/mai/ - Waifu

NOW WITH THE TYPES OF PORN:

>Ecchi

I enjoy ecchi of Flandre because it’s really sensual, sometimes even seductive, and it leaves room for my imagination to imagine the rest from there.

>Full nudity, but without sex

It’s arguably a form of frontier material between ecchi and hentai. Like ecchi, it leaves room for my imagination to imagine the rest from there. It’s also the best material to nourish my desire for her body.

>Self-stimulation

This is something that I have seen more in dōjinshi than simple pictures (like the ones found on boorus) for some reasons. I like material depicting Flandre pleasuring herself as watching her do so is something I would really enjoy to do IRL. I think it would be a sweet and quite intimate experience.

>Sex with a single faceless man

I like such material as it provides a good way to self-insert. Sometimes the guy is not faceless but he has no identity and no personality whatsoever so self-insert is pretty easy too.

>Sex with s single other character (shipping porn)

Most of such material I’ve seen show Flandre with either Remilia, Koishi, Meiling or Rumia. While obviously way harder to self-insert (especially for a touhoubro as almost all characters are females), I can also find some enjoyment with this type of material but generally less than with faceless men. I know some waifuists appear to feel some sort of jealousy with such material but I don’t. Like I said earlier, I know it’s not real, it’s not canon, it’s no more real than some crappy shit drawn with MS Paint. For me such material has nothing to do with cuckoldry (the same way that I don’t consider to be cheating on Flandre for simply masturbating to the picture of another character).

>Sex with many faceless men or many characters at once

Once again, I have no problem with that as it’s not real. I would be lying if I said that I never had a single group sex fantasy in my life, so such material can allow to satisfy this fantasy.

>Very specific types (please don’t elaborate in details on subjects breaking rule 5; just remain factual and be straight to the point)

The only types of porn of Flandre that I profoundly dislike are the ones involving any kind of coercion, violence or harm (such as rape porn, ryona and guro). I don’t want to see my precious Flandre being hurt, even if the material is not real. Fortunately, I’ve barely seen any of such material involving her. Other than that, I dislike scat and zoophilia stuff, but I don’t even remember having seen any of these involving Flandre. I also don’t like porn with blacks.

I definitely like feet stuff though; I even have a whole folder of it. But what I like the most is definitely porn material depicting love and passion. Sexual fantasies are so much more special when they not simply serve to empty your balls but also to nourish your heart.

Generally speaking, I enjoy porn of Ruby. I see nothing wrong with enjoying my wife sexually; as OP says it helps me connect with her and gets my imagination going. Porn of her is actually the only kind of porn I let myself get off to on account of my religious beliefs. As for other people seeing it, I'd love it if this sort of thing was for me and only me, but that's sadly not possible. So, I just have to live with it.

>Ecchi

I love it. Something sexy or a nice tease is always fun.

>Full nudity without sex

Also nice. She has a pretty body, I like to appreciate it.

>Self-stimulation

I have a few images of Ruby like this, and I love the idea. It's almost cute in a way, especially to imagine her thinking of me when she does it.

>Sex with a single faceless man

As long as there aren't weird implications in the image, I generally love this sort of thing a lot. It's easily interpreted as being me and her, and that's awesome <3

>Sex with single other character

I'm not gonna lie–I absolutely hate this sort of thing. I'm a bit jealous in this regard and I just can't enjoy her having sex with someone else. I know it's unavoidable and I can't control what others make, but I'm not going to force myself to enjoy it either.

>sex with many faceless men or many characters at once

I'd be lying if I said I hadn't had fantasies of multiple of me with Ruby, or multiple of her with me, caused by some sort of magic doujin-y bs , but most porn of this nature is rapey and coercive or features multiple other pre-existing characters, so I rarely enjoy it.

>Very specific types

Obviously I hate most of the rule-5 covered stuff, it makes me sick. I'm not a fan of anything with super harmful or coercive connotations, or anything to do with bodily functions that have no place in sex. Besides that I'm definitely not a fan of bestiality or most DeviantArt-tier fetishes. Not a big fan of extreme bondage, either.

As for what I *like*, hm…there are lots of great stuff that I like with her that I won't go into detail about because it would be way too lewd.

For me personally fan art is just a source of inspiration rather than anything I can directly identify with and that includes porn.

I may even find some inspiring content in otherwise disgusting fan works, e.g. an inspiring emotion or situation.

Generally speaking, there are few (decent) artists whose art is truly worthless to me.

>General perspective on porn of my waifu

Generally speaking, I have no problem with porn of Youmu because I believe in object-oriented waifuism. Nothing of it truly involves my waifu and we will most likely never see any porn drawn by ZUN.

While it's certainly possible that Touhou porn drawn by ZUN existed or was at least imagined at some point, it certainly wouldn't be canon.

>People seeing porn of my waifu

Like with all fan art I welcome people seeing porn of my waifu because for some reason I've come to like sharing my love with like-minded people.

>Ecchi

I like this kind of mild sensual stimulation.

>Full nudity, but without sex

Nudity is certainly inspiring and not just from a sexual point of view but also from an anatomical point of view seeing as ZUN's art style leaves a lot up to imagination.

But I also greatly enjoy the combination of sexuality and purity in this kind of art.

>Self-stimulation

This is probably my favorite kind of porn. It's certainly more sexualized than just nudity, but still emits a feeling of innocence.

In Youmu's case there's also a lot of selfcest involving her phantom half either as a phantom or copy of herself. This kind of content feels less innocent and lewder to me, but at the same time it kind of seems natural for someone with two separate bodies. I even like the idea of her whole body being stimulated rather than just half of it.

But anything involving penetration, either by her phantom half or a toy, certainly completely loses any feeling of innocence.

>Sex with a single faceless man

If it's done well, I like it as much as self-stimulation in porn. But a dark, faceless man generally feels too distant to me in porn. I usually prefer the nameless generic anime protagonist.

I really hope you don't mean the huge, fat, disgusting kind of faceless men because I absolutely despise those.

>Sex with s single other character (shipping porn)

Even though a lot of the Touhou fanbase is centered around yuri shipping, I never really liked it. It's not that I completely hate it either, it's just that I don't feel attracted to yuri in general. It would be much easier to self-insert with a male character.

>Sex with many faceless men or many characters at once

I don't like this type of content at all. I personally think it's as bad as coercion or cuckoldry.

There's only one exception: Pseudo-threesomes involving Youmu and her phantom half as that's just self-stimulation during sex.

>Very specific types

I generally either like or feel neutral about many degenerate fetishes a long as they don't involve coercion, force or scat. Some fetishes really depend on the context, e.g. bodily harm. I think I would see myself liking a hypothetical vanilla scenario during her recovery after a fierce battle.

I really like the fact that many of you /mai/dens feel fine expressing the types of porn of your waifu that you enjoy. I feared this subject would be considerate too much taboo by many, especially as the most common comments we use to read about waifu porn are usually negative ones. I was afraid some people would call me a ‘’degenerate’’ or something like that for enjoying porn of Flandre. Laid back, honest, and respectful discussions about waifuism and sexuality are very nice to have and I wish we could have more of these.

>>68264

>I suppose this stuff would never be made if other people didn't want/look at it

That’s a valid point indeed.

>I'm not sure if this term is really used with guys

For what I know it can also be used with males. When you google image search ‘’Levi dakimakura’’, you get a hell lot of examples of what I would describe as ‘’ecchi’’ with males.

>>68267

>especially to imagine her thinking of me when she does it

That is one quite interesting meta-fantasy, Rubybro! You are imagining that Ruby is imagining you. Are you therefore ending up fantasying about yourself lol? I should try such meta-fantasy myself!

>multiple of me with Ruby

That must be hard to imagine! Do you mentally switch from one visual perspective to another between your different selves or have some third person perspective?

>multiple of her with me

It’s interesting that you enjoy this fantasy. Flandre canonically has the ability to create some sort of clones of herself, for apparently up to four copies (herself + three clones). There is some pornographic material of her while she is in her four copies, but I never was much aroused by this fantasy. Indeed, it’s confusing for me to imagine interacting (sexually or not) with these four copies of her and it makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable. For me, there is only one Flandre (my one and only waifu to whom I belong) so multiple copies of her feels like braking this aspect of unicity, although it ultimately doesn’t. Still, I would probably try at least once to make love to her when she is in four different copies. Maybe it would be better then I actually imagine it? Come to think of it, I actually like the idea of having one copy of her giving me a slow erotic blowjob while I have my head laying on the thighs of another copy of her, and this copy would tenderly and sensually run her fingers through my hair and caress my face.

I wonder if Flandre ever used one (or many) of her copies for self-stimulation? If I was her I know I would have!

>there are lots of great stuff that I like with her that I won't go into detail about because it would be way too lewd.

You know that by saying that, you are only making us more curious about this ‘’great stuff’’ you are talking about… :)

>>68271

>I enjoy porn of my waifu as long as it's not degrading. Unfortunately, the vast majority of the pornography my waifu has is just that.

Can you be more specific when you say ‘’degading’’? Considering you say that ‘’the vast majority’’ of the porn of your waifu is ‘’degrading’’, I’m therefore wondering if your conception of ‘’degrading’’ is actually broader than mine.

>>68275

>While it's certainly possible that Touhou porn drawn by ZUN existed

Touhou fans community would go insane if such material was ever to be released (or even leaked). Guess it would be a very divisive topic.

>I really hope you don't mean the huge, fat, disgusting kind of faceless men because I absolutely despise those.

Of course not! I too hate that type of character sometimes appearing in dōjinshi. What the fuck are the artists thinking? Maybe there are people who are aroused by the discrepancy of beauty between sex partners?

>>68278

>Laid back, honest, and respectful discussions about waifuism and sexuality are very nice to have and I wish we could have more of these.

I would tend to agree. There's nothing shameful about sexuality with your spouse, and since that's what our waifus are then I think it's fine.

>That is one quite interesting meta-fantasy, Rubybro! You are imagining that Ruby is imagining you. Are you therefore ending up fantasying about yourself lol? I should try such meta-fantasy myself!

Hah, I never really put that much thought into it myself. I just thought the idea of her thinking of me like I do her was cute and sweet.

>That must be hard to imagine! Do you mentally switch from one visual perspective to another between your different selves or have some third person perspective?

I'd say mentally switch, though there are some times where I imagine it from a third-person perspective as well.

>multiple of her

Personally I don't mind the idea of doubles, as the way it works in my fantasies they're just extensions of ourselves and not separate people. If it operates in this way I don't see any ethical issues with it, it's still just the two of us at the end of the day. Ruby has no canonical ability to make clones of herself, that's more Blake and Sun's department, but I do sometimes think of it as being her using her speed to appear as though there's more than one of her. The explanation on my end is much more contrived and smutty, so I won't go into much detail with it.

>You know that by saying that, you are only making us more curious about this ‘’great stuff’’ you are talking about… :)

Hehe.

>>68280

I only like males in porn of Ruby if they're blank slate males that I can self-insert as. Seeing other pre-existing characters like, say, Jaune or Oscar, is just as big a nope for me as yuri porn is. I don't want to see Ruby with somebody else regardless of their gender.

In addition, full-on yuri generally makes me uncomfortable because, as a man, I don't like the idea of Ruby being a lesbian, because the implications to our relationship would obviously not be good. You're right in that the psychological difference there is interesting.

It's boring.

I think I've more or less seen it all, so no shocking porn really shocks or angers me. There's this one semi popular artist that draws the Higurashi lolis like gremlins taking billions of dicks. Thankfully there's other dedicated artists that draw really amazing cute solo pictures.

It's all solo nude/ecchi pics for me. I've got a pretty decent amount and never have to use doujins. I've developed an obsession with being the one with her, I can't use avatars or anything, it has to be 100% me. And group stuff of course also belongs in the trash, she can only be with me. I'll be selfish about this stuff until the day I die. Maybe I should be glad for the obsession, because really the only reason I've been taking care of my body the past three years is to make sure she could be attracted to me.

I was a lolicon before but now thanks to her I'm a crazy obsessive lolicon.

I think it's a bit weird, and generally doesn't bother me too much the rare times I run across something. I think I've seen maybe 2 pics that were pretty generic, and one that was one hell of a strange but very tame fetish.

Now then. Her reactions if she came across something like that are what leave me really conflicted: On the one hand, it'd be very funny watching her get all indignant and discomfited. On the other hand, she's be rightly embarrassed and upset that something like that would exist of her, and I wouldn't want that. This kind of thing causes a small internal crisis every time since I'm torn between wanting to be a sadist and enjoy the flustered show, but I also don't want her to be properly, irreversibly upset. It's a hard line to toe and no one knows this suffering occurs regularly throughout an average week.

>>68280

>I found it interesting how males generally seem to be more ok with seeing other males in porn with their waifu, compared to yuri.

I’m not sure if I noticed it myself…

If it is a correct interpretation, then I guess it might be explained by one (or many) of the three following reasons:

1) They feel that yuri porn doesn’t fit their waifu’s canon character and therefore consider that one has corrupted their waifu’s canon character for the sake of creating fapping material.

2) They can’t (or have a hard time) self-insert when it’s yuri.

3) They have homophobic tendencies.

Edit: Rubybro provided an interesting fourth reason ( >>68283 ):

>as a man, I don't like the idea of Ruby being a lesbian, because the implications to our relationship would obviously not be good.

>>68283

>If it operates in this way I don't see any ethical issues with it

I don’t see any ethical issues either. It just feels weird to me…Like my brain is not wired to make sense of the concept that the same person can exist in two (or more) different bodies at the same time. Besides, the nature of Flandre’s clones remains mysterious and I don’t even know if such clones are material or if they are simply visual illusions.

> I do sometimes think of it as being her using her speed to appear as though there's more than one of her.

That’s one over the top explanation! But that’s why fantasies are so great :)

>The explanation on my end is much more contrived and smutty, so I won't go into much detail with it.

You are such a tease, Rubybro lol! Second time you’ve been doing this so far! :)

Hey guys, I have this ‘’smutty’’ and ‘’too lewd’’ fantasy with Ruby; real ‘’great stuff’’ I swear! But hey, I’m not going to say anything about it.

>>68287

>I would reason that having pornographic material of yourself out in the open is much worse than having a partial biography out there though.

Personally, I think would rather have pornographic DRAWINGS of me out in the open than having my life depicted in a publically distributed fiction. At least the drawings are not showing anything real.

>PoV lewd or sex

Not sure what you mean by PoV lewd OR sex… But anyway, I do enjoy porn pics or vids of Flandre that are in a first person perspective.

>>68288

>It's boring.

I could fap to that pic

>>68291

>There's this one semi popular artist that draws the Higurashi lolis like gremlins taking billions of dicks.

I’m not sure if you are referring to what I have in mind, but there are indeed some artists who draw lolis like some sort of ugly chubby pseudo-chibi gargoyles. The final result looks like some sort of deformed toddlercon and I hate it. I don’t mind the billions of dicks if the lolis are nicely drawn though.

>I was a lolicon before but now thanks to her I'm a crazy obsessive lolicon.

Amen, lolicon brother.

>>68327

Yeah, I don't think 'homophobia' is really a reason in most cases. I'm pretty sure it's mainly a combination of the other three. Since self-inserting as someone of the opposite gender, and as a pre-existing character to boot, is pretty impossible, and because the idea of them being lesbian is in many cases both not an accurate reflection of their character and also would pose a pretty serious threat to the relationship if it were real. You don't have to be homophobic to not want your wife to be gay.

>That’s one over the top explanation! But that’s why fantasies are so great :)

It's not all that implausible. Most characters in RWBY have a unique personal superpower called a 'Semblance', Ruby's happens to be super-speed. She's already been seen going fast enough to seem like she teleports, so the idea of her being able to seem like she's in two places at once wouldn't be too much of a stretch. She'd just have to move much faster That's why when we decide to have fun with more of her she gets tired out very quickly.

>>68329

>You don't have to be homophobic to not want your wife to be gay.

Of course, and that is why my homophobia hypothesis was stated among other hypothesis. I hope that I didn’t make it sound like I was claiming that all waifuists disliking yuri porn of their waifu were homophobic; it was far from the intent.

>She's already been seen going fast enough to seem like she teleports, so the idea of her being able to seem like she's in two places at once wouldn't be too much of a stretch.

Ok, it makes more sense then. I know nothing of RWBY, but after making a small search I saw that in ‘’Volume 4 Character Short’’, Ruby actually divides herself into three separate clusters of rose petals, so it seems that she does have the ability to appear at many different places at the same time (at least when she is in this rose petals form).

In any case, I hope you two are careful when making love together in such a way. A single miscalculated move, with such speed, and she could literally kill you!

>>68332

I love the V4 character short, she's great in it.

We haven't had problems thus far, but we'll be careful. I'm more concerned about her wearing herself out than I am about myself.

>>68334

>>68335

>>68336

I’m surprised to see three different waifuist girls in the same thread (and a thread on porn, on top of that). Waifuism seems to be something that attracts mainly men for what I’ve seen here, or maybe it’s a selection bias due to the reality that image boards seems to tend to attract men more?? Or maybe girls tend to post more anonymously or lurk more?

Anyway, that would be nice to know who your husbandos are, if it’s ok with you of course.

>>68338

I lurk more around here but post regularly on other waifu communities! But while I used to be a frequent image board poster, as I've gotten older I've started to prefer communities where you can interact with specific people a little more!

Perhaps I'll post more around here though…

Anyway!! My husbando is Izaya from DRRR.

>>68338

I'm the Kaiba anon, previously referring to myself as "husbando anon" when I was the only one posting on this thread with a husbando. I didn't see many here with a husbando either when I started posting so I'm pretty surprised too. We are rarer to see but typically the ones I meet are full of enough passion to make up for it!

>>68341

Hello, somehow I had a feeling it was you!

>>68348

Yes, I had a feeling it was you too just by your answer to that question!! I'm glad I was correct.

I too have noticed that husbandoists are the minority, but strangely enough most of the people I talk to more in the community have a husbando rather than a waifu. Not purposefully or anything, of course. I have met many very dedicated husbandoists though so am happy for that at least.

>>68334

An interesting perspective. Honestly, like I said before, seeing Ruby with any pre-existing character is enough to spark my jealousy, regardless of gender. The idea of her being depicted as homosexual is just adding insult to injury. It's not as easy for me to discard that sort of thing as just being porn/fantasy, hence why I only tend to like things with blank slate, self-insertable males, or just solo pics.

The lack of female PoV stuff is a shame, that probably makes things a lot tougher.

>>68341

>>68348

Hello to you both~

>>68351

I find it hard to get jealous when it comes to other characters, because they aren't actual canon relationships or anything. A lot of people headcanon Izaya as gay, but he was confirmed heterosexual by the author so that's no longer a concern of mine.

Well, the author said he was "normal", and with regular sexual urges which in Japanese means heterosexual and interested in sex, and he had a canon…. thing, I hesitate to call it an actual relationship, with a female in the past, though it was just to use her it was speculated sex was involved.

Regardless, I find M/F pairings more relatable, but M/M doesn't bother me either. I do prefer solo Izaya stuff though, of course…

>>68341

>>68348

Hi to both of you! It’s nice to know who your lovers are!

>as I've gotten older I've started to prefer communities where you can interact with specific people a little more!

I too prefer interaction with specific people (and not just pure anons), and that is why I wanted to know who were your husbandos. When people post with pics of their waifu/husbando, tags, or namefags, one can therefore identify them and so more specific interactions become possible.

>>68359

There is no need to post who your husbando is and you can remain strictly anon if you feel like it. Like I said, you can share this information only if it’s ok with you. When I ask a anon waifuist who his/her waifu/husbando is, it’s simply my way to show my interest in those people as I like to know people a bit more on an individual level. Sorry if my question felt intrusive to you.

I'm actually typically fine with it, since the game Chocola's from is a hentai game. But I hate seeing the scenes were she's having sex with a person who looks completely different from me. Protags in hentai games are too muscle-y.. Sometimes I even photoshop it out. It mostly doesn't bother me though bc she's consenting in all of them. I probably would hate seeing her being raped. I love her too much.

>>68373

I'm a lesbian waifuist! Holy fuck, I thought I was the only one

>>68373

>All in all I prefer to see her having sex with other women the best. I can self-insert or just enjoy her enjoying herself.

>or just enjoy her enjoying herself.

This! Me too! I was too worried to mention it in my first post, but since you broke the ice, I might as well jump in too. Sometimes I simply like to focus on Flandre’s pleasure, and yes, even in pictures where she is having sex with other men, without even self-inserting.

It might be my own paranoia, but I have this worry that some people will accuse me of enjoying cuckoldry, but for me it has nothing to do with that. I mean there is no cheating dynamic involved whatsoever (no secrecy, no lies, no humiliation, etc.). It’s just enjoying seeing (a fictional picture of) Flandre enjoying herself while having sex with guys who have no face, no identity and no personality; they might as well just be empty shells with dicks.

>>68373

>>68375

Damn, there are definitely more female waifuists /husbandoists on /mai/ than I imagined.

>>68389

I did come across futa of Flandre a few times and I personally am not into it. On top of that, futa of lolis is not the same as futa of women because as lolis don’t have breasts (or simply have small pubescent buds), having a penis can therefore make them look like shotas to some degree.

I’m also curious to know what you mean when you say ‘’it fits her so well’’. Is it because your waifu already has pronounced masculine features? Or maybe because you simply find the futa look to aesthetically fits her well?

>>68408

>But is it wrong if I consider her one?

Although I understand the principle behind the idea of not altering one’s waifu canon (and tend to agree with it to some extent), I don’t believe it is wrong for you to consider your waifu as a futa.

You say this is how you portray her in your mind already, so what good would it make to waste mental energy in order to try to supress this natural inclination? You will simply compromise your pleasure and your interest in your fantasies with her and therefore will feel more disconnected with her. If imagining your waifu with a penis just feels natural to you and also contributes to your own satisfaction with her, then go ahead.

>>68413

>>68412

I just looked it up and I’m quite surprised to see there is not a single pic of Flandre with a strap-on on both Gelbooru and Sankaku Complex.

>>68846

Hey, glad to see you're still around! Haven't see you post in a while.

>Commissioning porn of her means I can't really show others

>some artists even charge more if you want the commission to be private

I'm not sure to understand because a few lines latter you say this:

>Anyway, I don't mind if people see porn of my waifu, she's from a hentai series after all, so it doesn't really bother me

Do you make a difference between the already existing porn and the porn you could commission?

>>68895

>Danbooru

>I was hoping there would be no porn there and luckily there wasn't.

What???

>>68897

>Do you make a difference between the already existing porn and the porn you could commission?

The difference is that commissioned porn is more personal and sharing it would be disrespectful towards my waifu.