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The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

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287522  No.795747

Every day from around 2-6 pm I feel suicidal despair. This has been going on for years. I do cardio and lift regularly, eat healthfully, and have a consistent sleep schedule of 8 hours. I've tried sleeping more but I can't. In the past, I tried every anti-depressant. I ran out of options to try. I tried therapy. I have been to the doctor, and we could only find I had hypothyroidism, but that has been treated for several years and my levels are normal with medication.

I did experience some childhood trauma, but I think over the past several years I've been able to understand it and not be consumed by it.

As a child, I moved away from Christianity because I saw problems with the church, and I did not have good role models. My father and aunt were the most religious people in my life, and they weren't very good role models. My dog had ran away on a Sunday, and my aunt said we could not look for him because we had to go to church. My father and mother were so abusive to one another that I thought they were going to murder each other. They would blame me for the violence as I hid in my room, terrified. My home felt like a torture chamber, and this caused me a lot of problems in adulthood. I went from a fairly happy, upbeat child to a depressed adult who was so nervous I couldn't speak sometimes. This shaped all my choices in adulthood. I also felt like I lost a woman I loved because of it.

In college, I wanted to be spiritual but not religious. I learned about philosophy and various religious, but I felt lost. I tried being very liberal, and engaging in sins that I had previously avoided. I thought if I engaged in these same activities that "everyone seems to do," so to speak, I may feel more connected to people. It did not. I tried being Christian and praying to Jesus, but I felt despair. I became an atheist, thinking science could provide me an anchor, but it did not.

Over the past 3-4 years, like many people on here, I "became redpilled" and started seeing through at least some of the falsehoods of our society. Somewhere over the past several months, I found God. I experienced Him in a way that I never had before, in a way that I knew was true. It was like he placed His hand on my shoulder, so to speak. I am so grateful to have had this experience.

I have been reading the Bible and repenting for sins. I realized in the past, I wanted to connect with God because I wanted to avoid the punishment of Hell. But now, for the first time I strive to be good and repent for the sins I commit because I want to be a good son to my Father. As I write this before going to bed, I can feel God's love.

But during the time of 2-6, I feel such despair. I can't feel God's love. I've realized that the one thing I needed in my life since my chaotic childhood was Love. I don't know why I feel so depressed during this time. It frightens me. It does not matter if I am at work, home, or on vacation.

I don't know what to do during this time to combat this. I feel Satan's presence, especially when I feel suicidal.

23b31e  No.795752

there can be lots of reasons for this anon, but keep praying to the Lord for healing and look into mindfulness meditation (basically just learning to be aware of the world internally and externally. a common way is to close eyes and listen to the sound of own breath and bring into awareness surroundings. You are not your thoughts you are not your feelings. ypu can observe them passively and the more you can do this the closer you can get to finding source of inner anguish)

, keep on keeping on. It is encouraging to hear your testimony anon. Godspeed


2bdf04  No.795782

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That's a strange phenomenon, but clearly you don't want to commit suicide. Perhaps 2-6pm is the time of day that you've internalized as being most emotionally trying due to the past. My parents were very good to me (perhaps too good but that's a different story) nevertheless 2-6pm is prime-time for a fight.

It's roughly 2 hours after lunch that everyone needs a snickers or they're gonna kill, then it only takes another couple of hours for the man to get a beer, which women take as a personal affront, then someone has to make dinner, and chores. Combine all that with two bad personalities and you can see some shit in an afternoon.

Recommendations? Pray earnestly whenever you have such feelings for Christ to help and save you and for Satan to leave. This can be hard if you are new to the faith. I remember that the thing that kept me away from Christianity far longer than it should have was prayer, and when I was converted inwardly it was still tough for a while thereafter.

It can be hard to pray like this if you are unwilling or lack faith, this may be due to some hidden pride, or fear or embarrassment. In our atheistic times, prayer is considered superstitious, so nobody ever questions why they don't. Usually though it's pride (the feeling that prayer is weak), fear (that the way you do it is wrong) or embarrassment (feeling inauthentic and silly). It is only when you realize that you are weak, that you do pray incorrectly but God doesn't care, and that you are a silly, inauthentic creature, that you will master prayer. There is a secret pride in not praying, and a secret despair in giving it up even when it seems silliest, however, formulaic prayers like the rosary can help you start, and give you some rudimentary vocabulary so you don't feel like you're doing it wrong at least.

How will prayer help control your thoughts? This is another thing atheistic thinking gets wrong, often our thoughts are deeply wired into us, so they take over in certain situations. This is what it actually means to be triggered, and once the trigger is present, you behave in certain ways or have certain emotions. What prayer does, is reassert the authority of the self, over the programming that is so deeply wired that sometimes you feel like you are merely the observer as another self goes about its business. This is why you have to recognize the emotions and act quickly so that you are not overthrown by the demon. It is very important to learn this, after all, if you were physically wounded, wouldn't you yell? Why is it when we are emotionally wounded therefore, that we do not pray?

Anyway, take care anon and may the peace of Christ go with you


2015e7  No.795841

Something must make you more prone to demonic assault during these hours. Perhaps work through them with minimal thought and blind trust in God, finding the fruits of your labor as motivation out of such a state


0e5a83  No.796403

Eh, I've heard of this in a book by St. John Of The Ladder. He mentions about the demon of acedia (uninije) striking in the afternoon, telling one to abandon prayer, making the head feel heavy, and such. The closest english term would be "sloth", I guess.

Have you tried confessing? What about communion?

I am at sort of a crossroad myself. I know that what everyone is saying, the Church, the monks, that God is the right way to solve problems. But whenever I tell myself that I will confess, like, next Saturday or the Saturday after that, I feel so scared. Like, if I choose to follow God, I run out of things to say to my girlfriend. Literally, I try to force things to my mind but they just feel wrong. Or, I can't study, I keep trying to make myself be pious or whatever, and these thoughts keep me distracted and I can't study.

But I feel like I need to go back to practicing the religion, everything was better back then. I mean, I aced the test at my school because I was so full of energy, I went to church and hardly missed a service…

tl;dr I want to repent but I can't, I try to start but everything just starts going to **, not that it's not ** already but whatever…


e05323  No.796511

Try taking a vacation to a different timezone and see what happens.


287522  No.796592

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Thank you everyone. If any others have advice, I appreciate it.

>>796403

I have not confessed since I was a child. I've only been to church a few times with relatives since I was 18. I don't know why. I don't feel like I can relate to most people in church. I also feel like a lot of priests are speaking truthfully. I'm on my own reading the bible, praying, and texts.

Thank you for mentioning St. John of the Ladder. I have his writings on my list. The ladder is an important image/idea to me. I do not know about that demon. I do feel like I can't feel love, including God's love, during this time. I feel possessed.

>>796511

Really?




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