No.18421
Help! There are two guys who are both interested in me, how do I choose?
I will NOT date both, polygamy and cheating disgust me.
They're both /fit/, tall, alphas
Guy 1: has a LOT of money, works as high level manager for some-company-no-one-knows-what-they-really-do, travels a lot, he's almost a decade older than me, met in a bar, he's a friend-of-a-friend-of-a-friend, left me a voicemail asking if I'd go out to some fundraiser with him this Saturday.
Guy 2: is dirt poor, but is going to college, and will be financially stable in a couple years when he graduates, has potential to be successful, he's my age, he's in my class, we've hung out a little in study groups, he emailed me asking me if I want to go geocaching this Saturday and then to his friend's birthday party after.
I'm 22. I don't have any girlfriends to ask for advice, most of the girls I know are complete floozy airheads who's biggest problem is whether to have coconut milk or soymilk in their starshmucks.
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No.18423
>>18421
What a colorful imagination, you have.
Option one has already hit the wall, and saddling with him will only leave you with a "Chris-Chan" in your arms, and that isn't mentioning if he'll actually bother sticking around. Stop going to bars. Convince the second to drop college and start working hard labour. You'll get a better man out of him in a few years.
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No.18424
It isn't cheating to go on first dates with two guys. Go on the dates with both, too early to pick, what if you end up liking neither? Just don't do anything sexual at all with either until you're exclusive. You can kiss and such at the end of the second date at earliest. You owe nothing as you are being courted.
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No.18426
>>18421
Well you did hang out with the second guy a few times so you should kinda have an idea what he's about. He seems like a solid dude based on the information you provided.
>>18424
This.
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No.18431
>>18424
>It isn't cheating to go on first dates with two guys.
>You can kiss and such at the end of the second date at earliest.
What in the world
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No.18441
>>18421
Go out with the one that shares the most autistic hobbies with you too. If they both can't handle any of it, at least consider picking the loaded guy.
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No.18450
>Pick guy in my class.
>Misinterpreted his email and thought it was a date, but it actually a party.
>He also invites this other girl who he's thinking of dating.
>Get into an argument with her about how it wasn't just the chews who died n the war, and that Germans were horribly mistreated by powers of UK, USA and Russia in pow concentration camps.
>Guy has twisted smile like he thinks it is an argument of us fighting about him.
>Win argument.
>He says "I think you're smart and cute, want to go out with me? I have to let you know that I will flirt with other girls but you dont have to worry, it doens't mean anything"
>I must have missed a hundred warning flags to get this far.
>Tell girl he thinks she's dumb, but he would date her anyway.
>Leave party.
The effect of Mr. Rich has worn off. After declining his invitation, I no longer want to see him.
BUT, there's another guy who's coming back into town, and he caught my eye a couple years ago…
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No.18456
Tell them to fight and pick the winner. Better like this than to betray the first(richer) dude you pick.
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No.18457
>>18450
Well that ended badly, but you made the right choice I guess. What about the other guy?
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No.18500
That might be the gayest thing I've ever read, OP.
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No.18503
>>18421
polygamy disgusts you but a big age gap doesn't?
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No.18505
>>18503
>a decade
<big
I've seen a wide age gap, hun
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No.18506
>>18505
22 to 30/32 is a big gap for non degenerates
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No.18513
>>18506
Nothing is ever enough for you niggers, is it?
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No.18514
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No.18522
>>18421
What the Guy 2 majors into?
>I will NOT date both, polygamy and cheating disgust me.
Good girl.
>>18424
This sounds sensible.
Just don't kiss on the lips, make it clear that she's being courted and owes no responsibility and don't continue dating both guys for more than twice.
>>18431
>I can't read: the post.
>>18506
30/2 + 7 = 22
It's acceptable by Burger standards.
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No.18526
The first thing you mentioned for both is their money, so the clear solution is to date neither since they both deserve better than yourself.
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No.18531
To be fair, you have to have a fairly high IQ to be able to figure out if you should have coconut or soy milk in your starshmucks. Coconut is clearly richer tasting, but fattier. Soy milk is refreshing, but will not keep you full for long.
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No.18537
>>18421
>>18531
Is soy the reason women go batshit insane? I mean its enough to ruin men so I'm sure its not healthy for women either.
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No.18539
>>18537
>Soy the reason women go batshit insane
About 12-24 hours of consuming soy in any form I find myself irrationally emotional. Soy is estrogenic and messes with women's hormones. It's not good for anyone.
OP Here.
Guy 1 took a roastie to the fundraiser instead, but evidently didn't have a good time. She keeps calling him and he won't answer. She contacted me all upset because somehow she knew he asked me out first and now she's all jealous. Why are shallow women so catty?
Guy 1 called me again. Only met him the one time and while we had interesting conversation, the effect has worn off, like a spell that's been broken. Concentrating on getting back in #3's radar.
Question, when a girl turns a man down, does that make him more interested? that seems to be the case. If this guy is rich, you'd think he'd have his pick of women. Maybe he's never been turned down before?
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No.18540
>>18537
>>18539
Soy is a bean. It is not bad for you in bean or tofu form.
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No.18548
>>18540
>in bean form
Fermented. Same with any other seeds, otherwise you're gonna turn into a massive degenerate from all the anti-proteins you're consuming, and that's not even touching on the estrogenic properties it has.
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No.18663
>>18548
You mean like Natto? The disgusting smelling slimy stuff?
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No.18674
>>18539
>Question, when a girl turns a man down, does that make him more interested?
Probably not, but people persist either out of desperation (scarcity mentality), or because they don't want to lose and would rather be the ones doing the rejecting, instead of being the ones rejected (egoism).
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No.18677
>>18548
>ati-proteins
What did you mean by this?
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No.18687
>>18663
Mmm-hmm. Otherwise, you will be subject to the negative effects of estrogen overdosage.
>>18677
>>ati-proteins
Are you trying to make me adore you, with that kind of grammar?
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No.18692
>>18687
>pronouncing an obvious typo grammar
>refusing to provide clarification or legitimate argumentation against soybeans
Typical bean hater. Did you even try to do research before spreading misinformation?
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No.18693
>>18692
Phytates, anon-chan. Look up Phytates.
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No.18699
>>18693
>"Phytate, or phytic acid, is a naturally occurring compound found in all plant foods like beans, grains, nuts, and seeds. In the past, there were concerns that foods high in phytates might reduce the absorption of minerals. However, recent studies have shown that this so-called “anti-nutrient” effect occurs only when large amounts of phytates are consumed with a diet that is poor in nutrition. In fact, legumes have been shown to help lower cholesterol levels and help treat blood pressure, diabetes, and heart disease.
>Vegetarians, whose daily intake tends to be high in phytates, can benefit from eating mineral-absorbing enhancers, such as garlic and onions, to increase the bioavailablity of iron and zinc in plant foods.
>Phytates’ Role in Preventing and Treating Cancer
>One of the most important beneficial functions of phytates is their anticancer activity, which inhibits the growth of cancer cells. They also improve immune functions by enhancing the natural killer cells that hunt down and dispose of cancer cells without affecting normal cells. They starve tumors by preventing new blood vessels that may feed tumors from forming and by cutting off existing supplies. Not only is cancer cell growth reduced, but cancer cells go back to acting like normal cells.
>Phytates’ Role in Osteoporosis Protection
>Recent studies have shown that phytates protect against osteoporosis. Studies concluded that women with the highest phytate levels had the lowest levels of bone loss in the spine and hips, similar to the outcomes of anti-osteoporosis drugs, but without the drugs’ side effects."
Source:
https://nutritionfacts.org/topics/phytates/
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No.18710
>>18539
i used to take birth control pills with estrogen in them and i was probably more enotionally stable than when i didnt take then and especially when i switched to a progesterin only birth control so in my case estrogen helps me a lot more than it hurts me
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No.18711
Wow, this is a bad thread.
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No.18715
>>18711
Thank you for your contribution of making it worse with useless complaining, I, too, will complain about you complaining and bring the quality even further down
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