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e846b8  No.30180

Hey guys. I am going to share with you a little personal information about myself because I am concerned, any advice is welcome. I was sick of being treated like a bastard by my parents so I confronted my mother about her grievances about Islam. She has told me many times now she is an atheist and among other things “believes in science” , “believes in cremation”. I have no idea why she says these things.Even my father, who I believe is a money worshipping jew and puppet of the devil, saw how absurd her statement was. It seems that life imitates art or perhaps absurdity. What did she say? In our long conversation she literally said in her words “I do not believe in Islam. I beieve in cremation”. Verbatim. How can one call me a religious fanatic but say something so disgusting! If somebody ends up in the news after being burned to death by his parents, let it be known (as an insurance policy of sorts) that my name is Oliver. I take care not to be a narcissist and I will not get doxxed over my name alone because I do not invoke myself everywhere… but I felt it was necessary. It’s a garbage kuffar name unfortunately. I wonder if I suddenly died for any reason, would they cover up the fact I am a Muslim? This is not paranoia on my part but I just want to live more life as a Muslim. I want to complete Hajj and learn to pray properly. I learn more every day. So far I usually just perform wudu, put my forehead on the ground, and say something like Subhanallah 100 times. Yes I saw the jpeg in the sticky I will do it properly one of these days…

I only figured out to actually pray in the correct direction towards Makkah the other day. I am so desperate to have a life. I have lived my entire <20 years of life until this year as a kuffar. If I was not a believer I would cry, but I know that whatever should happen is best so I can not worry. I am only scared because I know my life has meant nothing. There will be nobody who has loved me. I told my parents I wanted to get married and have children and my mother’s first response was not joy or surprise but cold dismay and a question of how I would pay for this… I did not really understand and no reasoning would work. I am attending college and am on the honor roll and my parents have this 2 story house with many empty bedrooms. It is clear that I am not welcome in their home. I cannot let myself be defeated by their cold rejection though. If my ‘parents’ hate Islam and Muslims and will not wish to have grandchildren then fine! My children will not have kuffar grandparents! They will never need to suffer the sight of these two dogs from hell I know as ‘mother’ and ‘father’. Islam is the only family I have. I know there are young children who have no parents because theirs were murdered. I would be selfish and thankful if I could pretend that my own parents were good people but it is simply not true. There is one guy in particular that when I was casually browsing the Internet I thought he was so cool I had to learn more about him… I read all sorts of articles of his life and his brothers and his work with other Muslims. That amazing life along so many others that died alongside him and were martyred is what led me to know I must accept Islam as a fact because there is no other or more virtuous life. I am a runt and I will always be a runt. I do not have delusions about achieving what they have achieved. I obey all laws never broken any of them ever never will. I just know that this guy who inspired me to Islam (keep in mind I am not an idolater) has 2 or more kids apparently and they will never have a father. Can you imagine it. All that struggle and his kids will probably be persecuted by the Mossad or Putin when they grow up. It’s no secret that the west hates Islam. That is why I have always wanted to be a father. I have the good fortune to be in such a position to live a life free of dangerous duties and have the selfish ability to raise a family but I don’t have a family of my own until that moment I marry a Muslim woman but my ‘parents’ are unhappy this is my dream in life. I am like a pebble that is being crushed. Pic unrelated but obviously he’s another cool guy.

Did any of you guys have anxieties like this… top this current problem of mine with one you have overcame and let me know what you did. By the way… there is no way to reconcile with my parents. It is clear once I finish college I will never see them again.

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b9a682  No.30182

>>30181

Some people have devil parents though and nothing is owed to them just because they do the absolute minimum of feeding the children they chose to have. OP's grievances could very well be legitimate.

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db4e4d  No.30183

>>30180

And We have enjoined upon man goodness to parents. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. To Me is your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do. [29:8]

Be good and decent to your parents, even if they are unbelievers, but do not obey them if they try to make you do anything against Islam. Otherwise, they are entitled to their own free will and can reject Islam all they want. The sin is on their heads, but if you follow them into sin, then that's on you.

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97778e  No.30188

>>30180

First of all, you can't insult your parents or disrespect them, even if they are very evil with you. No matter what, you serve them and obey them, except if it goes against your deen. Allah swt comes first, then second is your mom and dad. So yeah, they might be mean, cold, distant, but you can't cut ties with them. Never.

And don't think you can't reach the level of the great mujahideen, just study islam, read quran and you will know how great that deed is with little effort.

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97778e  No.30189

So my advice would be learn the 5 pillars, keep studying, get a nice paying job and get married to a muslimah inshallah, masjids are a good place to meet fathers and also if you can meet muslim students if you have an MSA at your college, if not, then try online muslim dating. Keep contact with your parents and be patient with them, that will require a lot of patience probably but that also means more good deeds in your record. Keep giving them dawah until they pass away and you don't have the right to give up. Or else they can complain to Allah swt about you, even if they die kuffar. Be careful about that!

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1f0b79  No.30263

>>30180

Some new Muslims when they converted to Islam have been treated far worse by their parents than you have. They were beaten, forced to renounce their Islam, forced to eat pork, and many other things. You should always look at people who are less fortunate than you are in order to be grateful for what you have.

Try to make amends with your parents and be polite to them, even though it is very difficult for you. If they don’t want to accept Islam that is their decision. If you show kindness to them over time, you don’t know what will happen. Don’t expect them to just convert overnight. If you let your mind dwell on your problems, it will only make them seem worse. Just be patient with them and practice praying. Maybe you could try to learn the motions themselves first, before you try to learn what to say.

Don’t plan to completely sever ties with your parents, that is a severe sin.

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No one who severs the ties of kinship will enter Paradise.” Narrated by Muslim in his Saheeh.

When a man asked him, “O Messenger of Allaah, whom should I honour?” He said: “Your mother.” He said: “Then whom?” He said: “Your mother.” He said: “Then whom?” He said: “Your mother.” He said: “Then whom?” The fourth time he said: “Your father, then the next closest and the next closest.” Also narrated by Muslim.

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b9a682  No.30275

>>30263

If they choose to sever ties with him then it's not really his fault anymore.

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14a788  No.30282

Concerning marriage.

There are three conditions:

-That you are mentally sane

-That you are not chronically handicapped or diseased, especially with a high risk of death.

-*That you have enough income to support your family*.

Your mother's reaction was correct.

Your goal in life now should be to be as productive as possible. Work hard, and may Allah help you deal with your parent's rejection. There are few hardships in life worse than that.

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14a788  No.30283

For some help, try to get a copy of sahih al bukhari or similar books describing the life of thr prophet صلى الله عليه و سلم, it will give you a better picture of what your behaviour as a strong, mentally sturdy muslim looks like

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277751  No.30344

Oliver isn't a kufr name, it literally means "olive tree planter"

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b9a682  No.30347

>>30344

>Oliver isn't a kufr name, it literally means "olive tree planter"

and kafir(pl. kuffar) can mean planter as well. So OP is technically correct.

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