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>>727991

Not christian related.

But she was probably texting that other guy at the same time as you and she chose the other guy. Or she's genuinely unaware of the natural relationship between men and women and thought that behaviour is normal amoung friends (it's not)

If a girl starts pulling the "umm btw I have a boyfriend" gag disengage immediately. It's not okay to be alone with someone else's girlfriend/wife. Even if she's making it up

>>727992

>It's not okay to be alone with someone else's girlfriend/wife

I would like to note that this behavior is something you take up individually and out of your own free will. That's all.

It literally doesn't matter. Move on.

wanted to field test how she can easily seduce someone into spending money for her

I got led on in HS by multiple different girls. Every time, the girl was trying to make her boyfriend jealous. Don't ask me why.

>>727998

>4hrs

this must be a record!

>>727991

There isnt much to say, you got thoted.

No point longing for her now, use rationality, she spend hours talking/flirting with men while having a boyfriend, do you really want to pursuit a relationship with someone like that? You'd suffer the same fate as that boyfriend.

>>727992

FPBS. I sympathize with your suffering OP but it's best to just move on.

>>727991

You turned out not to be her type and she didn't know how to break it to you apart from the "I already have a boyfriend".

Also, go post somewhere else you stupid brat.

>>727991

I suppose this is somewhat normal. Men and women are different. These are the stages that the women go through when falling in love:

1. A woman becomes aroused when she gets attention by men. Therefore, she will try to impress the men. She will be happy when she has the attention of the men. The more the better.

2. Then she starts interacting with one or more men. She will expect that the men will try to impress her (by humour, by gallantry, by gifts, by empathy). She will enjoy the company of all men she has. Notice: at this point she doesn't feel committed to any of them! She is only testing them.

3. Men will make advances, she will step back. This is like a game of bidding where the highest bidder wins.

4. At some point she will choose one of her wooers. She will become emotionally very attached to him, she will love him, she will trust him, she will depend on him. If this is a young inexperienced girl and someone leaves her while she is in stage 4, this will be disaster for her, some girls may even become suicidal.

You should also know that women are not very rationalistic beings. They will go through stages 1. to 4. intuitively without much rational deliberation. (I mean, they will think a lot, but not in the way a man would think.)

>>727991

Hey kiddo, just remember that women think differently. They don't "have" a boyfriend, they are constantly weighing their options and deciding who they would rather have. This is totally normal and even beneficial; don't be resentful or get caught up with feelings of rejection. If you keep in mind female behavior, you can be a step ahead. So in this circumstance, I'd say there's a 90% chance that if you start dating some other girl, this one will suddenly be all over; she might even leave her "boyfriend". Nothing is set in stone until marriage, so ignore all those "-friend" labels.

>some 13 year old niqqa meets a thot for the first time

>gets emotionally invested in her and then realises she's just being a hoe

Remember lads;

IF SHE BREATHES

I hope you're still watching this thread, OP. You have to be honest with yourself and admit you didn't want to be her friend. Sometimes you have to tell women "I didn't want to be your friend" and cut them off. You're not her moon, and she isn't your world. Stop orbiting around her. Unrequited love is a falsehood. I have found it to be unreciprocated infatuation. What most call falling in love is a pile of undeserved endearment and a dash of desire. I have found starving the infatuation and strangling it of any hope of development helps with moving on. I would be doing you a disservice if I didn't caution you about becoming proficient at this. It is possible to be hardened to the point of not letting yourself get invested into girls.

>>727991

Sounds to me like you lead yourself on, anon.