No.6636
I've been trying nofap for a year and I always relapse around day 6.
The things stopping me from doing nofap is: no friends, and not successful in the things I want to be successful in. I can't even see the point of NoFap anymore. Sure there's benefits but I never make it far enough to get those. At least when I was fapping I had something to distract myself from my life.
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No.6639
>>6636
I have been trying for 2 years
I will never give up, because I am not going back to how I used to be, no matter how shit I am now
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No.6640
>>6636
We don't control your destiny. All we can tell you is that if you want to be a loser who wants to jerk away his manhood for the rest of his life, then that decision will have to be made by you and only you.
It's all about what you want in your life, buddy. Not us.
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No.6641
It's still better to do 6/7 days of nofap every week than to fap every day.
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No.6647
>>6636
If you reach the point that you're going to give up entirely: buy a chastity device, lock it, and put the keys on your roof or bury them
You can still get the benefits of testosterone and confidence even if you don't get the benefits of developing self-discipline
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No.6648
>>6647
why do I need confidence if i just want to learn how to draw? I need to be extremely insecure if i want to improve.
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No.6650
>>6640
Well I have discovered the technique of going to bed at 9 pm.
I was doing good until last night I had the great idea to stay up until 11 pm, and I relapsed then and I relapsed twice more this morning. So I should be more optimistic and see this as a learning experience.
I guess this post was more of an emotional reaction than a logical one. Perhaps something inside me is afraid of success.
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No.6659
>>6648
To me having a good quality of life is more important than being slightly better at a craft or skill
I play bass on nofap and I don't feel it substantially effects my improvement
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No.6660
That means you fap only 50 times a year instead of 365. It took me 2 years get a 90 days streak going so stay strong brother.
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No.6685
Three years here. As long as you're making progress, you're good. As your ejaculation frequency decreases, you'll feel much better. Once every other day is like night and day compared to someone who spills his life force every day. Just keep improving.
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No.6688
>>6684
I'm 22 and you people should relax and have a fap
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No.6696
>>6688
Fuck you shill zionist
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No.6749
>>6636
2 years here and 6 day is almost impossible for me.
The ground looks cleaner after you kissed it
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No.6755
>>6647
>see thread about issues with nofap
>give in to urge to shitpost about chastity belts
I want chastitybeltfag to leave
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No.6760
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No.6778
>>6636
>I've been trying nofap for a year and I always relapse around day 6.
I was just like you, OP, and now I'm enjoying what's nearly a month long streak. It takes a bit of falling down to really understand yourself, and find your motivation to avoid fapping.
Your friendless. Talking to other men and forming friends is actually very accessible if you have the right outlet, but you typically won't have the energy when you fap. Here's an idea - taking up a hobby that interests you is a surefire way to find friends, and if you want certain people, you choose a corresponding hobby.
If you want otaku neckbeard friends, take up a TCG like magic or yugioh.
If you want active and outgoing friends, try a team sport like soccer or basketball. don't worry if you suck, there are social leagues for relaxed play - so just pick a sport you enjoy.
If you want friends committed to self improvement, try talking to folks at the gym. They're always super friendly. Muay thai, BJJ and MMA classes have the same sort of guys too, who are actually quite friendly contrary to what you might think.
>being successful
You need to fail, again and again, in order to finally get a grasp, a taste of success. To reach that point, you need energy, which you are sapping yourself of when you masturbate. Having a happy lifestyle with things that matter to you (friends, for one) will naturally lead to positive momentum and energy.
It's not all going to magically work itself out, but it WILL work out. Keep at it OP, the late bloomers are the most resilient and hardest working.
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No.6840
>>6647
seriously ban this cuck already
Stop with this chastity belt, are you working in a chastity belt company or what? stop advertising this low-energy device
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No.7234
>>6840
Females wear chastity belts, males wear chastity devices. If you don't see how chastity devices assist nofap you're not intelligent enough to argue with
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No.7236
>>6755
You expressing that I cause you discomfort makes me want to post more lol
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No.7675
>>6647
>chastity belts
Remove yourself.
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No.10115
>>6636
if you keep getting the same results try switching up the method its not like it matters if the new method fucks up because you have been trying for so long and getting no where at least if you keep trying new things you might find a method that works
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