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>We ignore bits
Common misconception. Usually it so happens that the principles of the faith as it is lived align with sanity. Sometimes though decisions must be made and this can make those decisions look odd from an outsiders perspective. There aren't really many people who strongly identify with their religion and compromise on it as you can imagine. I don't know how this meme got started but it's fairly trite when you start looking at people's real motivations.
>Internalizing Christian values
I tend to sort things according to importance; there is at the height of importance the Great Commandment "love your neighbor as yourself and love God etc." The rest of the Bible to me is an iteration of all the things that the Great Commandment means, and Christ's origins (the old testament is not about history and the world's origins per se, it is primarily about Christ's origins). This seems strange, but it actually makes perfect sense.
At any rate, it sometimes leads to odd conclusions; for instance some people seem to have this attitude where they say "you claim to worship the prince of peace, so why is it that you Christians never give anyone any peace?" But the fact that we tend to intervene is based on the belief in the idea that morality is an eternal truth. This doesn't mean we're primarily seeking to be annoying, but it does lead to upset and a degree of mistrust. This is probably why people started the meme that we ignore bits of the Bible; if we're hypocrites we can be safely ignored.
This is also why the creationism debate is so harmful on our end, if we go in for young earth creationism the world can deride us for stupidity, and so our values can be ignored, yet if we don't fit into that narrow framework, again hypocrisy, so equally worth ignoring. Consequently I follow the old approach where everything in the Bible is ultimately about elucidating the nature of Christ as God, rather than being a primarily historical account.
So overall, I ignore no parts, but if for instance you told me about the bit where God tells the Israelites to genocide the Canaanites, and to not make peace with them or allow them to live, I interpret this as being essentially God's Machiavellian way of ensuring future peace. In other words, if you have an enemy, it is immoral not to neutralize that enemy, because if you do any less, you are just giving hardship to your children.
Anyway, these are just my thoughts on some popular questions.