I've been living successfully (patents, wealth) and happily (family, friends) with Objectivism for a decade and am fairly well involved in Oist circles.
I've been studying the theoretical side of it and think it might be insightful for everyone involved to have a discussion.
I'm aware that Oism is generally looked down upon by the majority of professional philosophers, which I find unfortunate.
Please throw anything you wish at me and I'll try to answer to the best of my knowledge.
Let me address some common misconceptions at the outset (mostly about Rand herself, but please don't make this thread about those points):
1. Rand's primary goal in life was to bring back the benevolent society of the 19th century that she caught a glance of in her youth - via literature. To achieve this, she wanted to "describe the ideal man". She did not want to be a philosopher and would rather have not led an ideology - but did so anyway after Nathaniel Branden convinced her that it would help her cause.
2. She did not die in poverty. Her estate was above a million dollars at her passing (which Leonard Peikoff inherited).
3. She did accept social security at some point - which is consistent since "only the opposers of redistribution may morally reclaim their redistributed/stolen wealth by making use of the redistribution" (it would be a sacrifice not to get your own money back)
4. She did have a relationship outside of her marriage - with which her husband agreed. She loved her husband since he had the ideal sense of life - and Branden because he could spar with her intellectually. It later turned out Branden betrayed her and it fell apart.
5. No, Objectivism is not about "screw everyone else". To the contrary. One ought to cultivate and support one's trade partners (to which friends and family count). The ideal is voluntarily chosen 'win-win' trades amongst everyone.
6. That 'rape scene' in the Fountainhead wasn't rape. Dominique is a complex character who wishes to destroy the good because the world isn't worthy of it. She tried and failed to deny herself the good and finally reluctantly gave in to her own wishes. (A paragraph is not enough to fully explain this)