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How bad was your first time? How much did it hurt?
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No.12647
>>6098
I'm still a virgin.
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No.12653
>be 18 and invited to normie house party
>proceed to get drunk as hell because you don't have to socialize when there's a bottle on your lips
>some kinda weird guy in his 20s is there too and keeps talking to me while I just talk about random stuff
>he goes out to smoke a cigarette outside and I follow him
>outside we see a forest and I mention how it looks like that Slender (current memegame of the month)
>Y-you play vidya?
>He now refuses to let me alone
>I get drunk enough to think he's cute
>we proceed to go to the party hosts' parent's room
>he takes off his pants and puts his dick through his boxers
>proceed to lick the tip of his dick and having no idea what I'm doing
>proceed to have incredibly awkward sex where I fake moan very loudly because that's what you're supposed to do right
>I'm not aroused at all actually but I want to finally stop being a virgin
>It only hurts a little
>neither of us cums and it gets so awkward that we just stop
>As I dress up I notice there's a bit of blood in my undies
>awkwardly hug as I give him a fake number
>don't have sex or any boy contact me for another year as I'm filled with regret and grow a hate for sex
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No.12657
>>12653
What did he look like?
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No.12660
>>12657
That fucking side swept bowl cut hair sported along with a flimsy sad try of a beard.
Was a bit chubby, but not fat and at least tall.
Also it's been so lang that I can barely recall his face. But he was in total just painfully average.
Weird was mostly his stupid, vacant smile and that he kept talking to me.
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No.13757
>>12653
>>I'm not aroused at all
>>It only hurts a little
How is this possible? Because of the alcohol? Still though.
I was aroused and it hurt like shit.
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No.13773
>>10827
You're an inspiration. Don't trust the other hoes in the thread.
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No.13775
>>12062
I saw your story in another thread.
Or maybe it was this thread and I forgot I've already read this before.
Or Deja vu or something.
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No.13849
>>10829
>Whore jealous of a women who didn't whore herself out.
Hope you enjoy never finding true love, bitch.
>>10827
Don't listen to the other jealous women in this thread, they're whores. I will tell you that many men, and not just robot types, want someone who hasn't been defiled. Keep it up and you'll win big, unlike the other whores here.
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No.13850
>>6627
As a 30 year old kissless virgin guy I'm not sure how I'd react to being groped by a woman like that, but I can't deny I'd probably enjoy it to some extent, though I'd probably also be royally confused and a bit scared at the world having gone completely mad.
The closest I've ever been to that was a group of teenage girls ironically wolf whistling behind my back as a joke when I was around ten, so that's decades ago.
I and probably most guys on this website can't possibly relate to your feelings on the matter of that groper, but I doubt any of us can see it as something being wrong with you or your reaction either.
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No.13851
>>12062
I'm left trying to figure out if guys should consider themselves lucky that they generally have to put a lot more effort into getting laid, and therefore have a lower chance of making a mistake like that, while they're still typical stupid teenagers.
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No.18020
>>6306
I broke my own hymen when I was 11 years old through fingering myself, bit by bit till one time there was actually blood.
It hurt, but for some reason little me thought that I should have been able to stick 3 fingers inside myself.
So yea it broke sexually, but a lack of a hymen certainly doesnt indicate a non virgin
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No.18021
>>18020
>but a lack of a hymen certainly doesnt indicate a non virgin
This. I hope this isn't pervasive myth because the hymen is surprisingly easy to break. I simply broke mine through the use of tampons.
>>13851
You could view it from that perspective, however I believe most teen sexual mishaps stem from improper parenting and/or a lack of guidance and occurrences such as hers would dwindle to nearly naught if homelife was stronger. There's a lot of pressure on teens to be sexy and have sex. Children/teens are inherently ignorant. This coupled with the undue influence of the media, if parents don't maintain a watchful eye their children may learn through The School of Hard Knocks about reproductive responsibility.
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No.18025
>>18020
I'm always kind of surprised when people describe their first time being painful. I had that nonsense well taken care of by the time I was, like, 12. Just through masturbation.
That said, my first time was pretty horrendous. It was essentially a revenge fuck. I was dating a guy for three years who was very religious, I was still going to church but wasn't very serious about it. My bf was one those "I want to wait" types, and I definitely wasn't. He always refused to have any kind of sexual intimacy with me.
It REALLY got to me. All I could hear was rejection because I knew I wasn't terribly attractive and I've always been very insecure about it. It drove a wedge between us, and I gradually began to resent him for it. I became a frigid, hostile bitch towards him, and one day, he just decided he'd had enough and dumped my ass 'cold. He was already dating someone else within the month, someone considerably hotter, mind you.
That pretty much crushed me. I was pissed and very much sexually frustrated (as pathetic as that sounds). So, I acted I rashly, I figured I would get back at him and check something off my bucket list in one go. I called up the ugliest (easiest) friend of his that I knew (they weren't even that close). Got to know him over Facebook for a bit. We went out, he brought me back to his place, I insisted on getting him drunk and, rather unceremoniously, we had the most dispassionate, sterile, awkward sex you can imagine. I regretted it even as it was happening. It wasn't really his fault, my head just wasn't on straight.
I only felt likecomplete shit when it was over and done. I even locked myself in the bathroom afterward and cried my eyes out over the toilet, but made sure not to let him hear. I didn't stay the night, I was going to head home but I decided to run to parents place and asked if I could stay with them for a few days, because I was just feeling so abandoned by everybody.
It was such a negative experience for me that I remained willfully cellibate for about four years, all through university, that is until I ended up with my current bf.
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No.18031
>>10829
I love how asshurt some women get when they're confronted with a someone who just doesn't buy into their loose, hedonistic lifestyle, lol. It's so fucking beyond petty, they take it as personally slight that anyone dares choose a different path in life.
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No.18032
>>18031
*as a personal slight
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No.18034
>>18025
He fucked your shit up. No, seriously, you're fucked now.
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No.18035
>>18034
>you're fucked now
What do you mean? I'm in a stable relationship now, Anon.
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No.18040
>>18035
>bf
Seriously. That guy fucked you up without putting a damn thing in you. Your first time was a revenge fuck you immediately regretted, on some guy that either wasn't man enough or a fucking psychopath, followed by years of false chastity, when you could've met "the one", and have been deep into a family already.
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No.18041
>>18031
>implying not having a sex drive is totally lenormal and not a symptom of a bigger problem, whether it be a physical or psychological one
>implying sleeping around is the same as masturbating
Off with your chastity belt!
>>6306
Happened to me when I was learning how to do the splits. I assure you, there was nothing sexual about it.
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No.18042
>>18025
Holy shit femanon, you fucked up pretty bad. But it happened now, and I can only hope it helped you grow as a person and youre sorry now.
Meanwhile, Im looking forward to my first time with guy Im 100% marrying. Im happy you have someone too now, who I assume is working out better than the first
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No.18043
>>18031
This, it's disgusting just how hateful they are
>I want to have sex only with people I would marry/am okay with having a child with
>>REEEEEEEEEEEE YOU JUST DONT LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH
???
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No.18044
>>18040
>false chastity
I mean, I didnt see anything in her post that suggest her first bf wasnt being sincere. The issue here seemed to be a lack of communication and understanding, his decision and her need are both normal, and not wrong.
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No.18047
>>18041
>off with your chastity belt
You're proving her right, whore.
>>18044
No. She was pretty much the only one in the right. His lack of commitment sent her overboard, and then she completely fucked her shit up by jumping straight into whoredom, all because she couldn't handle it all. Absolutely disgusting.
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No.18050
>>18047
Fucking some random while drunk to get revenge on your boyfriend for wanting to wait isn't in the right
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No.18051
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>>18050
Wanting to get married and have children together is very much in the right. Unfortunately, she loved him too much, and took the heartbreak very badly, corrupting herself in the process. No doubt the fellow's just waiting for vid related to prophesise once his mad dash for gash and cash comes to a slow, geriatric end. Awful man.
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No.18053
>>18040
>a fucking psychopath
I don't see how you've managed to arrive at that conclusion. He knew me and my ex had broken up. It's not like he knew what I was up to either, as I at least made a show of wanting to get to know him and being genuinely interested. If anything, I was the one being predatory. He even continued to pursue me for a few weeks after the fact. I tried ghosting him and hoped he'd take the hint, but I eventually found the spine to confront him and break it off officially. I've always felt guilty about that, he really wasn't a horrible guy and I treated him like throwaway trash. It was probably for his own good that he didn't get too deeply involved with me at the time, though.
>false chastity
"Chastity" usually implies some sort of moralistic reasoning being involved in its' practice, which is why I used "celibate" instead. I think it would be more accurate to say that I simply disillusioned with sex as a result of my demoralizing past experience, and no longer viewed it as something worth pursuing. Even so, I did mention that I'm not exactly striking; it's not like I have men throwing themselves at me.
>you could've met "the one"
What, you think that because I hit a speed-bump that I've given up? I don't get you, man. People can learn from their past mistakes, you know. I'm only 27, for fuck's sake.
>>18042
>I can only hope it helped you grow as a person
Believe me, it has.
>>18044
>The issue here seemed to be a lack of communication and understanding
The communication was fine. Understanding? Not so much. I let my insecurities rule my thoughts and couldn't see things any other way because of it.
>>18047
>whoredom
Wow, I guess one time in a moment vulnerability = whore, now.
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No.18054
>>18053
>I don't see how you've managed to arrive at that conclusion
I don't see how you've determined I am calling the hog you slept with the psychopath, and not the guy who led you on, and left you to corrupt yourself.
>I tried ghosting him and hoped he'd take the hint
Well, I guess the other anon's right about you being just as awful of a person.
>I simply disillusioned with sex as a result of my demoralizing past experience
Which you brought upon yourself. You were but a pristine flower, and you roasted yourself in the flames of sin.
>you think that because I hit a speed-bump that I've given up
You drove yourself into a wall, because you got heartbroken over some dickless bastard, and now you're three years from total impact. You're literally a bastard child in tow away from being the epitome of a bottom rung female. There's a word folks from outside of this site call a lady like you, that I really don't like saying. I much prefer whore to it.
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No.18055
>>18054
Welp, none of that was particularly reasonable or worth responding to, so I'm just gonna' take it as bait.
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No.18056
>>18055
You cannot argue against it because you know it is the truth. Pretending that I am doing this only jokingly shall change none of that. You are beyond redemption. I feel ashamed for disagreeing with that anon from before so harshly.
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No.18057
>>18053
>People can learn from their past mistakes
people can learn from the mistakes of others as well. i've learned that you are trash.
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No.18058
>>18057
>people can learn from the mistakes of others as well
In that case, I'm happy to be of service, I guess. Although, I still don't get what has led you to make such harsh conclusions about me, given that I have not made any attempt to excuse or justify my past behavior. But, you're a paragon of human perfection, I'm sure, so who am I to question? You've never fucked up.
Then again, you're just trolling, aren't you?
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No.18071
>>18058
You turned yourself into pure garbage over not getting any, and you feel no shame for it.
You are beyond redemption. Be gone.
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No.18811
>>6304
common misconception about the hymen. it actually tears
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No.18812
>>6427
I didn't have sex for about 5 years and didn't use dildos. When I did have sex again, it hurt a bit for the first few minutes but believe me, that shit will open right up again. Like riding a bicycle. Don't stress about it. Just tell him you're really tight and get on top. Take your time.
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No.18824
>>18025
Religion fucks people up so bad.
Don't feel too bad about this first time of yours. Not ideal circumstances, but it's not the fucked up part of the story.
>>18071
She just had dispassionate sex. That's like –intentionally losing at checkers or some game. That level. "Redemption" Pff. Playing the religious card for real or a troll is stupid either way.
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No.18846
>>18824
>that's like –intentionally losing at checkers or some game
The game of course being their lives. Religious institutions played this card all the way back to shamans for a reason, and that's because it kept people together. No virgins, no marriages.
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No.18849
>>18846
Evidently you are wrong. She has a life. Only religious-cucks think less of her, and the fool who spurned her is probably married to an even bigger fool and they're miserable together.
>Muh shaman wisdom
You aren't a close student of the ancients
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No.18861
>>18849
>the fool who spurned her is probably married to an even bigger fool and they're miserable together
Which doesn't spare her from being miserable either, considering she was the one who was fooled.
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No.19434
>>6407
Oh great, here comes the male who just has to make it about himself. Fuck off pig
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No.19489
it was horrible because he tried to make me top and that's gross and the most painful part of the whole experience.
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No.19554
>>6607
It really depends on your point of view.
A part of me says that being a virgin is a good thing for both male and female because it really does make the first time all the more special.
When I look at it that way, there really is a sense for sex after marriage.
After all, sex isn't really THAT big a part of being married. It may play a big role in intimacy, but it isn't the end all reason to be together in the first place.
On the other hand, there also is a reason why virginity isn't all that important today.
Today, sexual compatibility between couples have also become important.
I myself wouldn't want a woman who barely gives any effort in bed, and I'm sure some women share the same sentiment.
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No.19558
>>6607
>>19554
I guess what I'm trying to say is, it doesn't really matter.
Just enjoy life as it is, and think about it: do you want to be with someone who places virginity too high on a pedestal that it becomes an issue if you aren't a virgin?
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No.19563
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No.19564
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No.19632
Pretty sad to see how many women have had terrible first time experiences. I was lucky and had a memorable, great first time with my current boyfriend of four years. We were both 18 and though he wasn't a virgin, he knew how I felt, so he got us a hotel for complete privacy for the ~deflowering~. It was the first time I saw him fully naked, so I was really stoked and after some foreplay, he pushed in slowly. Yeah, it hurt a little, and I felt like I was stretching to hell, but it wasn't bad at all. I was excited and so I relaxed enough to just let it all the way in. I barely even masturbated before this. I wouldn't even use my fingers much, let alone an object, so I was surprised I was able to take it and not bleed or anything. Not gonna lie, man's packing some decent heat, too. So it was even more surprising.
tl;dr yeah first time hurt a little but it shouldn't be excruciating pain and if it is then either you're really tense and uncomfy or you aren't turned on enough (or both). It should be really exciting and fun imo
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No.19633
>>19632
Same here. My first time was quite nice and only got better. It doesn't have to be bad or very painful. If you have a partner who listens to you and doesn't just go rushing in it'll be fine. We tried a few times before that and it was painful for me so we just fooled around. Then one time it just.. slipped in, lol. Yay!
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No.19677
My first time was extremely painful…
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No.19836
>>6293
What if it's his first time too?
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No.19838
It was quite painful for me but he couldn't stop telling me how good it felt so I was still happy
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No.19841
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