/girltalk/ - Girl Talk

>>4768

>I love being in control

I know you do, and in fact, most girls do.

There's something, some sort of defence mechanism that tells you something you "start" is better than having something "happen" to you, so you would feel more at ease flirting with a awkward/cute boy rather than giving in to a very pushy confident guy.

Yet… people need guidance.

Many girls hate depending on dominant guys for all the trouble it brings, but they always go back for another fix once a week.

It's only natural to follow a leader, it just so happens boys are genetically engineered to fit well in that role.

>>4772

<You see, with males I search for someone with a good personality. Physical appeal being the least important.

I am partially in disbelief. Any girl has a "minimum beauty requirement" for their partner, and they would never go lower even if they had a perfect personality.

<Dunno why guys base it all on looks tho

I'd like to know where does this opinion come from.

My first instinct is to guess you don't have a lot of male friends, but I'll let you clarify if you want.

I'm sorry I'm using this as a chat/blog, but I'm really having a pleasant time talking to you, BO.

>>4773

>I'd like to know where does this opinion come from

It is a bio psychological trait that men are prone to visual stimulation since they are the aggressor types, with millions of fertile sperm cells waiting to impregnate every women they find attractive. Women, on the other hand, are bio psychologically hardwired to be stimulated by auditive signals, hence choosing their mate(s) by traits that are valuable in the long run - meaning in building and providing their family. This is why women are the recipents; they judge on personality to secure their well being and future.

There is a plebbit thread that explains it quite well: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3z8o75/why_dont_men_get_as_much_of_a_thrill_over/

The first top comment and the following explain it all.

>>4779

>>4778

But anon, I'm making friends with snailgirl, can't you tell?

I wasn't asking for a reason, i wanted her opinion.

>>4774

<Well, the avera male is ugly in the eyes of females, yet the average female is pretty in the eyes of males.

<They tend to assume girls have either no personality or are too complex, so they focus on body… Face, eyes, hair, legs, bust, rear, hips and even feet… You cantvtell me you dont see that

I'm happy to be an exception to your prejudice, then.

I both can't find most girls pretty (because most of them are so shallow, a glance lets me through most of their mind, where's the fun in that?), and thus i don't really look for appearance either, despite having standards myself.

It actually seems rather ideal to me that we are so similar. Would you be interested in talking elsewhere? No pressure.

>>4782

>But anon, I'm making friends with snailgirl, can't you tell?

>I wasn't asking for a reason, i wanted her opinion.

>be you

>be a total faggot

>thinks this board is private or some shit

I gave you a short description and a source with the best possible explaination to enlighten you and create discussion, and your beta-orbiting snappiness is all the gratitude I get.

>>4783

>I gave you a short description and a source with the best possible explaination to enlighten you and create discussion, and your beta-orbiting snappiness is all the gratitude i get

That made me smile, kek.

I don't know, it felt like you were stating the obvious to me, not much to discuss there.

>>4787

>please don't beta-orbit

It's like the anon said, this is a public board, not fit for getting to know each other.

But you're obviously blinded by many other annoying anons, so i really have no interest in pursuing this, knowing your prejudice.

Spoiler for unrelated to the thread.

>>4800

>It's like the anon said, this is a public board, not fit for getting to know each other.

Yes it is tho.

>But you're obviously blinded by many other annoying anons, so i really have no interest in pursuing this, knowing your prejudice.

Can you blame me?

>>4802

>Can you blame me?

Unwanted female attentions can get annoying to me, and I'm a male.

I can only imagine how you feel, expecually in this board, being the website a hotspot for virgins and neck beards.

I'm just looking for conversation so let's stop talking about this.

Instead I'll ask to everyone itt: when was the moment, if there was one, when you decided your sexual role preference? (Being a dom or a sub)

>>4800

>But you're obviously blinded by many other annoying anons, so i really have no interest in pursuing this, knowing your prejudice.

Yes, she is being "blinded" to your charm by us "commoners" and you are the one who is now showing disinterest; now that she feels unwanted, she's going to pursue you, right?

You are a real piece of work. I'm sure it works a lot IRL, but man, it's just funny how desperate you must be to go to such efforts.

>>4818

He's the 5th stage of this. It's hysterical.

>>4787

>TL;DR men dont understand women.

>God damn it.

And given how little aggressive men these days are already, and will become even less aggressive, there is no hope of improvement in the future. Meaning: no initiative to approach women equals in little to no experience on how to read their cues. Nonetheless, Snailgirl, if there's the situation where a guy particularly interests you, don't be afraid of taking the conversation into a certain direction.

>>4800

>don't know, it felt like you were stating the obvious to me, not much to discuss there

I highly doubt you were in the know about all of it, at all, since you are a beta-orbiter - on this god-forsaken Korean dry cleaning forum, of all places, to top it off - and prone to immediately project your insecurities like your posts have already proven:

>>4810

>>4848

You really need to do some introspection because these mental gymnastics are quite concerning to witness.

>>4855

>I highly doubt you were in the know about all of it, at all

I actually heard about that on /b/ quite some time ago.

It only makes sense that males look for many partners since they can fuck without "consequences" while women may eventually get stuck for 9 months.

It's a dated concept in this age of baby suppressing medicines and trinkets, yet most people still struggle recognizing what's an authentic thought from what your body is telling you, so i can see that stereotype existing as long as humanity is alive.

Now, since we agree, there's not much else to discuss, happy?

>and prone to immediately project your insecurities

>implying I'm single

>implying I'm a virgin

>implying I'm a neckbeard

Anon please.

>>4856

Since you're used to cues and passivity, it shouldn't be hard for you to tell if a guy is inexperienced or not. You also need to take into consideration that a lot of men have (probably) as many mommy issues as women have daddy issues for the past three generations. This is why a good amount of men feel beneath women, hence act rather emasculated.

>>4857

>Now, since we agree, there's not much else to discuss, happy?

I don't agree that it is dated, quite the contrary. There is a reason why human beans did and do not partake in hedonistic degenracy for the majority of time since the Neolithtic Revolution. Only a fraction of our world population can be content and happy with too many options. STDs are still a huge concern for men and that the law can fuck them over in case they impregnated someone. Promiscuity is very damaging for both genders, because it largely contributes to a mentality of seeing always opportunities to upgrade from one mate to another, hence never being satisfied with what they have, even though it does good to them. As you can see currently, the complete "sexual liberation" resulted in a tremendous decline in birthrate, increase in divorce rate, promiscuity and promoting mental illnesses with the disguise of being fetishized or claimed to be sexual orientations. All those factors combined created an unstable society where both genders antagonize each other.

>implying I'm implying

Nigger, I didn't refer to anything what you listed, let alone thought about it. Just said you're a beta-orbiter in denial with serious issues in mental gymnastics.

>>4858

>As you can see currently, the complete "sexual liberation" resulted in a tremendous decline in birthrate, increase in divorce rate, promiscuity and promoting mental illnesses with the disguise of being fetishized or claimed to be sexual orientations. All those factors combined created an unstable society where both genders antagonize each other.

Call me a bigot, but i'd take a christian heavy country over an atheist heavy country anyday.

Something about strict rules keeps people from going insane.

You want more freedom? That's a very human wish, and not a wrong one at it, but as our clever ancestors spoke, in excessive freedom lies slavery.

>serious issues in mental gymnastics

At times. My problem is browsing imageboards while high.

>>4860

You fucking kike twist everything anybody says, except when it is Snailgirl, you fucking cuck. I've seen through your Jewish tricks.

>>4864

Since you're asking I guess it is hard for you. Tone of voice, dominance-submissiveness ratio in behavior, and body language are pretty good indicators to find out if someone's experienced or not. But now, knowing that you cannot tell the difference, I conclude you don't have (much) experience either in flirting. My advice to you is: before you taint your flirting methods with the stereotypical female methods, better practice being upfront with sovereignty. It's quicker to get results and you'll be judged for your personality, as it should be.

>>4886

No shit.

Can't blame me after ranting about how males are slowly turning beta, can you?

>>4890

I know, i know, it's more of the same shit every time. Do you think i've never been called impulsive, irrational, presumptious, even creepy before? You'd think people would get bored of calling me like that but nah, here we go again. The truth? I'm too high to care. I've met more people doing this dumb shit than all the people i met by following the other sheeps in my whole life. Hell, i wouldn't be here, allowing you all to laugh at me (or with me) if i wasn't high. I'm starting to see shapes right now, i feel it coming, and i will lay down and enjoy it.

>>4887

The fact that you're namefagging on the one active female board, speaks volumes about you.

>>4875

It seems like what you're after is just a person. Being infatuated with you is a real pain in the ass, and is indeed a red flag, but any person who can only talk about one thing is hardly ever worth listening to.

If you're after human interactions, I'd advise working on your grammar, though. The lack of proof-reading also speaks volumes about you.

Sage because this thread seems to have gone completely off the rails, and I'm not really contributing much.

>>4900

No you did not.

I am just adding.

All of this discussion makes absolutely no sense. So you want a guy with experience… but how in hell is a guy supposed to get experience if all women want experience in the first place?

It's such circular thinking- you want something that someone doesn't have, and in order to get that thing which they don't have, that someone has to get it from you, which you won't give because they don't have it.

>inb4 haha beta

You want men to stop being beta before they come to you… but they can only stop being beta by coming to you. Fucking bloody nonsense. Another thing: why do you ask men to be aggressive and then get all offended when they are? It's madness! There's approximately a 75 percent chance I'll get btfo'd, but being btfo'd by a solid answer would be nice

>>4927

> but how in hell is a guy supposed to get experience if all women want experience in the first place

I look for "social" experience. Betas usually don't know how to interact with women, and not even men.

What me (and several other girls, I can assume) want are guys who aren't complete morons when it comes to socializing. Like, if you can't even talk with a GUY (who should be easier to approach since you have no sexual desires for them), how awkward can your approach to a girl be?

>but they can only stop being beta by coming to you.

Like I said: There are more ways of being a beta. Having zero social interactions, or failing to read even the simplest of cues, is just one of them.

Get it?

>>4933

>You only need to find the right girl, then

>>4936

>that classic no bucket required reference

>Sounds like bullshit but trust me, it can happen.

I'm just beating myself up about it. It's not that I don't believe you, I just don't want to be thirty-five and miserable married to another miserable thirty-five year old who just so happens to like me. I wasted my high school years with my old teenage betaness, and now I want to live. It feels as if women just look down on me immediately because I'm blue-collar (even if we're both working the same job), wear glasses, and like scholarly things. My job is temporary and just for money, I have a career ahead of me; I can't help being blind and not being able to afford contacts; and I want to do what I love. Again, it feels as if I'm immediately despised and/or pitied by women because of those things. I feel absolutely trapped. of course that may be that good ol' heap of histrionic disorder my mother passed right down to me talking, but still

>>4765

There's the bad boy who dresses in torn denim and chains, maybe all black, shredded/short greasy hair, motorcycle he bought with his financial aid, 2-year service members, dropout or runaway, drug dealer, graffiti artist, parkour trespasser or vandal, no skating or rollerblading here - petty high school/freshmen or sophomore crimes, antics, mostly phases brought on by struggle to fit in or impress us.

~~

Then there are your bad boys who grow up ditching school pretending to be sick/have a dying family member to play games or ditch a test, petty hackers and computer criminals in the making, convincing liars, forgers, petty thievery, ding-dong ditching, pranksters, obnoxious music and gaming - your serious gamers, perverts, and goody two shoes at the breaking point who do it for the fun.

~~

Then you have your bad boys who kill, rob, cheat, manipulate, gangbang, etc. - hardened criminals, convicts, gang/organized crime members, comic book villains who do it well, you know…

~~

The common bad boy is a common misconception of the outgoing party type who texts or dips in class/on the job, isn't afraid to dress up for the Halloween party and play some public touch football, and also has a potty mouth and might smoke some pot every now and again. The worse thing these bad boys might end up doing is date raping some underage girl or doing blow and binge drinking if the opportunity presents itself and the situation is right.

>So which one attracts you the most?

>>4856

>Guilty of being passive and giving clues and hints, tbh.

It may not be effective, but it's cute and girly, so I say keep doing it until you feel like acting differently.

>>4892

>projects like a motherfucker

>denies like a motherfucker

>2high2care bro!!

TOP KEK

>>4902

>>4898

It's true that relationships are work, but just like work in real life, if you find some worth doing, it can be fulfilling and rewarding. You'll be ready someday…

>>4935

It's true, anon. Normies have relationships with other normies and 99% of those relationships and over 50% of those marriages shit the bed with a 3-4 years. Finding the right person is something few people put the effort in to do, and look at the results…

>>4940

Know why she isn't opening up? Because she just doesn't like you, man and sometimes that's how it is. If you want to ruin the friendship you can pester her to "Just give you a chance. One date." which is basically the hail-mary of the dating game, but then you really have to sink it to be a success. That you moved slowly off the bat and didn't pounce when she became single means you can't suddenly and dramatically change your demeanor to being Mr. "Casul", here as it will be noticably fake, and nobody real wants someone fake - that you already talk with her means she already basically knows who you are, so there's little to no mystery you have as leverage.

>sis said drop it, friend said don't

Your sister was giving you actual advice, your friend was just trying to be nice and not make herself associated with your disappointment about the truth. Nobody likes to be the bearer of bad news, after all.

>>5012

Real talk here.

I've been hit on by both guys and girls, and it kinda opened my mind on something.

When that happens, you can CLEARLY tell who wants to fuck and who wants to also have fun with you, so it made me think.

Why would a girl want to be with me, if I'm not even good enough as a friend?

tl;dr have fun with girls and you'll get lucky eventually

That said try not falling into friendzone status because that's a one way road.

>>4935

<You only need to find the right girl, then tee hee

That's a cruel, cruel joke

I hope you are reborn as a man and have to hear the same words from a woman

>>5064

>What's so bad about a man being both?

Literally nothing, but it's a feat easier said than done.

First and foremost, it's hard to find a girl who's your kind of friend, many girls struggle having a simple conversation unrelated to daily life, and if you only PARTIALLY like her as a friend, then what's the fucking point?

And more than that, you need skill in order to turn that friendship into something more, without having the girl go into paranoia and have her think "all boys just want one thing/ why can't i just have friendship/ i don't want things to become awkward".

You're better off focusing on one thing and sticking to it, you'll have better luck.

>>5069

Anon, she >>5070 is right.

Many guys simply don't know where to look for girls, or how to approach them, so they stop trying. So do try. A real man knows to find a good one you need to be declined several dozen times, but your chance gets better and better the more you succeed.

>>5074

>This meme again

>>5075

But it's true.

Stop making babies and instead adopt.

>>5074

There's one little problem

>>5063

>There's also the fact that a healthy platonic relationship is the foundation of a healthy romantic relationship

Yee, but like I said, a genuine platonic relationship between both sexes, which shall evolve into a romantic relationship to top it off, is an utter rarity. 9 times out of 10 it's about exploiting and deceiving each other with no end game.

>>5084

That's a depressing point of view.

Makes it sound like you've been abused in the past.

Is there something you'd like to tell us…?

>>5090

Is that truly so? And I thought only impressionable young women fall for their own misguided definition of a confident and assertive man.

>>5097

>Fuck instintcs I am more than an hairless monkey

Legend says 98.72 % of mankind aren't.

And >>5095 is right. Chance are zero to none that you'll ever have the same affection for an adopted nigger child than your own children. See it on the bright side: preggos are fucking hot.

>>5097

>We are more than child factories, you know that rigjt?.

>Fuck instintcs I am more than an hairless monkey

Hah, i absolutely love your way of thinking!

You are right, we are likely the first species on the planet to have achieved the ability to go against our nature.

The same concept of intelligence trumps evolution by being a better version of it:

Where bees required thousands of years to craft the info on how to make hives and honey into their dna, we can adapt to radically new situations in the span of months, or in the worst possible case, the span of one single generation.

But is it right to give up on what makes us the human "species", just because we can?

>>5107

>But anon, that adopted child will be my own child.

Genetically, no. There is a very special bond with the child you beared inside your tummy and popped its head out like a watermelon.

>No they aren't.

And that's where you're wrong again, kiddo.The belly and enhanced knockers make most women incredibly attractive. Men associate preggos, logically, with motherly affection (they never had, see mommy issues I mentioned above) and warmth.

I still don't really understand why so many anons itt think they can pretend to be girls.

You're clear as a summer day, fags.

>>5111

>The bell makes most women incredibly attractive.

>>5168

They are just random examples from Google. Maybe not everyone has it that bad, but what pregnancy does to a woman's belly and genitals is shit and often overlooked.

>>5073

>you need to be declined several dozen times

As I replied to Snailgirl, I hope you are reborn as a man and experience what is being a man and we'll talk. You not only have to deal with the nth rejection, going from the old "I have a boyfriend" to a cold "no" or in the worst case scenario being pepper sprayed and arrested without a second thought just because. Most women make sure nobody get close to you again shaming you in public, marking you as "creepy", "weak", "dangerous", pushing all your buttons to make you look exactly as they want. Yes, I'm bitter. I had experienced the worst side of women all my life. They have power over you and they know it. They use your hormones, your desire, your hope against you time and time again. And unlike women, men have no right to show the slightest sign of weakness, because when you are in the ground, she will the first to kick your teeth. Yes, I'm mad. Men have to do all the work, sacrifice time, money and resources in somebody who can and will use them to their whim and them dump them for another toy. They expect men to be all the time a fucking titan with unwavering confidence, but at the end of the day we are human, and that turns them off. "Man up", "you have to endure", "be the rock like, forever". Call me a whiner, laugh at me, I don't care anymore.

I don't want a mother, I don't want an owner, I don't want a slave. I want a partner. Someone who I can connect, communicate, share and grow together. And -as life showed me- I'm asking too much.

Now go girl, Prince Charming doesn't like when you make him waste his time.

Pic very related

>>5179

The good thing is that your pic makes you self-aware.

At the very least, when you are at the bottom you have no other option but to go up, right?

>>5180

>>5180

Sometimes you don't go "up", but mostly anywhere. That's a huge turn off for all people and you hardly have any control or choice over it. They can't understand why this guy who is told by many women he is attractive and interesting suddenly becomes an undead.

>>5200

>Babby's first baitpost

>Had to switch to tor after being told not to samefag

This is getting adorable.

Polite sage for unrelated.

>>5233

I dont see an adoptive child as a foster child. It WILL be my son or daughter, and that's that.

Nothing more, nothing else. I dot want to give birth, I will just raise and be a mother lile that and make a family.

>>5234

Thats honesty dumb.

Time to prove science wrong then.

>>5232

Shit just got real ITT.

So, out of curiosity, do you think you would be likely to adopt in the future, or is it just a thing you'd rather over birthing?

If so, male or female?

>>5235

The child is only yours on paper, but not biologically. Both guys didn't provide completely rational reasons as to why adoption may be a worse alternative to give birth to your own child, so let me give you a good reason: the personality and future behavior of a child are shaped from a very early age, so early that it goes into the negative bumbers - meaning a mother's disposition and mental state affect the psyche of the developing fetus during her pregnancy. Not only external chemical substances - nutrition and environmental circumstances - but also the internal bio chemical reactions of the mother's brain affect her unborn child a great deal.

If you would become a mother yourself, then it would be in your power to be mentally prepared, hence mostly being positive during the pregnancy; while you do not know how orphans developed in their fetal state. This is why their character is less likely to be influenced by your provided education. Did you ever ask yourself how autism is even a thing? It is mostly due to the mother mentally rejecting her child during the pregnancy, resulting the child to withdraw mentally and physically from everybody else as a defense mechanism, in order to prevent the intense feeling of being deprived of affection at all costs. It is one example.

Snailgirl, how old or in what age range are you? It is very common among the youth to be opportunistic nihilists these days. I know it is quite the appealing dispostion because most (if not all) things are easy to reason and justify with saying "It is like it is, and there is no grand reason behind it", but there is reason for everything, everyone, every trait and action.

>>5242

>>5236

>>5234

Has anyone stopped to ask why this decision she has made is getting so much pushback? Do you really think you're going to convince her? Even if so, why do you assume it's your place to try and change other people's minds, on this board of all places? Girls' voices are supposed to be the predominant ones, here.

>>5244 (wasted dubs)

>Has anyone stopped to ask why this decision she has made is getting so much pushback?

Read the posts again and you'll know the reasons.

>Do you really think you're going to convince her?

Dunno, probably not, but at least I can sort my thoughts and also provide a thoughtful perpective to consider for her.

>Even if so, why do you assume it's your place to try and change other people's minds, on this board of all places?

Because I am a wise man, and imageboards one of the best places to have an actual discussion/conversation in written form.

>Girls' voices are supposed to be the predominant ones, here.

And I thought only the reasonably good posts shall be the predominant ones on imagedboards.

>>5249

>be you

>be a total faggot

>unable to debunk anything I've written

>rely on a baseless sarcasm like the true degenerate you are

>>5250

Anon, i appreciate acts of spreading culture just as much as gaining it, but don't you think it's a bit of a wasted time?

In my hometown they used to say "washing the head of the donkey is a waste of water and soap" meaning you can't teach to someone not willing to learn.

>>5242

I still dont understand why you guys consider adoption somethin on the vein of deadly sins. And I dont think a literal fetal bean has much of a personality so to speak

Even if what you guys say is true, I still believe adopting is the best way, and that we are overpopulated.

My future child might not be my "real" child, but it was my choice o not have a "real" one.

>>5244

>>5245

I want a banner version of tha first image.

Also:

>And I thought only the reasonably good posts shall be the predominant ones on imagedboards

You cant be serious lol. Check /b/, /r9k/, /pol/, /int/ and most anime/fetish boards

That quality equals the video quality of anything filmed with a rusty keychain.

>>5253

>I still dont understand why you guys consider adoption somethin on the vein of deadly sins

I didn't say it was, under certain circumstances it is even good, like when one is infertile or is adopting a niece/nephew.

>And I dont think a literal fetal bean has much of a personality so to speak

That wasn't my point, you actually create and contribute a lot with your mental state was what I was saying.

>and that we are overpopulated

We are not. Asia is overpopulated and nigger countries will be overpopulated in the coming decades. But western countries sure as hell aren't. Our whole world population would theoretically fit into New York City.

>You cant be serious lol. Check /b/, /r9k/, /pol/, /int/ and most anime/fetish boards

I frequent the first three boards and besides the usual bants and cuckchan summerfags there can be pretty good and lengthy discussions, you just need to look for the right threads and better don't mention you're a woman.

LURK MOAR FAGET

>>5254

>Asia is overpopulated and nigger countries will be overpopulated in the coming decades. But western countries sure as hell aren't.

If only we could get our shit toghether and treat those apes like the slaves they are, we could live a happy life while they handle the labour.

We're close to economic slavery anyway, we just need to turn it against the right target.

>>5253

I don't think anyone is against you adopting.

You're just giving weird reasons for your ideals, that's all.

Have you considered an Angelina Jolie situation, btw?

>>5258

>But /b/ is just the best board in the whole galaxy universe and /leftypol/ is the bigget trash this place has to offer.

FTFY

>>5265

>aren't we better than that?

See, it's about self defence.

They say to achieve peace you need to prepare for war.

Aren't you ever afraid of being kidnapped by a nigger and raped?

I am sometimes afraid for my sister and friends for that reason, and i don't want to be anymore, so i dispel that fear with hate.

Childish, sure, but i know no other way.

>>5253

best I could do with mspaint

>>5193

Attitude worked better for me than being a insecure closet homosexual bullfrog. Everybody knows "brehs" are in love with their own ass. Being the guy who keeps his cool, makes quick, clear decisions and leads, doesn't take shit from anyone and stands his ground is better for me, no matter how small, weak or ugly you look. No workout will be as satisfying as having integrity. She will not love you (yet), but at least she will respect you.

>>5299

He's right tho.

The person you should be asking advice (as a male) is your dad.

>>5292

Lots of guys gain confidence by working out, something about the exertion builds testosterone (and attitude of self sacrifice).

>>5297

How so?

>>5107

Note: I'm not looking for a ban, here. Please take the following as genuine interest and advice.

>I want to be a mother, but I don't want to make my own child.

What ethnicity are you? Because whites are getting hammered right now and we need global reinforcements badly.

>But anon, that adopted child will be my own child.

Look, SG, you do you, but you must realize that's just a platitude and not actual fact. Check these links before you go ahead:

>https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/long-term-issues-for-the-adopted-child/

>http://www.aboutkidshealth.ca/En/News/NewsAndFeatures/Pages/Mental-health-of-adopted-children-risks-and-protective-factors.aspx

Also, the stats on children of single mothers aren't exactly pleasant, so if you do adopt, don't make it harder on the sprog by denying him/her a father as well.

>>5111

>The belly and enhanced knockers make most women incredibly attractive.

You dumb shit. The "enhanced knockers" are useless because, even when your wife is able to have sex again, they're basically off limits because of the baby. When the little freeloader is finally off the teat and they dry up, they return to an abused version of the originals. As for the belly, I love my wife but that shit got wrecked by our second child and she never did the exercises or used the cream that's supposed to reduce the damage. It's No Man's Land.

>>5297

>Real talk: I would rather be killed than raped.

Me too.

>>5299

>Don't listen to women for romantic advice. They have no idea what they want.

>banned

SG, he's not exactly being nice about it, but he's not wrong. Over the years I've been told many, many things by women about what they want, but most turned out to be lies they were telling themselves. "I like a gentleman" usually goes for the Alpha Chad. "Money doesn't matter to me" is another huge whopper. My wife was the first one who was honest with me, and we were 15 years into the marriage by then and I was pretty upset by what I was hearing. 15 years of her smiling and grinding her teeth hit me right in the face, and I was angry with myself for not figuring it out on my own and more than a little annoyed with her for letting a decade-and-a-half go by like that.

>>5319

It seems to me like you're planning on getting a toddler.

What if there's no available ones?

It's not like you can exactly be picky, and getting one that's 10 or so will make it impossible for you to lie to him about being his/her mom.

I'll tell you what, don't lie at all, it builds bad habits with kids.

Anyway you never answered me, would you rather a male or a female?

>>5326

The worse part is how much she and her family situation reminds me of myself.

So I'm forced to sit with my hands tied and see it happen all over again.

>>5317

>Wait what did your wife tell you after 15 years?

The unvarnished truth about what girls (at least from the 80s) considered a real catch and how I'd failed in almost every respect to be that. After she laid out those points, I felt betrayed both by her and my old female friends from high school who never bothered telling me that I was barking up the wrong tree.

>>5318

>That gave me a laugh.

Laugh all you want, but the projections due to migrant influx, rape, murder, and misguided coupling are not hopeful.

>If it makes you fell better, I could raise some abandoned white kid, so that the white race repopulates one by one.

We'll take what we can get, but a lot of white kids are abandoned because of birth defects or were taken away because the mothers were addicts, and may have passed it on down during pregnancy. Do your due diligence before falling in love with the little rugrat.

>>5319

>If I tell such news from the beginning tho, it will become a part of them and they will cope with it better.

Well, the fact is that children become teenagers, and teenagers are loose cannons at the best of times. It will depend on the child, of course, but you may find a lot of "you're not my REAL mother" being painfully flung at you like shuriken. Also, there will be the inevitable "search for who I really am," and that will probably be hard on both of you and expensive.

>>4772

This is why being a male is 100000 times shittier than being a woman. Women can put on make-up to cover up their face, males have to "cover up" their soul.

>>4787

Women don't want men to understand them, just like a cartel doesn't want you to understand how they fix peanut butter prices. The truth is that evolution gave males a sexual vulnerability backdoor for women to ruthlessly exploit and women don't want the gravy train to stop, ever.

Pity poor men who are genetically programmed to expect love and romance and instead get devoured as fuel for women and the next generation.

>>4830

>Neopets is a real game guise. I'm a guuurrl gamer! :^)

No offense but this is where the "girls don't play real games" meme comes from. I'm not necessarily hating on Neopets though. And I'm aware there are girls who actually play real games. Although to be fair, it's as >>4829 this anon said. And frankly I always see girls play games on low difficulties. I know some girls irl who played Persona 5 and Nier: Automata, my two favorite games of the year. But they played them very casually. By "casually" I mean they played them on the lower difficulties (never on hard mode, mostly on normal, but my friend told me she switched to easy for all the boss fights in both P5 and Automata because it was "too hard"), and they never really tried to do all the side quests or get all the best gear/items/weapons (or Personas in P5's case). I know a girl who is going to cosplay as Futaba and didn't even manage to finish the game. They played the games mostly for the characters, somewhat for the story, but not at all for the game itself. Granted I really liked the story and characters too (Automata could've been presented in any medium and I would have loved it), but still… girls don't really play games. And all the exceptions are pet simulators like Neopets (sorry) and that copy of Digimon, and occasionally games where they can cosplay as one of the girl characters afterwards (FF15, Nier, Persona, Overwatch, Zelda etc).

Am I making sense? Girls play really casual games mostly, and when they actually play a real game, it's not for the love of games, it's because they saw a character (usually female) they thought looked cool. And usually they wanna do cosplay (which is fine and cool and all, my point isn't against cosplay). A good example is my sister. She has watched the Persona movies because she likes the characters. But she has no interest in playing the games, even though she's played games before, because she's just not that into the games themselves… because she's a girl

I've never seen a girl play a game that was purely just a game, and couldn't be anything else. Pretty much every grand strategy game comes to mind. You'll never find a girl who plays Hearts of Iron because there's no story or cool anime-ass characters involved. You can't really cosplay as a NATO map symbol (you could try, I guess). Or games like Stalker, where it's all dudes. They're not interested in the games themselves, as far as I can tell. It's for the characters, or the community (usually beta-orbiters, they like the attention they get).

And in competitive game tournaments, women never make it very far (personal experience and the general consensus of the people I know). And no I don't think Neopets counts. Sorry.

>>5366

Pic related. A Neopets meme.

>>5366

That sounds like one very specific brand of autism.

Now it's out of the question the fact you're a neet, i don't think it could be more clear.

However, from personal experience, for a girl to shut down like that there needs to be a specific trauma that leads to many future problems.

I'm tempted to guess one of those is bipolar disorder, and maybe slight ocd.

Did i get it right?

I can do better if you give me more info on yourself.

>>4933

>If all they can tell me in any given basiss is "you are pretty" and "I am so lucky to have you"… Are they really worth a damn?

Um, yes? Is someone's genuine love and compassionate towards you truly not enough? In this streamlined, machine-like world, where people live in cities full of hundreds of thousands if not MILLIONS of people who they'll never meet, who they'll never give a shit about, to find someone who wants you to be a part of their world, who wants to protect and exalt you, out of the millions of others… that's really not enough for you?

>Would you date a girl who only showed these personality traits? And nothing else to shine?

Yes. Those are the kinds of people who I want as my friends and lovers. They can have other personality traits that I love them for, but the act of being compassionate and loyal to me is more than enough.

You're asking for a lot otherwise…

>>5376

>Um, yes? Is someone's genuine love and compassionate towards you truly not enough?

Anon, zone in with me for a second.

They say the first year puts most couples at risk, and do you know why's that?

Because one of the two partners, usually the dominant one, gets bored and moves on.

I had girls in love with me that could barely do much more than being lovey dovey shitheads.

It's an ego boost, but it gets stale fast.

The most enjoyement you can find out of girls like that is turning them into grand perverts and then toss them like a used sock once you're out of things to try.

>tl;dr you are blinded by your loneliness and lack of experience

>>5379

>avoids the question

Sure thing buddy, I'll pretend like i didn't see anything.

Videogames are not the reason I'm judging you, by the way.

>>5287

BO did you see my banner? I made it [pic related]

>>5383

>>5386

Oh, I hadn't seen it and I had been lurking for a little while; I wasn't sure. Thanks BO.

I want to start a thread asking about siblings, but I've started a thread already and don't want to post too much. I have such an inkling that half of these guys never had an older sister that taught them anything - it seems like they'd go to a tea party and begin debating over the best way to make tea because the competition over being "right" is just too irresistable. Or maybe that's just the internet.

>>4782

>"Would you be interested in talking elsewhere? No pressure"

I just saw a webm of some poor, screaming beaner getting skinned alive, and I didn't so much as flinch watching that 'but, this post… this post almost made me pull a muscle from how hard I cringed.

>>5397

>"I'm probably the least sexually starved anon in the entire website"

>trying this hard on a traditional Taiwanese fingerpainting forum

BO, my sweet. Before I proceed any further:

How much should I read into that whole "don't be rude" thing?

Would bullying this hapless faggot be a bannable offense?

>>5397

What.

>>5402

Gouge his eyes out if you so please.

for posterity.

Thanks to everyone who made this screencap possible

>>5407

Jesus Christ, why don't you ban OP already? I've seen a fuck ton of delusional self-castrated omega-orbiters but none came even close to his power level, and that's just his online presence. Never once in my life I felt obliged to genuinely call someone creepy, but he sure as hell is the first one I call so.

Snailgrill, be the stronk and assertive womyn for once and send his desperate virgin-weener to >>>/cuckchan/ where he belongs.

>>5413

Nevermind "creepy", this shit's just plain painful to read, tbh.

>>5414

You fucking kike, by giving him the attention he so desperately seeks you feed his mental illness through some sort of abstract confirmation bias. By being passively allowed to spread his degeneracy he feels like he's somehow acceptable, while he is clearly not.

>>5415

That's a given. Just had the urge to say I find this genuinely creepy, even though I'm a man.

>>5420

>So should he be banned?

YES

Cant ban him until he breaks a rule or gets more creepy.

>>5424

Alright I'll listen to you.

Still waiting on this tho >>5416