<but i cant make up my mind without seeing both opinions.
It's not like there is some great doctrine those false-christs teach, simply put it, they twist, pervert and cherry-pick scripture to make their viewers feel good so that they might reel in money and gain large followings worldwide.
Jesus Christ already gave us a litmus test for these types:
Matthew 7:15-16
>"[15] Beware of false prophets, who come to you in the clothing of sheep, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. [16] By their fruits you shall know them.
Some further passages which prove this point:
John 18:36
>"[36] Jesus answered: My kingdom is not of this world. If my kingdom were of this world, my servants would certainly strive that I should not be delivered to the Jews: but now my kingdom is not from hence."
Matthew 6:19-21
>"[19] Lay not up to yourselves treasures on earth: where the rust, and moth consume, and where thieves break through and steal. [20] But lay up to yourselves treasures in heaven: where neither the rust nor moth doth consume, and where thieves do not break through, nor steal. [21] For where thy treasure is, there is thy heart also."
Job 1:21
>"[21] And said: Naked came I out of my mother's womb, and naked shall I return thither: the Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away: as it hath pleased the Lord so is it done: blessed be the name of the Lord."