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>In my experience most people wish for things, as if God were going to grant you something by praying a lot. I used to do this as a kid.
This isn't a problem, the problem is when this is the only reason people pray. Prayer is a means of begging the Lord for something, but at the same time we can't be bitter if it doesn't come true like so many people are. After all "not my will, but thine, be done."
>Some people say prayer is some kind of meditation.
This is a different form of prayer, meant to bring your will and soul closer to God, as well as obtain some sort of spiritual insight and/or guidance.
>I have also heard that praying is not to request something from God, but from ourselves. To mentally prepare, to overcome something.
Well, the later half is true. But this strength comes not from ourselves but from the holy spirit.
You are also expected to pray for the sake of others over yourself out of humility and care for they neighbor.