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 No.4698[Watch Thread][Show All Posts]

2017 Self-improvement declaration thread! Accountability goes HERE.

Here are the rules:

1) Post your resolution. Is it no PMO? Is it just no P? Easy mode? Hard mode? Whatever it is, post how you want to improve yourself related to the topic of this board.

2) Post an update. If you break your resolution, you HAVE to declare it. That's it, you lost the game, but you can still make 2017 your year so don't binge or anything.

If you don't cave in on what you set as your goal but have some wisdom to share, you can post it as an update. Perhaps you learned something important when you overcame an obstacle or trigger that previously would have you relapse? This is a valid update.

We have a fresh year before us. Let's make it THE year we get rid of bad habits.

 No.4699

OP here, I'll start.

My goal is to get rid of porn first and foremost. Everything else is a bonus.


 No.4705

I'm on a two month streak. P = porn. M = masturbation. O = orgasm. Yes? I think I will continue no MO into this year as long as I can.


 No.4707

what is PMO? define easy and hard mode?

i am not fapping for the whole of 2017


 No.4713

2017 is the year I finally become a wizard. I will do nofap until I receive my awesome powers (birthday about halfway into the year).


 No.4717

Commiting to no PMO for all of 2017 here.

We can do it bros

We can do it


 No.4718>>4720

I broke only three times in last 2 months. And on new year night i watched fireworks with a dick in my hand furiously masturbating, as a reward of how good i was. So now i will try to pull of 2 months with 0 faps.


 No.4720>>4773

>>4718

The goal is to never masturbate. Ever. I think some people find this hard to grasp but it's true. What's the point in doing nofap if you know you're going to relapse as a "reward"? Unless of course you have a terrible chronic masturbating addiction, then I think "tapering off" (no pun intended) is warranted.


 No.4722

No PMO at all is my goal. That said, if I can quit porn and reduce my mastrubation to a few times a month that wouldn't be too bad. Other than nofap, I'm also going to get back into the habit of lifting 5 days a week, meditating everyday and hopefully socializing more often.

I'll try to post weekly updates.


 No.4724

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Trying for no PMO but primary goal is no P. Not being a pervert will be improvement in and of itself but also hoping for more energy, self control, and mental clarity. No real self improvement plans, instead I have projects to throw myself into. If I make progress I'll share how if I don't I'll share where I think I fucked up.


 No.4725

I'm going to go for no PMO for at least 3 months and break my record (hopefully make it a year)


 No.4729

I am going to make 2017 the year that i will beat my addiction to mastruabation. I will not fap for the entirety of 2017.

We are gone make it bros, wa can do this.


 No.4730

Already on a 8day streak, and want to improve myself as best as I can. Hope that I'll make it. I'll go for no PMO, though I won;t consider P as relapse, I'll reduce it as much as I can. Anyway I wish every one of You, the strenght that helps you to carry on and improve yourself.


 No.4731

No porn at all is my goal. My dick almost tricked me into looking up lewds already but I stopped myself before I pressed enter.

I will write this as a reminder for myself and for other anons. If you feel urges, don't give an inch to it cause the first misstep can make you tumble down. Feeling horny? Put down the phone or turn off the monitor. React quickly. Recognize patterns. If you relapse most often in your room or bathroom leave your phone elsewhere. Pushups, situps, go outside for a breather(This does wonders), relax, doodle, anything except looking at pornography and draining your sexual energy. Redirect yourself and your thoughts. Know yourself and love yourself. Stay strong brothers.

2017 NOFAP YEAR


 No.4732

Not too sure. Would be nice to do no fap full stop, but I'm in too deep to do that I think. Perhaps I'll try no fap to kick things off and if it goes well, keep going. If I crumble and give in, I may try again or may even attempt to cut porn out first or at least cut down on my overall number of faps.


 No.4735

No porn, no masturbation. Almost no touching at all actually No gf, so likely no O as well

As for the time, last year I lasted till around June. This time I'm going to be a bit more strict and try for the whole year.


 No.4737

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Only 2 weeks to go until I've reached the fabled 3-months checkpoint (started around mid-October 2016).


 No.4738>>4739 >>4747

is this the proper 2017 thread?

i have a massive urge to cum to the most sickening fucking disgusting shit that exists, and i'm ready to give up nofap. it's only day 1. please help me


 No.4739>>4740 >>4743

>>4738

Take off your underwear so your penis isn't rubbing on anything


 No.4740

>>4739

doesn't that require wearing nothing at all? can't really do that in my situation


 No.4741

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I haven't fapped since friday and it feels good

My plan is to at least limit fapping and if I can get more than 8 days (my pb) then completely eliminate fap

Also noporn (not my addiction though)

I wish you all to beat your addiction and become happy in life


 No.4742

Been meaning to do this for a while. I am now declaring 2017 to be PMO free. I will hit the reloader whenever I feel the urge to fap.


 No.4743

>>4739

It'd just give him easier access to his penis.


 No.4747>>4750

>>4738

Have you tried ED's Offended page?


 No.4750>>4751

>>4747

too late


 No.4751>>4753

>>4750

It's never too late!


 No.4753>>4757

>>4751

is it not? what's the plan now then


 No.4757>>4758

>>4753

>what's the plan now then

DON'T

FAP

YA

CUNT


 No.4758

>>4757

the words i needed to hear


 No.4773

My goal is to not fap for streaks of 2+X weeks, where X is the number of times previously fapped in the year. Quitting cold turkey overnight isn't feasible imo, and going too sparse is going to cause me to fucking relapse and cave.

>>4720

This


 No.4778>>4780

Nofap for a whole week starting today. I already feel like im gonna cave in


 No.4780

>>4778

Do pushups until you're too sore to move your arms.


 No.4785

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>Tfw successfully completed my first day


 No.4786

Last fap was on the 30th. Going strong so far.

What else are you guys doing this year? I've been taking cold showers since mid december, feels good man.


 No.4797>>4943

Went a week full PMO and broke my streak last Wed. Still doing well as I have more outlets for my interests.

Definitely noticed that my sister in-law wanted my D during my last streak.


 No.4802

nofap

less vidya

less chanboards and internet in general

watch some animes that are worth it

call my crush by phone (i'm about to do that right now)

more exercise

world nuclear annihilation


 No.4940>>4944

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OP here.

Relapsed today after a week long streak. I fucked up. So I wasn't able to make 2017 completely porn free. But if anything, this relapse renewed my vigor due to how ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTED I feel right now! Sure, the unbearable tension is released, for a short while, but now I feel lethargic and stupid.

If you're reading this and are about to relapse then DON'T DO IT. It is not worth it. The relief I feel now is bittersweet as fuck. The only enjoyable thing is the absence of discomfort. But that is 100% possible to push through.


 No.4943

>>4797

Really? Not to be crude, but on a scale of 1 - 10 how would you rate her?


 No.4944>>4957

>>4940

What degenerate shit did you jerk off to?


 No.4948>>4951

>MO, but not P.

>Warning: long wall of text incoming. Just feel like typing this out to make sense of my feelings.

Whilst I'm not doing 'P' of PMO, I obviously won't go on porn sites - but I find it too difficult to scroll past sexual/lewd images on 8chan. I don't save them, I just feel an urge to look at them.

I assume it's because my fapping to them in the past has conditioned me to asociate the images with the pleasure of fapping. Of course I don't actually feel the physical sensation of fapping just by looking at them, but it still brings some psychological pleasure.

I hope that by cutting M and O for long enough, then I will at least lessen this asociation, and in a best case scenario actually feel genuine disgust when appropriate.

I add 'when appropriate', because my intention is not to become some kind of monk-like figure, completely hiding my desires. I want to re-wire my desires so that I still feel the healthy, natural attraction to traditional feminine beauty traits, but not to overly-sexualised, slutty women, no matter how great their assets might be - and ideally when I find a girlfriend, I want my feelings for her to be deeper and more genuine. Sexual attraction obviously plays a key role in a relationship, but I wouldn't want lust to take over.

I'm glad to say that although I have not yet gotten rid of the asociation with online imagery, I've noticed myself being less of a pervert in person.

One clear example of my perversion is my bus journey.

I use a bus every day to and from work, and I used to look forward to it as a goldmine of perverted pleasure. Not just the eye candy, but there's usually far more girls on the bus than guys, and it was often busy so sometimes we'd get crammed together physically. There were also schoolgirls in school uniforms every morning.

Now that doesn't sway me anywhere near as much as it used to, and whilst my body may still feel some attraction, my mind is judging them negatively, and it's not a false, forced response either.

I've also noticed girls seem much more likely to sit next to me. It might seem like a petty thing, but those girls are sadly the only girls in my life, so it's an ego boost to know they find me more approachable. It doesn't necessarily mean they find me attractive, but it's a sign i'm going in the right direction.

TL;DR - MO, with the hope it will put me off the 'P' naturally.


 No.4950

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first full week without fap


 No.4951

>>4948

>continued

As for my fap streak.

So far I've done nofap since about the 30th December. Before then I kept a streak going for almost a month, but rather than keeping it going, I knew I'd be doing NoFap 2017, and convinced myself I should fap whilst I still could in 2016.

Of course, this was a stupid mistake to make, because it meant I was starting from scratch again, rather than keeping up a streak, so I have to go through the most difficult periods of adjustment again.

>Other changes for 2017

2016 was focused mostly on attaining knowledge, so this year I want to focus more on my appearance and social skills.

Social skills are the most difficult, so I'm starting with appearance in the hope that it may bring some more confidence for socialising.

As fate would have it, a receptionist I've had a bit of a crush on from affar at work has decided to switch department to my one, and she'll be joining me on Monday. There will only be 4 of us in the team, so we'll be working together closely, and I've been asked to help train her. There's also only 1 other guy in this team, and he's already got a girlfriend.

I can't help but see this as something to work towards, even though I know it's bad to put all my eggs in one basket, especially when I don't even know her yet, and she has her own plans which may contradict my own.

But anyway, to start with I'm doing the Golden One's 4 month challenge, with pop/soda as my additional chosen addiction to cut. I'm experimenting with hair products, and currently compiling a list of staple clothes to buy to improve my fashion (I don't have enough money to experiment, so I'm going to save for higher quality versatile items instead).

Sorry for the blog.


 No.4957>>4959

>>4944

It's vanilla by todays standards.

Since I learned a thing or two about who runs the porn industry and why they do it, I get extremely disgusted by everything. One could almost rationalize that solo girls is the lesser of evils since at least she is not abused on camera. But then you remember that these girls are often enticed with "modeling" only to be tricked into doing disgusting things.

I'm motivated by righteous indignation.


 No.4959>>4977

>>4957

Even if they're not made to do degrading things, they're still being exploited. Most are immature and don't understand the lifelong problems that come with doing porn. It's harder for them to get jobs after doing porn, and the pictures are there forever for everyone to see, so they'll have to deal with that stigma for the rest of their lives.


 No.4977

>>4959

Yes, exactly.

Women do stupid things all the time and of course, some (((MGTOW))) will come along and try to put all the blame on them. But normalcy bias is extremely powerful to brainwash someone. Women are raised on degeneracy so it's no wonder they turn out that way.


 No.4988

You guys are fags but I guess I share the sentiment so I'll post

>Absolutely no porn

>Nofap

>Exercise in the mornings because ROCK FUCKING HARD

Hardmode

>No niggers or whores




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