I went to see a phsyc/counsellor/therapist person recently (second session of four) and have to say it kinda seems BS.
On the one hand he made perfect sense with the main thrust of their thing being 'stop wasting your life and just get on with it' (it being living your life according to your stated values and to reach your goals) but on the other he couldn't care less about the disjunct i was finding between that motivational prompt and the meaninglessness/purposelessness of an existence without God/objective morality and he kept saying to forget about those questions and just pretend those questions/problems don't exist (my paraphrase not his words).
All they're concerned with is relieving a tension that is causing aunguish between how a person is acting and how that person feels about how they're acting, their behaviour and their values. When these conflict the results mean psychologists etc. can get involved. FWIW it seems it could be arranged in one of two ways, either:
>someone is engaging in behaviour which causes negative emotions, concience telling you behaviour is wrong, go to phsyc to find out what's triggering behaviours under the deep (what the behaviour is it a symptom of), what is triggering the emotions, how to stop so behaviour can be in line with your concience and morals, general will for your life direction etc.
or
>someone is engaging in behaviour which causes negative emotions, concience telling you behaviour is wrong, go to phsyc to find out what's triggering the negative emotions, find out how to stop associating behaviour with the emotion and seek to throw off concience, shame, guilt, negative emotions etc, and instead how to accept, own and celebrate behaviour resulting in a creation of a new set of morals or moral standard for you to live by and continue desired behaviour without negative emotions
I assume the former is more common however I'm also pretty certain that at the end of the day a secular therapist is obliged to acknowledge that the latter is valid (so long as the behaiour is not unlawful or at risk of putting people in danger). Where the person says ' these are my values and this is my 'problem' behaviours - there is a conflict between them, my behaviour is making me unhappy because of my morality and expectations - please help me re-align my expectations and my values so I can continue the behaviour' you know that this is not compatible with Christianity.