Helloooooo 8chan. I'm facing a bit of a dilemma here. For the past few years I've been very into the femdom fetish, with a pretty heavy dip into findom. I've never actually interacted with a domme and have pretty much just left it at fantasizing myself in those situations.
For just about the same amount of time I've had a friendship going with a female friend who herself seemed pretty dominant, but seemed to have no inclination that this fetish even existed. Recently however, she mentioned in casual discussion with me that she'd discovered both findom and femdom and that she had some interest in it. Knowing her, she generally brings up a topic for a short period and completely forgets about it. However, after a period of not bringing it up, she recently joined a new group chat that, while not explicitly telling me what said chat was about, I was able to glean enough information of the comments she would make and the photos that she would show me that this group chat is indeed a chat for subs and dommes.
Here is where my dilemma arises. She has been a good friend for a very long period of time, but I've also fantasized about her being my domme and I her sub. I can't decide whether I should risk our friendship for a chance to live out my fantasy and, if I do decide to risk it, how I would be able to go about doing so. So, fellow subs, what do we think?