapport with them, though I don't know the details of how.
You will be the enforcer of your relationship's boundaries. More than many other fetishes, cuckqueaning rests upon integrity and firm attention. You have to be doubly careful not to stick your dick in crazy, for example.
I think you're already comfortable with being responsible, which is why you're here asking questions in the first place.
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No.4524
>>4501
>>4502
Cool, thanks for the insight, I think I have a lot to think about too now for it. At the very least it has certainly made me concientous of things I hadn't thought of prior.
We have a great relationship together, if we can openly discuss this with one another I don't think there is much we can't. She knows for a fact (as do I) that I have no romantic interest in other girls. I have noticed that the "type" of girl she imagines me with is always very different to her, different height, hair colour, etc. I wonder if that has more to do with it being exciting to her, or a precaution against the possibility of me developing feelings due to the similiarty.
Speaking of which, its probably more your boyfriend's domain again, but how do you / him usually go about finding other girls? Neither myself nor my girlfriend are particularly interested in going to places like bars / clubs.
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No.4528
>>4524
We find bars and clubs to be pretty poor places to find vixens. Aside from neither of us actually enjoying such places, the girls that inhabit them are of the… unsatisfying type. If my boyfriend doesn't actually enjoy the girl, he won't enjoy the sex, so the cucking isn't enjoyable for me and leaves a really nasty aftertaste for both of us. Blegh.
Places we've had success so far are OKCupid, interest-based social meetups, fetish munches, Tinder (very low strike rate though), friends. Basically anywhere there are girls of the type you'd like to fuck and who'd like to fuck you. Experience tells me there's absolutely zero point in you seeking to sleep with girls you don't like just so you can cuck your girlfriend because then nobody has fun.
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No.4529
>>4528
Sounds like you just described the "fast food" of the cuck world there. Ultimately unsatisfying and probably bad for you.
I think I'll have to discuss it further with my gf before I start thinking more about where to find vixens, I get the feeling that she would like to be more involved in the selection process, given that watching me in the act seems to be a big part of it for her.
Though now that I think about it, I do wonder how many girls would get cold feet upon being told / discovering the arrangement.
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No.4549
>>4529
A fair few do. The kinky ones mind much less.
>I get the feeling that she would like to be more involved in the selection process, given that watching me in the act seems to be a big part of it for her.
This will help a lot. If watching is a huge part of it for her, she'll need to be involved from the start when you're finding and filtering girls. Having her around makes it clear up-front that she exists and that she'll be involved, not to mention making you more attractive for already having a girl.
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No.4555
>>4549
>>4529
So this weekend I spent some time with her discussing it, mostly talking about what 'types' of girls she wants me to fantasize about being with and having her tell me about the fantasies she has of me with them. It seems to be going well and we're both enjoying it so far it would seem!
It eventually culimated in her telling me to imagine I was fucking one of the girls we talked about while I was in the act with her (my gf), she remarked after at how much I had came.
This is probably super tame by the standards of many on this board, but it is early days for us, and I wanted to share anyway, the board seems sorta slow anyhow.
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No.4556
>>4555 (checked)
Cuckqueaning isn't a race. The fantasising during sex thing is something my gf did too when she had first acknowledged the fetish and we were starting out exploring it. I remember after one time she rolled onto her side and exclaimed
>Fuck, there's got to be something wrong with me, even the thought is enough to get me off now.
Sounds like you two are going well.
Here's a tip. Lots of cuckqueans eventually find themselves fantasising about being under the vixen and looking up to where their man is fucking said vixen from behind. I found that I could tease my gf with this fantasy by lying her on her back, kneeling astride her face and fucking her tits. She has a great time kissing and licking my balls, and occasionally I pull myself back and let her 'clean' off my cock.
As it turned out, this was great practice for actually doing it. Your gf and you slipping into a position with practiced ease then slotting the vixen into place means everyone - especially the vixen - gets to have a much better time.
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No.5049
>>4529
>Sounds like you just described the "fast food" of the cuck world there. Ultimately unsatisfying and probably bad for you.
Can't agree with this enough. Never, never, never go for a cheap fuck or a crazy or any girl you wouldn't want to fuck otherwise just because you want to give your cuckquean a cucking. You won't have fun and your cuckquean won't have fun either.
When the vixens are good, you fucking them gets three people off. When they're bad, you've got twice as many mouths to wash the bad aftertaste out of. Cuck your quean responsibly!
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No.10765
I am happily gradually showing my girl she's a cuckquean. Right from the beginning she's been showing signs and I'm 99% certain. Only thing left to do is get a vixen.
Signs:
When I started seeing her she said she's not interested in seeing more than one guy but she's more than okay with both of us seeing other girls. It's to the point where she gets legitimately happy when I tell her about other girls I'm dating. She definitely has some compersion.
She also has some voyeuristic tendencies. One night she let slip that she enjoys watching me eat, then asked if I thought that was weird. (Of course not) The other night we had a dinner date and I joked "Now you can watch me eat." She blushed and said "I keep forgetting I told you about that."
Once I jokingly referred to myself as the /biz/ term "wagecuck" when I had to go to work. She didn't know what a cuck was. I explained it to her and said "It's disgusting. I much prefer the opposite." She paused a second and said "You fucking a random girl while the wife watches?" I said yes. She said "Ohh. Yeah." Her tone sounded like "Well yeah of course that's better." Then I said "that's called a cuckquean, spelled E-A" in case she wanted to look it up, then changed the subject.
She's also extremely submissive.
Anyway, thanks /cuckquean/ and wish me luck. I have high hopes for this girl.
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No.10767
>>10765
>wagecuck
Truly the lowest of the low! I hope one day you can graduate to either NEET or CEO/Company Director master race. But seriously, that is hilarious. Who would have thought that would lead to such a conversation.
>wish me luck
Good luck anon.
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No.10871
>>10767
>>10765
>mfw hubee is a wagecuck
>mfw he claims he only does that for me, our dog, our future children and japanese maid
>mfw he tries to reassure me this isn't going to be forever and he will eventually make enough money to make his own buziness
>mfw when this bothers me but I must be supportive of him like a good cucky
P-people change, don't they?… ;_;
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No.10873
>>10871
You really need two people to start a business otherwise it's too much stress. It also depends a lot on the country. In the UK there is barely any paperwork, in fact none for quite a while if it starts off small. In the US there can be a lot more. There are really two types of people who start businesses: those smart enough to and those stupid enough to. Because almost nobody in the middle would even try something that daring (when do they actually do it? tomorrow? next week?) there are considerable gaps and niches almost everywhere. It's also the explanation as to why many businesses are so terrible: often they are led by literally the stupidest and most reckless people in the country. That doesn't mean they don't make money though.
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No.10905
>>10873
>often they are led by literally the stupidest and most reckless people in the country
This is very true. It often happens that such businesses survive a) by accident and/or b) by virtue of having better subordinates who then find themselves desperately trying to keep their competence-draining boss away from anything important. Such businesses usually stay chronically small, with the frustrated and inept owner completely unable to perceive why their trying to play-act as a tycoon (cargo-culting) results in nothing but chronic mediocrity. Others hit a rich enough niche that even their own incompetence is not a big enough obstacle, until their undeserved self-image is eventually shattered by the entrance of a better competitor. Even this doesn't make them learn.
>>10871
If he isn't side-hustling something or preparing himself for the switch by self-educating, he needs to start. Wagecuckery ensnares: You spend your life having your energy drained for someone else's benefit, and the low energy encourages you to think of independence as something that will happen "later". Tragedy is a 45-year-old wagecuck blowing their meagre nest egg on some shitty worn-out business non-idea because they suddenly woke up from the wagecoma, panicked, and groped at something that looked like independence.
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No.10916
>>10905
Never being able to delegate or believing they have to do everything themselves is a very typical error for a small business. One excuse is not having time to train new people, another is relying only on family and never having to become professional about it. People in families can end up treating each other like garbage in a business because there is no moderating influence of professional conduct.
There are some advantages of being older in business like having more experience with people and possibly garnering more respect. People are wary of placing too much responsibility, trust or risk in a younger person's hands. Overall though I agree with you. Unfortunately people do tend to have terrible ideas for so-called lifestyle business like opening a sandwich shop or something zany like selling garden gnomes door to door. Another mistake can be buying into some franchise or scheme that's basically a con.
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No.10917
>>10905
>b) by virtue of having better subordinates who then find themselves desperately trying to keep their competence-draining boss away from anything important
You just described my sisters's boss.
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No.10918
>>10917
It's often referred to as fire fighting. The fires started by reckless or ego-driven decisions.
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No.10977
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>>10765
I just messaged her and told her I had a threesome while the pipe strip video played in the background, then went to the bathroom and couldn't stop laughing. I think most girls would freak out at this info, but she just said
>LMFAOOO
>Lol
>ur funny omg
I like her.
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