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http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/divorce-and-infidelity/pornography-and-virtual-infidelity/stages-of-porn-addiction
It describes five stages of porn addiction, the final one being acting out sexually in the real world. Has anyone here gotten to that point?
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▶ No.7763>>7786
>>7759 (OP)
>It describes five stages of porn addiction, the final one being acting out sexually in the real world. Has anyone here gotten to that point?
>the final one being acting out sexually in the real world
>Has anyone here gotten to that point?
I laughed so fucking hard at this part. Most people here have never gotten to this point at any moment in their lives. Now excuse me while I wipe the tears from my eyes.
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▶ No.7768
I think that porn had such a hold over me that I didn't need to act out sexually in the real world. Throughout high school I was masturbating every night for at least an hour. I would sometimes even fap in the mornings before school started, too, so I was probably too sexually exhausted to even be aroused by the girls at school, much less "act out my sexual desires". That, and I had some social anxiety at school too; I trained myself not to check out the girls even though 99% of them wore tight leggings because I didn't want to be caught by one and be known as a creep or whatever.
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▶ No.7786>>7962
>>7763
i meant like doing anything sexually inappropriate, even just saying a lewd thing to a woman
Take the cock out of your ass, fam
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▶ No.7962
>>7786
Yeah, I think this is referring to stuff like those weird guys who masturbate in public or try to sneak up on girls and cum on them without them knowing.
I saw a compilation of this sort of behavior on efukt.
Essentially once you've become so overexposed to porn that it no longer does it for you, you might do some really weird shit in the real world. It doesn't mean if you watch too much porn you're going to start getting laid.
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▶ No.7968>>7975 >>7980
>>7759 (OP)
>that website
kek
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▶ No.7975>>8008
>>7968
Unfortunately, a lot of nofap sites are SJW / reddit tier.
I like to think most people here are doing nofap to improve themselves and not to try to impress some blue haired feminist skank.
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▶ No.7980>>7983
>>7968
what's your problem with it
are you going to deny that porn objectifies women?
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▶ No.7983>>7985 >>8007
>>7980
Well first off, I'm into femdom.
Second off, I highly doubt anyone watches porn of a woman getting raped and thinks to themselves "hmm, maybe women really do like rape!"
It's porn, everyone knows it's bullshit. The only thing I ever "learned" from porn is a bunch of sex positions that are awful when put into practice.
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▶ No.7985>>7987
>>7983
I agree the last one is rather questionable but the others are good
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▶ No.7987>>7995
>>7985
All of them are shit. Porn doesn't "teach" you any of this shit. Nigger culture does. Porn capitalizes on these attitudes.
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▶ No.7995>>7996
>>7987
well I would say that when I was watching porn and I would look at women I would pay most attention to their sex appeal, and even objectifying somewhat and subconsciously thinking that their problems and thought processes are not as deep as men's.
Also I don't get why you're defending porn when it's clearly ruined your life, otherwise you wouldn't be here
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▶ No.7996>>7998
>>7995
>when I was watching porn and I would look at women I would pay most attention to their sex appeal, and even objectifying somewhat and subconsciously thinking that their problems and thought processes are not as deep as men's.
You understand that's bullshit, correct?
Then you can just not think that.
>I don't get why you're defending porn when it's clearly ruined your life,
"I don't get why you're defending women when one ruined your life." See the problem with such an argument? Then you see the problem with yours.
> otherwise you wouldn't be here
tbh, I was just curious as to how a whole board could exist on this subject.
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▶ No.7998
>>7996
the difference between porn and a relationship is porn is completely and without benefits beyond momentary comfort.
And the reason there is an entire board on this subject is that most people are like you and are dismissive of our beliefs so we have to find a place to meet.
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▶ No.8000>>8001
>>7997
>I have never experienced it therefore you are a liar
i was saying "their problems and thought processes are not as deep as men's." was bullshit. My point was "you know it's wrong so stop thinking it."
>the difference between porn and a relationship is porn is completely and utterly without benefits beyond momentary comfort
Non sequitur. I wasn't comparing relationships to porn. Replace "women" with literally any other noun and the meaning stays the same. The reason your argument was shit is that you are basically advocating for anecdotes to be the sole basis of forming your opinion on things.
Let's say porn did "ruin my life," does that change the validity of anything I said? Of course not.
>the reason there is an entire board on this subject is that most people are like you and are dismissive of our beliefs so we have to find a place to meet.
It's just that this is such a specific subject that I didn't see much capacity for discussion here.
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▶ No.8001>>8002
>>8000
its not anecdotes its science.
and you know where to find it herdsman
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▶ No.8002>>8017 >>8018
>>8001
Science wasn't your argument. Your argument was that if porn ruined my life I should never defend it.
If you got some science, then drop some science.
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▶ No.8007
>>7983
should have seen the comments from mudslimes. they totally believe it and often act out that way in reality
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▶ No.8008>>8010
>>7975
yeah. im also pissed about that direction
>its about women
women
women
women
fuck men and their feelings and problems amirite?
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▶ No.8009
I would love to see someone in MSM point out that romance movies and now the fucking 50 shades mania is same thing as porn just that is for women.
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▶ No.8010
>>8008
>fuck men and their feelings and problems amirite?
Yes, now stop being a whiny little bitch.
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▶ No.8016
it is a joke that u nofappers are defending the pro porn shill just because he's an MRA
which btw is no better, it's literally just feminism for men
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▶ No.8017
>>8002
so?
if a guy had nothing but issues with women for 7 years straight I would advise him to just stop dating if it's making him that miserable
but here's some scientific information http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rewire-your-brain-using-ocd-neuroscience
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▶ No.8018>>8026
>>8002 what's most important is that porn weakens the dopamine receptors to rewards that aren't porno
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▶ No.8026
>>8018
also porn is a lot more powerful than other stimuli
this is what pro porn people don't get
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▶ No.9298>>9336
for about the last 3 months,I have started making plans about how would it be if I were to kidnap a child,imprison her and raise her under imprison as my sex slave,but I haven't acted on it since I neither have the finances or the location for such a thing,if I did I probably still wouldn't,but maybe if I keep fapping I might in the future.Also there were a few times I thought about killing someone while I was having intercourse with her.
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▶ No.9336>>9339
>>9298
Seek professional help.
>>>/mental/
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▶ No.9339
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▶ No.9342
>>7759 (OP)
guys you know how to jerk off with other people being present in the room? you go to the toilet jerk off to the point of almost coming, then you set up your cock in such a way that you can hold and clench it with your hand in your pocket, and end the job sitting across the table looking right at her face and tits. also works awesome if youre for example showing her something on the computer, smell her and look right into her tits while you come, much better than any porn whatsoever.
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