https://www.papastronsay.com/fssr/Vocation/marks_of_vocation.html
Some souls are preserved from the delusions of the world, and opened to the call of God, through sorrow, disgust or social rejection.
Would such souls have sought consolation only in God, if the world had loved them? Would they have known the sweetness of God, if the world had not maltreated and banished them from its society? It is God who permits such harsh treatment and refusals to befall them. He causes thorns to spring over all their pleasures, in order to prevent their reposing thereon. They would never have belonged to God, had the world desired them; and they would have been adverse to Him, had the world not been adverse to them. It is thus that the Lord breaks the fetters, by which the world held them in bondage.
https://www.papastronsay.com/fssr/Vocation/advantages_of_religious_state.html
this goes over it's benefits
Religous life is objectively superior to non-religous life