intervention 引きこもり 08/08/20 (Sat) 19:47:15 eb3d9c No. 7805
mom and her boyfriend took me out today to have breakfast, which is the first time I have been out in public since god knows how long. They tried to have a discussion with me about what I plan to do in the future and whatnot, and also why some of my behavior is "problematic". Idk, what's the truth, how much is me trying to cope with this, or if they were bullshitting with me and pretending like they are trying to be good parents. anyone have similar experiences?
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引きこもり 08/09/20 (Sun) 02:24:14 eb3d9c No. 7806
>>7805
to elaborate a little more mom's bf when on a whole spiel on how his job is to make sure my moms happy, and I get that. and then she tried to come up with the excuse that "sometimes I don't even want to come home because the house is a mess" which is bullshit. you stay with your boyfriend because you like staying with him. also we have two drastic ideas on cleanliness and I try to meet her in the middle. After that he proceeded to ask me what my long and short term goals were and I just mentioned some stuff I was looking into (because I think it's about time I put my NEETdom to an end before I blow my brains out) and refuted everything I said because I didn't give him the answer he desired.
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引きこもり 10/09/20 (Fri) 05:30:22 ed72da No. 7812
They probably do want to help, but they don't know what you need because you are probably very quiet. They also are normies so their idea of what you should be doing is different than yours.
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引きこもり 12/21/20 (Mon) 23:31:37 629c2f No. 7828
>>7805
>They tried to have a discussion with me about what I plan to do in the future and whatnot, and also why some of my behavior is "problematic".
It's a genuine concern that they have about your future, but they also need to be aware that you've been living an isolated existence and even going out is a struggle when you just want to be alone. For them to bring all that up at once is only going to likely push you away. If you can, sit down and talk to them about some little things that you feel comfortable talking about at your own pace.
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