/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous★

>>4348 (OP)

>Let's act like SJWs and make porn addicts hate nofappers so that they'll never take us seriously!

The board is here, it's on the front page, if people want to learn about it they have no problem doing so. Preaching to people on porn boards will only make them resent us.

Plus they'll raid us back and we have virtually no active moderation.

>>4348 (OP)

You cannot force people to swallow red pills, anon, they will just resent you and reject your ideas instinctually. I feel the modern "sex positive" hookup culture is finally swinging back the other direction as people get older and find that despite indulging in every whim and desire that flitters into their mind they are not happy and life holds less meaning since they have burned out their reward circuits. Even if I'm wrong and the perpetual march towards further degeneracy continues un-abated are you going to be a slave to the trends of modern culture? The worst that can happen is that nofap reaches pariah status and we are shunned as prudes. The people shunning you are people you probably don't want or need recognition from anyways. Nofap should be a personal decision made by an individual as they identify an issue within themselves, not something trendy that is pushed into the mainstream as a hip thing to do. Don't make us into the new vegans, people engaging in behaviors that are worthy of merit but become intolerably holier than thou and dismissed since they keep shoving it in everyone's face. You can't save people from themselves, all you can do is live your life on your own uncompromising terms and hopefully be a beacon to draw other like-minded people into the fold. Not through proselytizing but instead piqued interest at how you've quietly elevated yourself.

>>4361

>The worst that can happen is that nofap reaches pariah status and we are shunned as prudes.

And we aren't already?

>>4348 (OP)

Do you seriously believe that nofap turns you into a better person?

Because I don't.

I'm just doing this for myself,but I can very well understand people who will always embrace their primal desires

>>4379

Nice straw man. I want people to do NoFap because it helps them personally and I care about them.

>>4381

I didn't try to strawmen, I honestly want to know how you feel about that.

>I want people to do NoFap because it helps them personally and I care about them.

You care about random strangers on the internet who browse pornboards?

They don't need or want your help, if they really want to make a change then they will come or find other ways to help themselves.

Wether it "personally helps them" or not is something they have to decide by themselves

>>4383

Well, it does personally help them. Whether or not they believe that is a different story.

>>4383

I believe the reason porn and masturbation is so rampant in the world is because people like myself are too afraid to speak out about it.

>>4385

That's not for you to decide. For example I wouldn't want to berate a fat person either. Is fast food gonna kill him quickly and prevent him from doing many things? Sure it will, but if that's what this person wants then I don't see myself in a position to berate them.

>>4386

Speak about what? Nofap?

A few century ago western societies were extremly prude compared to today, that doesn't change the fact that people had urges. They would just do all their kinky shit in private.

So what if porn and masturbation is rampant?

You are not going to change the world by doing nofap, and the world doesn't need your changing

>>4387

>people were always like this

No, porn causes serious hypersexual problems. I wasn't all that interested in sex until I discovered porn at 10. Forms of sex that used to be extreme (like anal or semen on the face) is now normal.

>that's not for you to decide

I can judge whoever I want for any reason. I refuse to acknowledge the idea of thoughtcrime.

I mean, I've been called a variety of things on the Internet because of what I know about porn and masturbation, and none of the things they called me were good. So excuse me if I'm not really tolerant towards porn addicts.

>>4391

Ever thought that the fault might be with you?

No offense, but you seem kind of like a annoying little prick who likes to get on peoples nerves

>>4405

So just stating my ideas on the subject makes me a pushy prick? I don't want to annoy them, if they want to get annoyed that's not my problem.

Jesus Christ, you're even worse than than Facebook and Google using 'fake news' as an excuse to censor conservatives.

>>4406

Going on a porn board and berating people is like being a jehovas witness, so yeah you are kind of a pusy prick in that regard. Of course I'm just speculating here, as I don't know what you actually said to them or what happened to trigger their insults towards you.

I'm not trying to censor you, you can do whatever you think is right and it's none of my business, but just as masturbating or not masturbating have certain consequences your behaviour also has consequences which might explain your grudge towards pornboard users.

Again, I'm just speculating based on the posts you've made here.

>>4411

I don't have a grudge towards pornboard users, I have a grudge against porn users in general because they are so ignorant, and defend their filthy habit as if their life is on the line.