No.413020
>been fighting with my sexual feelings for years
>realize I'm gay and the need for wanting to fuck and suck starts flooding through me
how do I go about this safely? any advice? I know grindr is a thing but I dunno how to interact with other gay people without getting taken advantage of and I have no idea how to prevent getting pozzed besides using condoms.
I don't want to be a whore but I think I'm finally ready for a gay experience.
is it okay if I want to bottom at 21? how many years do I have left to try?
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No.413022
anon at least just like… find someone to talk to online about your feelings? You'll probably want to learn more about yourself before you do anything
also if you go to college you might want to check the gay community there bc it should be more established
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No.413032
Masturbate and feel bad.
Find a /b/tard you can suck off, no homo.
Probability of finding cuteboy nearby could be extremely low if you lucky as me.
>how many years do I have left to try?
I'm 25 and desperate, but still can be considered not ugly I guess.
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No.413054
>>413022
I don't have any irl friends… I do a lot of thinking but I have no idea how to explore those feelings in any social way.
Do you have any experience with college gay communnities? I'm in Uni but I don't even know where to dig into that. I'm afraid I'm going to be awkward and make people uncomfortable. I have terrible social anxiety.
>>413032
I guess that's good to hear. I already feel old and stifled at 21 so maybe I'm being way too hard on myself.
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No.413055
>>413054
I wish i found myself at 21. I'm 29 and ready to face the end
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No.413063
>>413020
20 is peak beauty. After that, decline and deformity by age.
As for how to approach, you have to risk getting taken advantage of, because you need to experiment to get enough experience, or else you won't even take the first step.
If you want to talk, you can talk to me. How is your "awkwardness"? Literally. How do you behave around people? (remember: you are anonymous here. Try to open up, because if you can't do this anonymously, you won't be able to do it IRL)
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No.413070
>>413020
I had sex with a lot of older men, some of them never wanted to have sex with me anymore because they were btm but wanted to fuck me anyway so they gave it a chance.
The last time this happened to me I was 23 and he was 40 so I guess that at 21 you definitely can be the bottom
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No.413083
>>413054
It's probably best to sort out making friends and getting help with social anxiety before fucking
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No.413090
>>413020
Don't go to grindr wtf just find a cuteboy bf on some discord server/map
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