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5ad072  No.848420

How can I reject a casual advance without lying or exposing that I'm waiting for marriage? I worry about secular persecution.

Apologies for the image. I didn't know what to put.

>inb4 hypothetical

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3b4780  No.848426

>>848420

>exposing that I'm waiting for marriage

What's wrong with that?

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5beb63  No.848432

>>848420

??

sounds like win/win. You don't want the fornicators.

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5ad072  No.848441

>>848426

>>848432

As I said, I worry about secular persecution. Any tips on a line?

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000000  No.848442

If you're a women then just play hard to get and be clearly distant in that area. If you're a guy it should be easier since you're initiating the advances most of the time, and get to decide what happens. Just say no to advances or that you want to take things slow..

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72139d  No.848444

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>>848420

Just say no lmao what is she gonna do rape you or something

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c5671a  No.848449

>>848441

>As I said, I worry about secular persecution

Man, how far the mighty have fallen. I'd love some persecution at this stage in the eschaton

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5beb63  No.848463

>>848441

Tips on secular persecution? This is the era of #metoo. You can persecute them back for unwanted sexual advance.

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29f80d  No.848468

Just be honest and open about it. Look at being persecuted for waiting for marriage as a blessing, instead of a curse. If that person is genuine, they will respect it and your boundaries. One thing is for sure, you will find out quickly, whether they are the right one or not.

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5ad072  No.848491

So the unanimous advice is to just say I'm chaste regardless of consequence?

You know, I don't mind that most people find it funny when I tell them, but I sometimes have gotten the feeling that I'm seen as flaunting my "virtues". I'm already too proud and at constant risk of arrogance, so I thought maybe I should find a way to be quieter about these things.

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7d39e5  No.848670

>>848491

Ok, then don't say you're chaste. Don't say anything, be unfazed.

You're talking idly from insecurity, you know what to do.

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a3d423  No.848680

Judging by your choice of picture and fear of being approached, I'll assume you're a lass OP. Just tell them you're "not interested in hook-ups"; most men will give up and move on, and framing the issue as being "hook-up culture" rather than chastity should allow you to fly under the radar. Most people above the age of 25 hate hook-up culture, including those who engage in it.

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73dbf4  No.848715

>>848670

Can't argue with that.

>>848680

Thank you. I'm a man, though.

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a3d423  No.848719

>>848715

Ah, my bad. My advice still applies nevertheless; I've used the "not into hook-ups" line a couple of times on women who wouldn't take a simple "no" for an answer, and it works just fine.

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