/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous★

>>2565 (OP)

Well are you fapping just to get it off? pussy is a much better alternative.

>>2565 (OP)

The fact that you are questioning whether you are just some kind of machine made to have sex shows that you are more than that. Your self-awareness is a gift that separates you from every other species on this planet as more than just some mindless carbon-based computer designed to eat and fuck all day; more importantly though, your self-awareness gives you a choice. You can choose not to eat, or fuck, or whatever else. You still have instincts, but unlike any other organism, you are consciously aware of these instincts. You can question them, examine them, give in or refuse them. That alone means you're more than some "machine trying to get pussy," unless of course that's what you choose to be.

>>2565 (OP)

I would suggest you find a way to bring this up with her. If you don't trust her enough to bring it up, you should reconsider what you are doing because you shouldn't trust her with your intimacy.

I do relate. When I had my first gf and in turn lost my virginity, it was bliss. It was like I had a great friend who I could hang out with all day, and sex was like a cherry on top, an ornament.

Like you fuck, hang out, fuck, hang out and it all compliments eachother. Then that ended, and you have sex with other people, and you slowly find it all gets inverted. The people aren't compatible, and its not about being with a human, and you catch yourself chasing sex in itself.

For me it got too far and far too degenerate, and I am hugely ashamed of how far I have let sexuality corrupt me. You need some guidance in your life, if nobody around you really cares, you won't know until it is too late.

Maybe it takes ego death, or some kind of drug trip or lots of philosophy but you have to start to question why even feeling good from cumming even matters or is good itself. What is good in itself about cumming? Its more a con to get families together so that children can be raised. But then is it really a "con"? Since that assumes the main reason to live in the first place is to cum.

Most people stop just at "it feels good". Why should I care?

Any reason that makes you not want to fap is a good reason.

>>3615

>Implying you weren't already gay.

Is having Sex good or bad? Is NoSex also a good choice?

>>3615

fapping is what causes the gay

The entire point of sex is reproduction. Anything outside of that, you're just juicing your brain.

That being said, if you're unable to control yourself enough to avoid sex outside reproduction, marry your girl so you get some benefit out of it, namely binding her to you permanently.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3175875/Does-semen-control-woman-s-genes-behaviour-Exposure-affect-hormones-fertility-overall-health-study-claims.html

This article states that at least one of the beneficial effects dissipate afterwards.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/homo-consumericus/201107/the-protective-health-benefits-sperm-pregnant-women

In short, celibacy is best for you outside of reproduction, but if you gotta blow the load, make sure it's with the same girl. Marriage takes you there, and beneficial effects occur outside just pregnancy.

If you're just doing protected sex, you're buzzing your brain and exchanging the resources necessary to form the sperm in for adopamine rush. Total waste, as she gets no permanent benefit either.

>>3615

Iktf, but then I was already bi. Now I mostly think of cuddling with a trap.