a4d3ef No.27097
I'm tired of being a virgin and I want a beautiful qt 3.14 Muslim wife so I can finally have a halal and frequent sexual release. It's just so hard. I'm not very attractive, outgoing and I'm in no position to even attract a woman into marrying me with the way things are economically. I can't afford to house myself, and if I were a woman, I would want my spouse to at least have his own house.
I don't even know how to court a woman that is Islamically approved. I don't want an arranged marriage from my parents because I want a girl chosen by me.
They say just fast as a way of relieve sexual frustration, but it doesn't always help and I don't wish to do that so frequently.
Sometimes, I just want to give up on women in general because of how western society, feminism and pop culture has ruined so many women and because of my fear of divorce. When I read the Qur'an and how it mentioned the houris in Jannah, it makes me even more apathetic towards women. That's to imply I'll be accepted in the first place.
That's why I'm seeking duas to ask Allah swt to please find me a Halal wife that is beautiful and fulfils my sexual needs so I can control my sexual urges from committing Zina.
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8e3b78 No.27101
Desperation is not attractive to women. It shows insecurity and suggests you are a low value mate. I would ponder self-improvement methods rather than seeking loopholes on finding a complacent and docile "qt 3.14".
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7e14db No.27106
You don’t court a woman except tangentially, you really court her family. If her family likes you then you should be good in most cases. You should get a car and apartment before getting married - technically you can get married while poor in Islam tho but you’d need to disclose everything to her family - they might not mind if they think youre a good person.
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9c6395 No.27155
Dating sucks, take the arranged marriage, just ask your parents to ensure that she is the same race/religion as you.
t. non Islamic fella
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71cb5c No.27156
>>27155
In Islam, we don't "date" in the conventional sense.
In Islam, Muslim men can marry non-Muslim women but she will have to convert.
In Islam, race does not matter.
>non Islamic fella
Obvious.
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a4d3ef No.27157
>>27156
Where does it say that marrying a non-Muslim woman has to convert? I know that it's the case if she is not belonging to an Abrahamic religion since you can't marry them.
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71cb5c No.27158
>>27157
Well, so long as she's not a trini/polytheist she doesn't HAVE to convert, but it is better if she does.
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7e14db No.27159
>>27157
We only consider trinis to be kitaabis for social legal reasons. In personal matters and aqeedah they are classed mushrikeen. People of THE BOOK. There is no trini in their book.
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7e14db No.27160
>>27155
Race is a spook, friend. Muslim black african countries have lower crime rates than Europe and US. What really matters is the bond of faith and love/fear of God.
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682272 No.27161
Improve on yourself, the women will be lining up to marry you. Working out is one of the simplest thing you could be doing rn.
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7e14db No.27162
>>27161
Yes. And reminds me of pic related.
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71cb5c No.27163
>>27162
It amuses me that all of the "become alpha" stuff is about appearances. A man can work out every day and wear top quality suits, make lots of money and all of that mess but still be an emotionally immature, vacuous, and vain idiot who is completely unprepared for taking care of a wife and children.
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d1919e No.27164
>>27163
>unprepared for taking care of a wife and children.
He's good looking and has money. That's the preparation.
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7e14db No.27165
>>27163
Theoretically but that sounds more like Pat Bateman than a real person.
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71cb5c No.27167
>>27164
No, that is not the preparation. Being good looking and having money isn't enough and, in some cases, isn't even necessary. Poor, ugly people get married all the time. It's more about personality and compatibility than it is anything else.
Unless you want a wife who only cares about your money/looks and will divorce you when you get older and lose your looks and takes half your money.
Love matters.
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f49c7f No.27168
>>27163
Dude, I guarantee you most women who want kids would marry a rich man as long as he can take care of them and their kids. Thats how kings did it in the past.
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71cb5c No.27169
>>27168
We're not kings. We don't have servants. We raise our own children. Do you think your kids will care if you're rich/good looking? Trust me … they won't.
i'm married and have children. I've never been rich - or even close to it - and I don't work out. I am simply who I am and my wife loves me as do my children.
Don't cling to a past of which you were never a part.
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2c55d8 No.27170
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71cb5c No.27171
>>27170
And yet I'm married and have children. What's your excuse?
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a4d3ef No.27172
>>27161
Is there any good working regiment or equipment you recommend? I don't wish to go the gym for two reasons: 1) the women. Trying to lower my gaze where there are women with exposed midriffs and tight yoga pants is like trying to avoid drinking water in a desert and 2) it would probably lead me into pride and arrogance.
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2b7415 No.27175
>>27172
Make a Pull up bar
Buy Dumbbells
Buy some bags and fill them with sand (cheap) as u get stronger add more sand to add more resistance.
Hoist them around, life them, 5-20 reps
YouTube calisthenics/bodyweight exercises
Eat more protein and vegetables
Exercise like 4-5x a week
Easy at home, no gym necessary to get above average and solid looking.
Don't convert out of sexual desperation there is a special place in hell for beta chucks. Get fit mentally not just physically and find a path you actually see truth in, not just easy girls
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f49c7f No.27183
>>27169
>I don't have any ambitions
>Therefore you shouldn't either
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7e14db No.27184
>>27172
Go to planet fitness, it’s for fatties and poors. Women that wear makeup and designer gym clothes usually go to the $ gyms because they are looking for husband$.
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7e14db No.27185
>>27184
And if you cant afford the $10 a month for planet fatness you have other problems.
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71cb5c No.27186
>>27183
If you're looking for a wife who only cares about looks/money instead of devotion to God and your children, then you deserve exactly what you get.
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c646f0 No.27187
Of course bro, inshaAllah you'll get married sooner rather than later, and have some sweet and kind kids to boot. The self-improvement advice ITT is somewhat generic but also time-tested to work. I'll just add that you should visit self-improvement boards to learn more advanced advice and ways to better yourself physically, mentally, and socially. There's a ton, you can find most of them on the 8chan directory (>>>/dir/).
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9c6395 No.27188
>>27160
>>27156
Race does matter; it's not the only thing that matters, but it is God who forged men with the race they have, and He is also the one who separated them when the Tower of Babel collapsed, meaning He wants people to stay separated by blood, and breaks them when they try to mix those bloods. One factor of many of course, but not one to be ignored. It is also important that she be the same religion as yourself, that way there is not unnecessary conflict in one's home, and the children are bound under the common faith.
That said, this will be understood better if you find yourself in your homeland surrounded by strangers and those not of your own kind. It will feel as though you no longer have a home.
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2b7415 No.27191
>>27186
>exercise is only about looks!
No. I lift to be strong and healthy. And for mental gains. Youd be surprised how much lifting improves your mental discipline and work capacity. The looks are a bonus, secondary.
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7e14db No.27208
>>27188
>immigrants in my country….i feel like i have no home
>WPWW, MUH YWHITE COLONIALISM DINDU NUFFIN, SUPORT BOER RULE IN SOUTH AFRICA SUPORT FRENCH ALGERIA, SUPORT PORTUGUESE ANGOLA, EGYPT 4 UK. WPWW 14 WORDS.
Cry me a river, /pol/.
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9c6395 No.27209
>>27208
You don't respect the Bible, then?
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a21608 No.27210
>>27209
If you keep preaching your trinism on the board all your posts are going to wiped out. You - magnanimously - have one thread to preach trinism. Currently that thread is locked because of trolling and pornraiding from your coreligionists.
So ask nicely for the trinnie thread to be reopen or just shut up about your worship of Jesus.
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9c6395 No.27211
>>27210
My mistake. I thought the Quran taught that Jesus was a great teacher. I'll exit the board.
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d4637d No.27212
>>27211
Yes, the historical Jesus who actually walked the Earth. Not the sauline hallucination and apparitions you follow. Goodbye.
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71cb5c No.27213
>>27188
>It will feel as though you no longer have a home.
I always feel at home around other Muslims, regardless of their ethnicity. It's a shame that Christians hate their fellow Christians so much, but don't project that on us.
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d4637d No.27214
>>27213
Good point. And I feel the same.
Black on Black crime and black on white crime is really Christian on Christian violence. White Christians want to build a wall to keep out brown Christians. Lol.
Only christians that larp or are on the way out fear refugees immigrants. OMG a drunk christian girl dressed like a prostitute at a nightclub was groped by an asylum seeker - OMG!!!1
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