239b21 No.851794
How can I respect the fourth commandment if my father commits domestic violence against my mother?
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4ca501 No.851795
>>851794
You can honor it by getting her to get out. A major thing that has been forgotten with choosing spouses, is that there
SHOULD be a period of courtship, when they try to size other up (1 year) The best way is to confront them both…calmly (hopefully and talk it out) If he gets violent you are right to defend yourself
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239b21 No.851796
>>851795
I don't know what I can or cannot do. I got psychological and legal assistance for my mother but it is a long process until she leaves home. Also, I constantly fight with my dad.
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b7a894 No.851799
>>851796
Matthew 5:30
>And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
Like the other anon said, get her out. Get yourself out. Hopefully your father eventually sees the error of his ways
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60c71e No.851806
That is an extremely hard question and situation. I'm praying for you.
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c105a0 No.851807
Reminder that organized discipline of a woman such as spanking is often beneficial, in contrast to a man getting drunk or losing control and causing reckless injury regardless of whether a woman would benefit from discipline.
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60c71e No.851808
>>851807
If you intend to get married you had better tell your suitor well in advance that you intend to use corporal punishment against her. This will have the positive effect of making sure no woman marries you.
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239b21 No.851809
>>851806
Thank you!
>>851807
In my case, my mother brings financial support for the house. My father lived for a long time with her money. Now she wants to end the relationship and he doesn't want to lose the financial source. Clearly he is a coward.
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239b21 No.851810
>>851809
I don't want to focus on the psychological problem, but on the religious conflict. In the fact that there are a lot of bad people around you and you need to deal with it. I believe that many people suffer from it and that's why I created the post.
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c105a0 No.851813
>>851808
That's not true. Ill-behaved women feel better when they are punished because they know they deserve it. Good girls will stay away, but they wouldn't be punished anyway.
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60c71e No.851814
>>851813
Let me rephrase then and urge you to share your views on every first date
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c105a0 No.851816
>>851814
You wouldn't wear an outdated outfit either. Discipline is something that fell out of style except in fetish communities. Even if a hairstyle or attire looks good, if it's dated, then you look like a clown.
Do you share intimate details on first dates too?
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0d4e86 No.851827
respect him as a man who is held accountable by God for his wife, and having renounced that duty, must be held accountable to the State which is the sword by which God chastens and chastises all who go off into their deeds of lawlessness
basically, you shop him to the popo and let God deal with him in the prescribed manner
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0d4e86 No.851828
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91e204 No.851841
>>851807
>Reminder that organized discipline of a woman such as spanking is often beneficial
[Scriptural or patristic citation needed]
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4ca501 No.851875
>>851796
the best thing I think you can do for your father as >>851799 said, let him wake up to what he has thrown away.
Let me tell you story. I have an older cousin who was once married. His wife left him and he ended up taking up drinking. He quit his job and drank away his savings. Finally he ran out of money and he is now getting up on his feet. Your father may possibly benefit from it, otherwise you are enabling him. Cut off the purse strings, and he will have to face the music, and either repent and make amends, or break off. Sometimes, people only wake up when they hit rock bottom.
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4ca501 No.851876
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000000 No.851885
>>851794
You don't respect your father because he is a good man. You don't respect him because he is an educated man. You respect him because God has placed him above you. How he behaves in that position is a different matter. The fact that your father abuses his power doesn't negate the honour due to him nor does it imply that one should condone their father's sins. It simply means that, in your life, he has a status deserving of reverence due to the simple fact that he is your father.
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32f3a5 No.851892
>>851841
He who spares the rod hates his son. I assume the same goes for your wife.
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0cc6eb No.852070
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