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Clearly the problem is you. You must learn to distance yourself from those negative people in your life. Those toxic people who only bring you down. You are a work in progress and of course you're not perfect and neither am I. But it is a moral imperative that you seek out and surround yourself with those who choose to see the best in you and forgive you your imperfections and to keep those people near you you must also choose to be a positive person who is hesitant to judge and willing to help.
Do not be afraid to be upfront and honest about this as this might be a change in character for you. This change is essential for the healing of you personally, your soul, your happiness which is a necessary part of being healthy and making healthy choices.
Its an attitude adjustment. One that must be taught and encouraged. All of the gossip. All of the negativity must be diminished if not eliminated as negativity and negative energy only produces negative results.
No one is paying me to say this. It has taken me more than 50 laps around the sun to arrive at this conclusion. Negative reinforcement doesnt work on humans. Never did. We must only encourage positive things and reward positive behavior to heal this world.
Not here to promote socialism as socialism does not reward the individual, rather it steals from the individual and demotivates the individual. Socialism would be excellent if we were robots which we are not. Reward the positive. Encourage the positive.
Find your true north and remember that everything that people do when they react to you is about them not about you.
Learn the ways of the ninja and no I dont mean the glamourized hollywood version. I mean the real version of ninjitsu. The core of which is to learn balance in all things. Never too happy, never too sad. Always in control of yourself but not to seek to control others.
Again hard lessons I've learned the hard way after more than 50 laps around the sun and by no means am I personally free from problems and issues. I'm simply better at handling such things.
Good luck and stay frosty, my friends. Pic not related but its almost caturday.
