>>20908
>faggot man opining where his kind is not welcome
>>20685
It's probably too late for this advice to matter, but there's a few things to consider:
1) I would never advocate having sex without a lifelong commitment. You are supposed to be better than that, not some object.
2) There is nothing wrong with any particular activity, but there's infinite wrong ways to go about it.
3) You should be clean and nice if you're going to do anything at all, and that applies here too.
4) Use lube and don't rush if you're doing backdoor anything.
5) You should definitely experiment beforehand by yourself before trying anything with a man, just to ensure that you are okay with it and into it.
6) Life advice–don't be attracted to assholes because they will misuse yours. He best be considerate for anything like that.