>>14888459
You stop making excuses.
It's that easy. No really. Don't ever say "But it only happened because…". "I was missing X".
It happened. You play a game. You win or you lose. You don't change what happened. What you can do is try something new next time. And in doing so, remember that "something new" equals failing 99 times out of 100. You should never be frustrated you hit one of those 99. You should instead think "one less, 98 to go before I hit the right one".
Being good at videogames only means you need less "mistakes" before hitting the right one. Intuition, deduction, wathever it is.
But another advice I have: it seems you're playing for the wrong reasons. It may soud weird, but you shouldn't play competitively "to win" if you want to enjoy yourself.
Playing "to win" is not fun. It never is. High peak performance is achieved with work, not with fun. Not to mention the myriad of shit you have to pull off (depends on each game) that is efficient but repetitive/boring/not interesting.
I alsoplay competitive games. But I do it because I enjoy the competition itself. Pitting yourself against another player is thrilling and very different from playing against an A.I. Human players pull off diferent tactics, innovate and learn.
Barring some boring match (or someone using cheese), winning or losing has no bearing on how much fun I derive from a game. It's butting heads that I greatly enjoy.
What you can do is play many of the modern games with matchmaking and stop buying into the "forced 50"meme.
You'll be matched with players around your skill which means you'll win half of your games. If your win rate is closer to 45%, you're on a downward slope and the game will match you with lower ranked players. Accept it without bitterness and keep playing/improving.
Also: remember that there's always people who play better than you. Don't expect to be the best every time and learn to respect worthwhile oponents: they just gave you a good challenge and a good match afterall.
But don't forget to shittalk cheesers and scrubs.