Hi my fellow brothers, I finally got my first girlfriend the other week and I was ecstatic and I did want to try convert her and make her wait. I’d talked to her about it before I asked her and she said she was open to church though the waiting till marria

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Christanon 04/21/19 (Sun) 21:06:50 7000b4 No.799064

Hi my fellow brothers, I finally got my first girlfriend the other week and I was ecstatic and I did want to try convert her and make her wait. I’d talked to her about it before I asked her and she said she was open to church though the waiting till marriage thing was still up in the air.

I'm a Christian, but unfortunately last week I succumbed to my temptations and lustful feelings and lost my virginity to this same girl and then again proceeded to have sex again today. I had always dreamed of having intercourse after marriage however, first by starting masturbating, now by breaking that sacred act of sex, I've only pushed myself lower and lower towards the point of no return.

I need your help Christanons.

I've realised after both these times, I really don't enjoy sex, I feel dead and unphased afterwards, it doesn't satisfy me at all and I just feel shame and indifferrent. Im 22 but I only fapped for the first time when I was 21 and then after that semi-frequently. Though Ive been on a short no-fap streak so far and plan to power through it.

I don't want to have sex anymore and I'm not having the "best time ever" with my gf even though I always thought once I get my first gf it would be non stop fun.

My faith has been lacking, I've not been in church for over a year, my life is also off track and I spend my days depressed at home or depressed at work,

I feel like maybe I need to cut off this relationship but I'm lost, misguided and confused.

I'm ashamed and disappointed in myself and I've let God down with my actions.

I don't know what to do. I do like this girl and she’s such a sweet and kind person and I truly wish not to hurt her but I am lost and don’t know what to do at this point in time and how to convey my concerns and feelings.

Please help me.

Christanon 04/21/19 (Sun) 21:11:03 49225e No.799067

>>799064

>I'm a Christian, but unfortunately last week I succumbed to my temptations and lustful feelings and lost my virginity to this same girl and then again proceeded to have sex again today

Dump her, thank me later.

Context: she makes you sin, will not respect any other principles you have in the future and is easy to have sex with.

NOT WIFE MATERIAL

Christanon 04/21/19 (Sun) 21:15:18 3c6fc7 No.799071

>getting a non-Christian partner

>masturbating

>committing fornication multiple times

>not going to church for a year

>being depressed

Whew. I hope this is a troll.

But in case it's not… You are the farthest away from God you possibly could be. Thankfully, this is the Easter, the period of the resurrection, and so it's a good time to resurrect from the death you're in.

Go to church, ask the priest/pastor you know. Break contact with your idolater girlfriend. Stop indulging in sexual immorality. Stop indulging in despair and acedia. Of course you probably can't do all these at once, but this is what you will have to do in the long run, you know.

>I do like this girl and she’s such a sweet and kind person and I truly wish not to hurt her but I am lost and don’t know what to do at this point in time and how to convey my concerns and feelings.

2 Corinthians 6:14

>Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?

You should also read Ezra and Nehemiah. God hates mixing between His people and idolaters.

Christanon 04/21/19 (Sun) 21:15:25 a6f77a No.799073

>>799064

No comment on the relationship, but churchgoing will allay the confusion and depression, also prayer will help with both.

Christanon 04/21/19 (Sun) 21:17:49 a6f77a No.799076

>>799071

>2 Corinthians 6:14

She's probably not that bad. I was in a worse state when I met the girl who brought me to church for the first time as an adult.

Christanon 04/21/19 (Sun) 23:33:45 7000b4 No.799117

>>799067

Do you reckon it’s worth trying to reason and ask her if she’s willing to change

>>799071

I jut want to leave this pit of despair and sin.

I’ll give those a read.

>>799073

I will pray tonight, also talking to her about how I feel.