>>19607
>if anyone cares to know what happened, I didn't break up with him!
>>19605
>That's an amazing turn of events, I'm so glad for you!
Yes! Here here! Glad it worked out and especially glad to hear that he listened to your concerns. Do you see now that an ultimatum would have been terrible? Thanks for checking back in and letting us know what happened too.
I know everyone is supposed to hate everyone else right now for having political opinions that are different but it's amazing how many people I know "on the right" (which is mostly just center and center-right people, even some center left!) just put up with differing views as a fact of life vs. how many on this new hysterical left will openly disown friends and loved ones and/or try and ruin their lives over it. Fucking scary cult, I swear. Once you sin you must be excommunicated! Heretic! Shit's fucked.
Anywho, you don't need friends like those, trust me. I dumped half a dozen just like that about 10 yrs ago, including a life-long childhood friend (I still have baby-pics of us together ffs) who went full-on feminazi, and I don't regret it for a millisecond. I just slowly backed away to preserve my own nerves and sanity and never returned. I only feel bad that someone who was once cool af and close as kin turned to the perpetual outrage culture and will likely never be happy again. But my actions are validated every time someone shows me her social media which is never ending Trump impeachment screeching. But I digress…
Not to sound patronizing, but you sound pretty young by the way you type. If so, it's really good that you learned this lesson about backstabbing "friends" early in life even though I'm sure it was a shitshow while it was happening. Don't hate them though, just pity them and be comfy with your bf. Also, don't sweat the small stuff like him wanting an extra hour or two to play vidya because it truly doesn't matter in the end. That's the best advice this old fart can give you. :)