No.362359
This is for those boys that are looking for a LDR whether it be long time or short term this is where you find them.
>ASL
>What you want from the relationship
>Contact
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No.362367
>>362359
>LDR
>get sad every time he goes to sleep when i wake up
>get sad every time when i fall asleep, as when he wakes up
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No.362370
>>362367
You sound so clingy that I want to be that guy for you..
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No.362372
>>362370
So you want to be woken up and see that you have received 20 messages from me? And then i stay up all night so when i get one message from you i instantly reply and then speak until 4am until i pass out, even though i have to go to work 4 hours.
I literally have lost interest in speaking to anyone else. I came here for the first time in ages so i could pretend im messaging him
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No.362373
>>362372
Wew i just read over that i feel so sorry for him
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No.362376
>when not even online people reply
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No.362388
Pro tip on LDRs
Don't fucking do them unless you want to develop an even greater sense of loneliness, clingyness, and emptiness.
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No.362394
>>362372
Yes I want all those things what you just said. Not every relationship is the same and not every experience is the same.
I’m sorry you miss him, I don’t want to replace him if you can’t let go but if you need someone I am here.
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No.362400
>>362394
>if you need someone I am here
>>362388
Better than the 3 cunts that live in Australia
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No.362402
>>362400
Honestly, i just want someone to just text me everyday and have phone calls and actually connect rather than just meaningless sex with no convos and to find out my femboy cheating and connecting with other guys.
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No.362404
I just want someone to love me in return I will give the person all my love and attetion I want someone to bond with someone that I can chat with snd have some fun in general why is it so hard to find someone nice noe days ? :(
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No.362405
>>362404
You are preaching the gospel!
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No.362409
Anyway All I want is love and affection here's my discord id #9884 and my kik account is called Hoppyrabbitt pls gib love
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No.362412
>>362409
where you from, buddy ?
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No.362413
>>362412
Not sure if I want to say where I live….a bit scared
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No.362418
>>362413
Then, which canton?
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No.362425
I was in an ldr once and it's way too stressful tbqh with you all
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No.362438
There's actually this dude I've talked to a while on Discord who I want to meet up with, but he's way out in Asia. I'm not really the 'cute' kind of guy, but he's pretty cute, especially his butt. It's nice to talk to a cute guy who's into you. We even came up with this kinky little scenario today.
>we're talking about 'almost caught' porn
>we begin to make up the scene
>a bunch of fellow regs on the discord would be there for a meet up
>we'd all watch a movie, but we are missing an extra seat for a person
>he'd volunteer to sit on my lap
>he'd be wearing on of those those super long, baggy sweatshirts, tight short shorts, and pink-and-white striped thigh-high socks
>be in a solo recliner seat behind everyone else with him on my lap
>few minutes after film starts, he'd start giving a 'ssh' gesture with a cute grin as he grinded against my bulge
>eventually, pants would be undone and he'd slip my dong into is hole (lubed, of course)
>start slowly and quietly fucking
>after some nibbles and a bit of riding, we'd eventually orgasm together
>hide it
>pretend like nothing happened and go along with the meet up
Also, sage for going a bit off-topc.
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No.362535
>>362359
The truth of LDRs is: they suck. I'm currently in a LDR that devolved from a physical relationship, and it gets unbearable sometimes. We haven't seen each other in a few months now…
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No.362536
>talk to person online
>not really much of my type but he's tolerable
>give him my phone # and we talk more for a while
>never spoke over the phone since both of us were autistic and there was a high chance we'd sperg out and embarrass ourselves
>says he wants to be my boyfriend
>ok
>calls me babe and all these other sweet things but it stops there and does not really get anymore interesting
>realize having a boyfriend in another state you hardly know for more than looks, conversations on steam and one time he sent you a pic is pants on foot retarded when its all put into perspective
>last replied to you 6 weeks ago
do N O T fall for the LDR meme, you are much better offer ERP'ing with someone from /lbgt/ than actually making decent non stressful progress with someone who you actually have a strong interest in
>but i met my long time boyfriend on this anonymous dick and butt posting boypussy bulletin board
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No.362558
>>362535
What's unbearable? How far away from it are you
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No.362559
>>362558
from him* sorry i was thinking about something else as i was typing
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No.362694
>>362558
The unbearable part is being physically intimate, and having that be suddenly removed from your life
It's a 11 hour drive…
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No.362729
>>362694
>>362438
are you worried he's fucking around on you? Personally I'm way to insecure to not think that which is why i can't do them
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No.362788
>>362729
No not at all, we're both very much so in love with each other (professions of love, talking whenever we can, talking dirty/sending nudes, etc.) and I totally trust him to not cheat
But, nothing will ever come close to the feeling of his body next to mine. Plus, I conversation is always better had in person.
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No.362812
This thread reminds me that I'll probably see my boyfriend only in 3-4 years. It makes makes me sad sometimes how interesting people are always distant from you.
At least we are patient. I hope it all works out in the end…
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No.362826
>>362812
>I'll probably see my boyfriend only in 3-4 years.
Why not go to meet him? Plane tickets aren't that expensive…
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No.362902
>>362788
same problem with my LDR as soon as were not physically together everything becomes a disaster within weeks even though were both in full acceptance of being madly in love and definite soulmates 7 years later after trying to move on multiple times
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No.362949
Hmm, I'm down for a LDR I guess. In the end, they're hit or miss (I've actually had a friend recently get married to her wow buddy), but the lack of intimacy thing is bogus I guess. Works for me though, too much a part of the online void to really want much irl anyways
What I want from it? Someone to message at 1:00am I guess and say is sort of mine and to voidpost or get into fringe shit with
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No.362957
>>362826
Sometimes It's a lot more complicated than jumping on a plane. I'd have met up with my LDR last year if the price of a plane ticket was the only thing stopping us, but things aren't so simple.
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No.362991
Does anyone want to try fall in love online? I will come visit you if we are successful, and if all goes well I can move in with you. I am a cuteboy type looking for other cuteboys generally. If anyone is interested reply with your Discord!
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No.362996
>>362991
does a non cuteboi have a chance tho
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No.363008
>>362729
I'm not very worried about it, considering what the 'relationship' is. I'll be honest, it's mainly casual lewd conversations between him and I, there is no full-blown thing going on between us, but I'd really like to have one with him. He seems a bit more casual and understanding of sex, like what to do and how to pleasure someone, while I'm still a virgin. It's just that there's such a distance to meet him, and I don't have that money.
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No.363023
LDRs can work but if you don't have an instant spark with someone then you have to work on the relationship to develop it. It isn't going to just happen.
Ideally if you're willing to go the LDR route then you have to do certain things as soon as possible. One is talking on the phone as much as possible, ideally every day and I don't mean just dirty talking either, regular conversations about your life, your day, your feelings etc. Talking intimately about your life with someone you've never met before is hard but it gets easier the more you do it. Just don't let awkward silences bother you, ride them out, talk about whatever pops into your head.
The other thing you should do is meet. You should meet the other person asap. LDRs have a limited shelf life and are predicated on the idea that your relationship will at some point become corporeal. Meeting early on is a good test. Don't give an LDR more than 6 months with someone you've never met if your heart (or theirs) isn't really in it. Dragging out a fantasy will just end up destroying one of you.
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No.363122
>>360323
Damn anon, you sound like you're talking from experience :/ You okay?
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No.363292
Someone willing to deal with my horrible social awkwardness and murderer-face.
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No.366769
>tfw in LDR relationship for 3 years now
>Partner is older than me and still in colege
>tfw working my ass off (Living in third world country sucks) and trying to get past family problem (They pretty much hates fags)
>partner slowly becomes more and more quiet
>there are days where he's just straight up isn't interested with talks
>Partner drops out from college and lives off from neetbux, gets depressed and suicidal
>Gets angry when I try to encourage and support him financially
>Suddenly, recently he introduces more and more friends to me and said that he's very polyamorous and into cuckolding.
>He's become less active with me, and spends most of the day with his friends and playing vidya
I loved him, I've always been there for him even though there are times he isn't there for me. I feel like I'm clingy and have abandonment issues (I've been cheated and backstabbed by my 3 exes) and I know in my heart that this is a ticking time bomb and most likely will end up awful at the end.
I've just recently got myself ready to visit him, but the problem is "Should I?"
Back then, I have no issue in wanting to visit him but now that it's like this. I'm not sure anymore. I should be talking with him but how do you talk with your partner who'd only read your messages, never talks about his days and just.. isn't interested anymore?
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No.398338
>>366769
I feel sorry for you. I have similar social situation concerning fag acceptance. My relationship with bf is getting worse but we can still communicating honestly which is great. Seeing this thread showed me how good me and my bf have it and how its worth fighting for our relationship.
As for your question… If I were you, I'd probably keep asking him if he would be okay with me coming over. If you can are confident enough you cant fend off any would be rapey creeps go meet him. You say you have good opportunity now. So go there move forward your relationship, for the better or worse.
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